FabSwingers.com forum: About to delete profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Do you think man city will win the league again?

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

No that's fine, bye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol, of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No that's fine, bye. "

thanks for the support x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Lol, of course "

Money talks these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go"

Probably for the best. See ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah now, others have spent more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!"

have we upset anyone?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why delete...just hide your profile and come back if and when you want to xx

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go"

Why would you want to initiate conversations when you've decided to leave? And why bother to make the announcement in the first place?

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By *hrewsgirl0Woman
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Byeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buh bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ho long before you're back though....that is the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch this is rather a frosty reception

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!

have we upset anyone? "

I think people will wonder why others feel the need to say they are leaving , rather than just quietly go .

Yes , we are all attention seekers by being on here in the first place , but that one last hurrah when it’s announced on a thread that someone has chosen to leave always attracts the disdain of the forum .

If you are leaving because you’ve realized it isn’t for you , and all is good in your world , great .

If not and you were hoping people would beg you to stay , sorry it didn’t work out that way for you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye then no need for a drama about it

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!

have we upset anyone?

I think people will wonder why others feel the need to say they are leaving , rather than just quietly go .

If you are leaving because you’ve realized it isn’t for you , and all is good in your world , great .

If not and you were hoping people would beg you to stay , sorry it didn’t work out that way for you .

Sums it up perfectly.

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By *aturetemptressWoman
over a year ago

Knutsford

Goodbye

But I feel it won't be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is a tad awkward

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!

have we upset anyone?

I think people will wonder why others feel the need to say they are leaving , rather than just quietly go .

If you are leaving because you’ve realized it isn’t for you , and all is good in your world , great .

If not and you were hoping people would beg you to stay , sorry it didn’t work out that way for you .

Exactly this.

Au revoir, arrivederci and goodbye

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!

have we upset anyone? "

Only you can answer that surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ave ya left yet?? Noooo ..oh lol

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Ehm ur profile is still active! Gotta laugh!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Ehm ur profile is still active! Gotta laugh!!! "

People sometimes try to call our bluff.

Nice tits by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye bye then

And why say going then when people say bye get huffy or ask have you upset people that’s kinda attention seeking

I love how people always say and post they leaving make a fuss then A few days later reappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like to see my cock pics before you leave ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!

have we upset anyone? "

No they do it to everyone. The types that would shout at someone to jump from a bridge and kill themselves. Don't take it personally.

Good luck, hope you're deleting for happy reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Probably for the best. See ya!

have we upset anyone? "

No, Just how people are here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep on it ,Oh wait " you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed hide profile

Come back when you want.

By the by we don't do leaving parties.

Unless it's swinging of course.

I'd gotten a card but all I can find in the swinging convenience shop is a lot of condoms.

Be safe.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

How dare you expect someone to chat with you, you're not a member of the forum clique!

You need to know your place and not speak unless spoken to!

There's nothing much to miss here, good luck

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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago

wherever you are

"How dare you expect someone to chat with you, you're not a member of the forum clique!

You need to know your place and not speak unless spoken to!

There's nothing much to miss here, good luck

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"How dare you expect someone to chat with you, you're not a member of the forum clique!

You need to know your place and not speak unless spoken to!

There's nothing much to miss here, good luck

I was a member of the forum clique, but I had to cancel ma membership cos ma shed exploded!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP. If you think it’s not right for you here then you are doing the right thing but if you have doubts about going then just hide for a while, have a break. I wish you luck though

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Sorry to hear that OP. If you think it’s not right for you here then you are doing the right thing but if you have doubts about going then just hide for a while, have a break. I wish you luck though

I wish you all the best. I don’t think you need luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck what u decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No that's fine, bye. "

That wasn’t nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bye bye then

And why say going then when people say bye get huffy or ask have you upset people that’s kinda attention seeking

I love how people always say and post they leaving make a fuss then A few days later reappear "

They can say bye, you plum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you like to see my cock pics before you leave ?

That’s why they’re leaving.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

"Ave ya left yet?? Noooo ..oh lol

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you are he best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note to Self: When hitting delete profile, do not, under any circumstances announce you are leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go"
damn I was here for you but you never asked

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Last night before profile delete, if anyone wants to chat before we go

Why would you want to initiate conversations when you've decided to leave? And why bother to make the announcement in the first place?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they followed through with their fabicide

Good luck to them, whoever they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty."

Standard. It’s sad and unnecessary... hey ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Note to Self: When hitting delete profile, do not, under any circumstances announce you are leaving. "

I was thinking the same thing. I must remember not to say goodbye to those I’ve interacted with on the forum for the last five years when I go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty."

Agreed

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Note to Self: When hitting delete profile, do not, under any circumstances announce you are leaving. "

Funky should be along shortly to remind us of his various leaving threads

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty."

It's not often I agree with you, but today I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye bye in Donald Trump’s voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty."

Is it ever any different? Unless you're brown nosing the self appointed important people.

Think it's just jealousy to be honest. They haven't got the balls to leave as they'd have nothing else left in their lives!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

Is it ever any different? Unless you're brown nosing the self appointed important people.

Think it's just jealousy to be honest. They haven't got the balls to leave as they'd have nothing else left in their lives! "
omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all.

I never ever leave posts on the forum but i am friends with the ops.

Was chatting to the guy last night.

People, they have a genuine reason for leaving. He told me that while he appreciated the goodbyes from the well wishers, his wife was actually crying when sgd read the thread.

I'm sure it's not because she is taking anything anyone on a web forum says to heart rather the emotion of her situation but still, sometimes a little bit of compassion goes a long way.

A lot of people are very harsh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 23/08/18 08:06:08]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

It's not often I agree with you, but today I do.

It's ok when it's not bitchiness directed toward someone popular. I've learnt that over the years. "
I love your bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Note to Self: When hitting delete profile, do not, under any circumstances announce you are leaving. "

It all depends who you are, if you’re Forum famous or part of the clique you can stretch it out by saying you’re leaving in a week to gushing acclaim (then rejoin the day after you do actually UNLOS).

If you’re not, you’re told to fuck off!

I did post a thread when I UNLOSed over a year ago, but the second I posted it, I went straight to the delete account section and left.

If the OP ever gets to read this in future, I wish you all the best fkrcthe future!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty."

Definitely. No need for it, and to hear it made the OP cry is appalling. Those who have made sarcastic and bitchy comments should be ashamed of themselves. I thought this was an adult swingers site not a bloody playground. Some have some on here have some serious growing up to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think man city will win the league again?"

Without a doubt.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

Is it ever any different? Unless you're brown nosing the self appointed important people.

Think it's just jealousy to be honest. They haven't got the balls to leave as they'd have nothing else left in their lives! "

Phwoooar that's a hell of a shot.

Who were the OP's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they jump or were they pushed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next thread be

Going going gone....

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Can't imagine where people get the impression that the forums are scary and unwelcoming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was that guy .........

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Can't imagine where people get the impression that the forums are scary and unwelcoming

Very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Du du du another one bites the dust

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Who was that guy .........

It was a couple.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"Hi all.

I never ever leave posts on the forum but i am friends with the ops.

Was chatting to the guy last night.

People, they have a genuine reason for leaving. He told me that while he appreciated the goodbyes from the well wishers, his wife was actually crying when sgd read the thread.

I'm sure it's not because she is taking anything anyone on a web forum says to heart rather the emotion of her situation but still, sometimes a little bit of compassion goes a long way.

A lot of people are very harsh."

IF that is true then you don't post in a attention seeking look at me way. You post and say "bye, we are having to leave due to personal issues, hope everybody has fun, etc"

Or you go for maximum Facebook style attention and post a "Oh no I'm in hospital again", type post with no explanation in the hope that everybody rushes around checking you're OK.

One results in good wishes, etc/ one results in get over yourself style responses. Really not hard to understand. Particularly funny seeing some of the do gooder posts from the main forum wolf pack, hahaha

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By *r. Pepper...Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Some real venomous snakes in these forums. Have a day off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't win really. You either post a goodbye and it's attention seeking or you leave without a goodbye and everyone wonders why you just went and class it as rude to not say goodbye.

I'll always say goodbye if I'm off for a while. I look at it like I would if I was leaving a room full of people I know.

People don't have to comment on their thread if they don't know/like that person but I guess some feel the need to put the boot in before they do go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take two weeks off, in Bristol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, you people are cut throat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all.

I never ever leave posts on the forum but i am friends with the ops.

Was chatting to the guy last night.

People, they have a genuine reason for leaving. He told me that while he appreciated the goodbyes from the well wishers, his wife was actually crying when sgd read the thread.

I'm sure it's not because she is taking anything anyone on a web forum says to heart rather the emotion of her situation but still, sometimes a little bit of compassion goes a long way.

A lot of people are very harsh.

IF that is true then you don't post in a attention seeking look at me way. You post and say "bye, we are having to leave due to personal issues, hope everybody has fun, etc"

Or you go for maximum Facebook style attention and post a "Oh no I'm in hospital again", type post with no explanation in the hope that everybody rushes around checking you're OK.

Oh, it that case carry on with the snide comments then, whichever one of the couple you are.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

How awful and mean spirited are some people! I’m sure some of the people on here commenting have said in the past ‘if you don’t like a thread just ignore it’. Shameful behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ever a thread summed up the forums, this is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was wrong with them saying goodbye? They didn't write anything nasty in their OP, yet got treated like that. I wish you both luck, if you are reading from the public access forum OP. Try not to take to heart some of the comments on here.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

Is it ever any different? Unless you're brown nosing the self appointed important people.

Think it's just jealousy to be honest. They haven't got the balls to leave as they'd have nothing else left in their lives! "

Blimy. That's nasty.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

Is it ever any different? Unless you're brown nosing the self appointed important people.

Think it's just jealousy to be honest. They haven't got the balls to leave as they'd have nothing else left in their lives!

Blimy. That's nasty. "

It really is

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Who has gone now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness on this thread is off the hook. Pretty nasty.

Is it ever any different? Unless you're brown nosing the self appointed important people.

Think it's just jealousy to be honest. They haven't got the balls to leave as they'd have nothing else left in their lives!

Blimy. That's nasty.

It really is

Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who has gone now?"
it was a couple x

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

This can be a cruel cruel place

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Who the FUCK was it ??

Stop saying , ' it was a couple.' ....

Whooooooooooooooo ???

Thank you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Who has gone now?"

Oh it was like, this couple, you know?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Who has gone now?

Oh it was like, this couple, you know?"

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Who has gone now?

Oh it was like, this couple, you know?

I did see the name, but it wasn't one I recognised and so the name has completely escaped my memory.

Sorry

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Friendly ere innit

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

comme ci comme ça

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"comme ci comme ça"
comesta hablos ingles?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"comme ci comme çacomesta hablos ingles? "

Si.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"comme ci comme çacomesta hablos ingles?

Si."
il conto per fervori

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crikey

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"What was wrong with them saying goodbye? They didn't write anything nasty in their OP, yet got treated like that. I wish you both luck, if you are reading from the public access forum OP. Try not to take to heart some of the comments on here. "

Totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree xx"

Ditto xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye! Oops,I’ve just renewed. Maybe in another 32 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bye! Oops,I’ve just renewed. Maybe in another 32 days

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you fool you've come back for more seek help now

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Do you think man city will win the league again?"
hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That went well...

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By *harliebluestockingsCouple
over a year ago

london

He owes me a tenner. Ooiiii

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glutton for punishment if you renew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear dear

He didn't even have a leaving party

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