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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is a lot of negativity circulating in the Lounge some days.

Can you please remember that although we can talk about anything, it is not your job to bitch and nitpick and maybe take a minute to think before you post!

Is it nice, is it kind, is it necessary?

You have no idea what someone's personal circumstances may be, and this may be their safe place to post. The forums sometimes amazes me how we can come together to support and advise troubled souls, so I know we can do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a lot of negativity circulating in the Lounge some days.

Can you please remember that although we can talk about anything, it is not your job to bitch and nitpick and maybe take a minute to think before you post!

Is it nice, is it kind, is it necessary?

You have no idea what someone's personal circumstances may be, and this may be their safe place to post. The forums sometimes amazes me how we can come together to support and advise troubled souls, so I know we can do it!"
yes I agree what would you like for breakfast

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I cone here for fun, and try and spread the fun.

No point bitching in a place where I want to have fun.

Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you.

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"There is a lot of negativity circulating in the Lounge some days.

Can you please remember that although we can talk about anything, it is not your job to bitch and nitpick and maybe take a minute to think before you post!

Is it nice, is it kind, is it necessary?

You have no idea what someone's personal circumstances may be, and this may be their safe place to post. The forums sometimes amazes me how we can come together to support and advise troubled souls, so I know we can do it!"

Good post

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Well said OP.

Let’s all share the love today x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jolly well said lovely lady .

We could do with some splendid positivity today

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"There is a lot of negativity circulating in the Lounge some days.

Can you please remember that although we can talk about anything, it is not your job to bitch and nitpick and maybe take a minute to think before you post!

Is it nice, is it kind, is it necessary?

You have no idea what someone's personal circumstances may be, and this may be their safe place to post. The forums sometimes amazes me how we can come together to support and advise troubled souls, so I know we can do it!"

Thankfully it's only a few posters who create all the kerfuffle.

The rest of us are blimmin smashers......

Peace out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said OP! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed OP and well said. There has been a few threads that have gone a bit too far of late...

There are a few people on here who can, and do, manage to balance the sincerity, humour and sarcasm along with genuine advice and sexiness with great skills. It’s knowing when a thread requires which. Diffusing bithciness is often difficult.. but some manage to pull it off - not naming names.

Positivity. I’m late for work this morning because I woke up in a great mood! Ask me again when I get to the other end of the M62 though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a lot of negativity circulating in the Lounge some days.

Can you please remember that although we can talk about anything, it is not your job to bitch and nitpick and maybe take a minute to think before you post!

Is it nice, is it kind, is it necessary?

You have no idea what someone's personal circumstances may be, and this may be their safe place to post. The forums sometimes amazes me how we can come together to support and advise troubled souls, so I know we can do it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there are a few knowitalls that suck all the joy out of the forums these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of clouds on Fab.

If they fucked off it would be a brighter Forum.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Yes there are a few knowitalls that suck all the joy out of the forums these days

"

Fun hoovers or fun suckers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Another thread that turns into complaining about others...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a lot of clouds on Fab.

If they fucked off it would be a brighter Forum.

"
cumulus nimbus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But where’s the fun in that? The forums are most amusing when there’s a big barney going on!!

But yeah, joking aside, I’m just here to enjoy myself, and for the boobies! There’s plenty of other places on t’internet to go to if I wanted dramarama and heated debates.

I’m on this site ‘cos I want to get laid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Another thread that turns into complaining about others... "

They clearly haven't understood the intention of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this I know someone that posted yesterday with a question. Got the usual piss takers ended up hiding their profile and has stepped back from fab so what's funny to some isn't to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Another thread that turns into complaining about others...

They clearly haven't understood the intention of the thread. "

Personally I think any disputes / misunderstandings between female members should be resolved by a wrestling match in a baby oil filled paddling pool. In bikinis.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"There is a lot of negativity circulating in the Lounge some days.

Can you please remember that although we can talk about anything, it is not your job to bitch and nitpick and maybe take a minute to think before you post!

Is it nice, is it kind, is it necessary?

You have no idea what someone's personal circumstances may be, and this may be their safe place to post. The forums sometimes amazes me how we can come together to support and advise troubled souls, so I know we can do it!"
Could not agree more op...Be kind everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Another thread that turns into complaining about others...

They clearly haven't understood the intention of the thread.

Personally I think any disputes / misunderstandings between female members should be resolved by a wrestling match in a baby oil filled paddling pool. In bikinis. "

I prefer lime jelly

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"I agree with this I know someone that posted yesterday with a question. Got the usual piss takers ended up hiding their profile and has stepped back from fab so what's funny to some isn't to others "

That's not good at all. I hope that person gets involved again. Sometimes I am compelled to reply to stuff, other times I let it pass me by. Recent months I've posted less whilst getting myself in a better place. Like the OP said, I think through my replies and no-one knows what others are really going through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said op, I’ve been struggling in the forums for a while with all this negativity. I don’t mind a debate but why all the drama x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post, but there are many occasions when I’ve wanted to join in the debate, but the way the tone of the thread has gone has put me off.

Not because I’m shy or intimidated but because I don’t need the drama. Fab is my secret world of fun, if I wanted grief I’d go and see my daughter

I can see why those new to fab don’t join in forum debates, I’d been here months before taking the plunge and as I said I’m still very careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I post, but there are many occasions when I’ve wanted to join in the debate, but the way the tone of the thread has gone has put me off.

Not because I’m shy or intimidated but because I don’t need the drama. Fab is my secret world of fun, if I wanted grief I’d go and see my daughter

I can see why those new to fab don’t join in forum debates, I’d been here months before taking the plunge and as I said I’m still very careful "
your daughter awwwww

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