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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi fabbers

I know I’ve only been on this site for a few weeks but what’s wrong with me that I don’t get any replies, the only winks I get are from bi guys hoping my straightness would slip, im never in the most fanned section and I get no meets?

I’m 52, which seems to be too old for a lot of people on here. I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here. Im polite in my messages and I don’t send cock pics just my face.

I don’t have any verifications as i haven’t met anyone.

I mean what do I have to do to get noticed on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've answered your own question all in that one resume

You're getting on

You're cheating (oh my)

You're a guy

And I don't know but would hazard a guess all messages are about the sex sex sex you're here to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - your post is tongue in cheek, right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus your profile appears to have some attempts at humour but misses, painfully so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - your post is tongue in cheek, right ?

"
cmon you wernt born yesterday but oh my you look.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the waistcoat.

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By *hrewsgirl0Woman
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"Hi fabbers

I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here.

"

Wow, and obviously dropped on the head as a baby too..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's the waistcoat."

But it was good enough for Gareth Southgate. Ha ha

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reply to your OP; nothing is wrong, you’ve given the reasons as to why you’ve not had any interest so far.

I’m not going to get into it as I’m sure there will be plenty of people along soon enough to point out the obvious but I will say this; patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's the waistcoat.

But it was good enough for Gareth Southgate. Ha ha"
you look like farmer Giles in yours just saying

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

Can't accommodate can't travel implies to me can't meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess. "

I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

You look like a ghost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy and I'm married.

That doesn't make sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and I'm married.

That doesn't make sense "

I know. I think the OP meant he is married and trying to play solo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.

I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. "

Why do you want to be on most fabbed? The best I’ve ever done is page 2 of guys and I was impressed with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.

I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. "
It's fabbed not fanned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and I'm married.

That doesn't make sense "

None of it makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So my eyes deceive me, or are people really taking this seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So my eyes deceive me, or are people really taking this seriously?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient you duplicate 70% of fabs male members here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you want replies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes less is more, maybe just rewrite profile but make it shorter but to the point, ppl genuinely judt want to know what u want.

Also I don't know how u message but personally I think the message has to be about her and not u.

Be polite be respectful, show you have read her profile, attach a nice face pic and if u can make her laugh too it's a good start...works for me anyway.goodluck

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Waistcoat cool that definitely not the problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really it's a wind up Shirley, don't call me Shirley.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Waistcoat cool that definitely not the problem..."

Thanks.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Plus your profile appears to have some attempts at humour but misses, painfully so. "

Yeah but everyone loves a copy and paste profile don't they.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"It's the waistcoat."

No not the the waistcoat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single guy and I'm married.

That doesn't make sense

None of it makes sense"
Read it again but this time put your specs on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna be in the most fanned page, seems like a cool place to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read your profile, and truth be told didn't even finishing your post. Your chosen user name alone would put me off

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We think you would be much better hiring a escorts than being on here.

Absolutely detest people on here who are lying to their partners would never meet a person we knew was doing the dirty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers

I know I’ve only been on this site for a few weeks but what’s wrong with me that I don’t get any replies, the only winks I get are from bi guys hoping my straightness would slip, im never in the most fanned section and I get no meets?

I’m 52, which seems to be too old for a lot of people on here. I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here. Im polite in my messages and I don’t send cock pics just my face.

I don’t have any verifications as i haven’t met anyone.

I mean what do I have to do to get noticed on here?

"

Mate, it’s tough to get reply’s. You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

Don’t think it as anything wrong with you... it’s just you are probably not what the other person / couple is looking for.

No bloke on here gets stacked with replies. I wouldn’t worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think you would be much better hiring a escorts than being on here.

Absolutely detest people on here who are lying to their partners would never meet a person we knew was doing the dirty.

"
at least he's telling you up front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP - your post is tongue in cheek, right ?

"

Profile too, I'm starting to think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice is:

1.Get better photos

2. Change your age range (we're not all over the hill after 50)

3. Shorten your profile by dropping all the attempted humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay brace yourself, incoming!!

Based on your profile alone:-

Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.

I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!

Based on your profile alone:-

Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.

I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... "
or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!

Based on your profile alone:-

Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.

I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now "

Yup, drop ten years off your age OP, it’s what all the cool kids do these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!

Based on your profile alone:-

Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.

I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now "

His martial status wasn’t on his profile, and the forums attract minimal users so yes he could (like so many others) tweak his profile accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay brace yourself, incoming!!

Based on your profile alone:-

Username / over 50 / Man / profile text needs to be snappier / more photos.

I think the inital hurdle is coming onto this website at 50+. You could try socialising in the forum / chat rooms, let your personality come through, that may help... or lie about his age and marital status damn too late now

His martial status wasn’t on his profile, and the forums attract minimal users so yes he could (like so many others) tweak his profile accordingly."
Hey surely looking much younger than your quoted age is a deception of sorts

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

So you're back ......

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

It's Andy Capp,

Your profile text is awful, and if that's your sense of humour then it's going to put people off. Sorry but you aren't funny

Also, it's OK for women to cheat on here, especially with other women, only yesterday the very people who are about to vilify you were encouraging a women to do exa tly that, lol, but guys get slaughtered for it. Sadly that doesn't mean we're on your side, but if we wanted to meet it wouldn't put us off, however your maximum age being younger than you does, judgemental or what!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" It's fabbed not fanned"

Ducking autocorrect

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By *ohnpaul12Man
over a year ago

Exeter

I agree with PrincessNiki. This is either a joke profile or a seriously poor attempt at humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with PrincessNiki. This is either a joke profile or a seriously poor attempt at humour. "

Surely if it’s a joke profile it has succeeded with the humour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 52,you can't really complain about being too old for people when your own upper age limit is 50! So people will rule out the over 50s for the same reasons as you yourself have done I guess.

I see your point. But why is that stopping me getting on the most fanned page? I don’t understand. "

Buy a fan or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" It's fabbed not fanned

Ducking autocorrect "
Hey it'll catch you out one day you mark my words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. "
where have you gone

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Fab name is off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone "

Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone

Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. "
nope you've gone where I don't know

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"So my eyes deceive me, or are people really taking this seriously?"
It seems standard form at present on the forums, a general lack of a sense of humour.......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone

Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. nope you've gone where I don't know "

You're still wearing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So my eyes deceive me, or are people really taking this seriously? It seems standard form at present on the forums, a general lack of a sense of humour.......! "

Humour is subjective, also don’t know the OP so tend take the written word on face value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your profile, i'd just say you're too fussy for a man. Demanding as you are, i'd guess you don't need to move your ass to get extra-marital fun which brings a question to my mind: why are you on this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't read your profile, and truth be told didn't even finishing your post. Your chosen user name alone would put me off"

Thanks for posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Christ knows! Everyone in your area are ageist? That's what I'd do OP. Blame everyone for being ageist. Either that, or for being blind. where have you gone

Take the blindfold off, then you'll see me again. nope you've gone where I don't know

You're still wearing it "
My shorts no they're off I'm on nudist beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't read your profile, and truth be told didn't even finishing your post. Your chosen user name alone would put me off

Thanks for posting. "
you're welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't accommodate can't travel implies to me can't meet."

I can travel. I’m happy to go to the next town. Maybe I should change that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking at your profile, i'd just say you're too fussy for a man. Demanding as you are, i'd guess you don't need to move your ass to get extra-marital fun which brings a question to my mind: why are you on this?"

Fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile name may be a little off putting. Reminds me of a rapist or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a joke?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The profile name may be a little off putting. Reminds me of a rapist or something"

I’m getting that vibe. What suggestions then? Old perv? Wellhungguy145? Cheatinghubby4523?

I think I have one more name change otherwise I’ll have to create a new profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this a joke? "

No it’s very serious according to the majority who have posted on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi fabbers

I know I’ve only been on this site for a few weeks but what’s wrong with me that I don’t get any replies, the only winks I get are from bi guys hoping my straightness would slip, im never in the most fanned section and I get no meets?

I’m 52, which seems to be too old for a lot of people on here. I’m a single guy and I’m married and my wife doesn’t know im here. Im polite in my messages and I don’t send cock pics just my face.

I don’t have any verifications as i haven’t met anyone.

I mean what do I have to do to get noticed on here?

"
I think your profile is fun and it highlights the divas here you now have some attention by virtue of this, whether that's a good thing remains to be seen

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