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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you all find it easy to tell if someone is not that into you?

Do you tell someone if you're not interested/they dont float your boat? Or just ignore them?

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By *aybe sometimeWoman
over a year ago

west yorkshire

Always reply truthfully..... manners cost nothing x

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes. Ignoring someone is just cowardly. I'm upfront and expect others to act the same way. It's just sex on here so no big deal and no need for amateur dramatics.

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Always reply truthfully..... manners cost nothing x"

this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry not my bag dude i like girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always reply truthfully..... manners cost nothing x"

Totally agree x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines"

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes and yes. Ignoring someone is just cowardly. I'm upfront and expect others to act the same way. It's just sex on here so no big deal and no need for amateur dramatics. "

Totally agree, you cant force someone to be attracted to you- sex doesnt work that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always reply truthfully..... manners cost nothing x

this! "

Yeah the way it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always reply truthfully and tell them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry not my bag dude i like girls "

Haha you saying I look like a man? ????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will always reply truthfully and tell them "

I do too

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though "

Actions are greater than words and you can certainly read into those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says on my profile that if i dont reply then its a no thanks. If they arent polite enough to read my profile then tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though "

I never rely solely on what someone says. If their actions tell you that what they are saying is bullshit then it's more than likely bullshit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though

Actions are greater than words and you can certainly read into those"

Yeah learning that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It says on my profile that if i dont reply then its a no thanks. If they arent polite enough to read my profile then tough "

Dont think many do read profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though

I never rely solely on what someone says. If their actions tell you that what they are saying is bullshit then it's more than likely bullshit!"

Alot of that going on then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m direct ..... people online don’t know how to take hints.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m direct ..... people online don’t know how to take hints....."

True know i dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry not my bag dude i like girls

Haha you saying I look like a man? ????"

No im saying they were the only messages i used to get before i knew what filters were for

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I usually reply with 'Thanks for your message but I'm not interested', 9/10 they appreciate that I've actually replied, the other 1/10 gets blocked.

No point beating around the bush about these things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry not my bag dude i like girls

Haha you saying I look like a man? ????

No im saying they were the only messages i used to get before i knew what filters were for"

Ah right lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually reply with 'Thanks for your message but I'm not interested', 9/10 they appreciate that I've actually replied, the other 1/10 gets blocked.

No point beating around the bush about these things!"

I'll remember that for future reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though

I never rely solely on what someone says. If their actions tell you that what they are saying is bullshit then it's more than likely bullshit!

Alot of that going on then ??"

I wouldn't know... they don't normally get far with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I myself am an open book, sometimes the pages stick together of others openness, I hope (can’t take that away from me) other’s would treat me as I them...if not interested now then say, if would be interested at a later date, then say. All here for the FABness, if I’m not for you or your partner/regular’ then say so I know that at least you are ‘really’ open here.

Above all else if in doubt, make private note and move on...remember women are goddesseses here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though

I never rely solely on what someone says. If their actions tell you that what they are saying is bullshit then it's more than likely bullshit!

Alot of that going on then ??

I wouldn't know... they don't normally get far with me! "

Wise woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I myself am an open book, sometimes the pages stick together of others openness, I hope (can’t take that away from me) other’s would treat me as I them...if not interested now then say, if would be interested at a later date, then say. All here for the FABness, if I’m not for you or your partner/regular’ then say so I know that at least you are ‘really’ open here.

Above all else if in doubt, make private note and move on...remember women are goddesseses here "

I try to be civil and courteous with all no reason to be mean or nasty just say sorry no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never had to say it as i dont get that many messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually reply with 'Thanks for your message but I'm not interested', 9/10 they appreciate that I've actually replied, the other 1/10 gets blocked.

No point beating around the bush about these things!"

Glad to hear the bush is making a comeback.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually reply with 'Thanks for your message but I'm not interested', 9/10 they appreciate that I've actually replied, the other 1/10 gets blocked.

No point beating around the bush about these things!

????

Glad to hear the bush is making a comeback.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iv never had to say it as i dont get that many messages "

Aw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I myself am an open book, sometimes the pages stick together of others openness, I hope (can’t take that away from me) other’s would treat me as I them...if not interested now then say, if would be interested at a later date, then say. All here for the FABness, if I’m not for you or your partner/regular’ then say so I know that at least you are ‘really’ open here.

Above all else if in doubt, make private note and move on...remember women are goddesseses here

I try to be civil and courteous with all no reason to be mean or nasty just say sorry no thank you"

Human nature is what we desire in common, makes sense to me for the human kindness to be given with as much vigour...I may http://www.craftcuts.com/media/catalog/product/cache/42/image/d9ae38d158c965cc5cb1d8e855ff745b/d/i/dimensional_shapes_basic_infinity_infinity_1.jpg your openness he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And when i do get a message on here we start having a chat then im blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's usually fairly easy to read between the lines

You think?? Some say the right words but actions dont tally up though

I never rely solely on what someone says. If their actions tell you that what they are saying is bullshit then it's more than likely bullshit!"

Exactly. I always look at the discrepancy between words and actions so as to know if people are really interested in me or not.

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