FabSwingers.com forum: A new foof or cock vs a returning regular?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you prefer on your swinging adventures Fabbers?

The excitement of a first time session with a new foof or cock, or getting more comfortable and “evolving” with a regular meet?

Points off for saying there’s a place for both, it’s a black and white answer thread folks! And we’re talking play meets here, socials are in the bin for the purposes of this thread!

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I find that although a new penis may be exciting a regular penis leads to much better sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Returning marauder for me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Black and white answer? Then regular every time for me - much prefer getting to know someone better along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely finding a regular playmate to grow with and evolve with. Understanding that connection and letting it flourish along with seeing them in the throws of pleasure because of and with you. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a regular meet, yes it’s exciting first time but for me to truly get the most out of it getting to know the other people involved makes the experience so much better x

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

There’s something exciting about the first meet though. The build up. It’s like Christmas.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Regular for Mrs WD - as already said its nice to get to know someone a bit sexually.

Mr WD is happy either way

Mrs WD40

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ooh a clear winner so far!

For balance I’m going to buck the trend and say the buzz of that first bit of slap and tickle and seeing a new naked body in front of you for the first time just edges it for me!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Regular. First time flutters are fleeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting guys off their butt for any meet...

I used to fuck two guys not together both fucking me making me wet. That's after I have chatted not off the cuff because most want cock sucked off.

Its a fun site... For me regular not one offs

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Regular every time for me. A new man is exciting but I can't fully relax like I can with a regular chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be regular and that learning of each other that allows far more to develop than fuck and run can ever provide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like you to be a regular OP

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

New for me every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular every time for me. A new man is exciting but I can't fully relax like I can with a regular chap

this... and Trust, Trust, Trust!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d like you to be a regular OP

I like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d like you to be a regular OP

I like you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Returning marauder for me "

Are you a pirate now??

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I like both. A new meet is an adventure and I do love the anticipation of a bit of strange!

A repeat can be fun too tho as long as you don't meet too often and get complacent..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Regular. Building on knowledge of how to turn the other on, being able to use the trust built between us to explore boundaries together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Knowing someone so well that you don’t even have to try and that the trust and respect is there between you makes the rest of the players in the room feel at ease too so it’s a win win.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Meeting someone regularly is definitely what I prefer. Being able to fully relax and open up with the other person, learning more about each other and building trust all helps greatly in creating something that can be both spectacular and fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Returning marauder for me

Are you a pirate now??

Ahoy matey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular but irregularly!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I’d like you to be a regular OP

He is a regular OP isn’t he? See him in the forums all the time.......

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I can't really remember what a new one is like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An irregular regular ~ so it has the excitement of a new meet along with the comfiness of familiarity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets! Not only does sex improve with time, but they're more likely to be reliable, too.

I've had so many disappointments with new guys wanting to meet then ghosting as the day nears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regulars with the odd new people thrown in who maybe will become regular.......

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

"An irregular regular ~ so it has the excitement of a new meet along with the comfiness of familiarity. "

This

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I prefer repeat meets with the same person - I wouldn’t say regularly because I don’t meet regularly. I’m more occasionally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be greedy and say both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New.. love the build up and anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, wouldn't meet someone unless I knew they would want more than a one off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Black and white answer? Then regular every time for me - much prefer getting to know someone better along the way

My black and white answer - one of each for a regular menage a trois.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evolving with a regular. No contest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Returning marauder for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really experienced regular as they all fuck off eventually for one reason or another.

One offs, although exciting at the time, don't do it for me either.

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An irregular regular ~ so it has the excitement of a new meet along with the comfiness of familiarity. "

Yes this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular for me

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By *orningtonCroissantMan
over a year ago

notts and humberside

A regular foof with the joy of experiencing adventures together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting I never met more than once. They scratched an itch but weren’t particularly fulfilling in an ongoing way. Initial buzz soon wore off.

Probably contributed to making it easier to stop meeting all together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evolution, I like that. One offs are about as satisfying as a wank, and more troublesome.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Both.....either......any.......thing is, every returning fuck starts with a first fuck.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Regular - not least because you avoid the 'are they going to run off screaming when they see me in the flesh for the first time?' anxiety you get when meeting a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the excitement of meeting someone new but not the sex so much. It’s much better as the sex evolves with a regular and I can relax and let myself go more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An irregular regular ~ so it has the excitement of a new meet along with the comfiness of familiarity. "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had to pick it would be the thrill of new. To me, meeting new people is a big part of the attraction to swinging. If I wanted just one partner I wouldn't bother with fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An irregular regular ~ so it has the excitement of a new meet along with the comfiness of familiarity.

Definitely this

This for me too, which new people added into the mix as and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both please one semi regular few new ones sprinked in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An irregular regular ~ so it has the excitement of a new meet along with the comfiness of familiarity.

Definitely this

This for me too, which new people added into the mix as and when. "

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Definitely a regular for me.

Deep meaningless sex might scratch an itch at the time, but it doesn't leave me satisfied.

Meeting someone, chatting a while first, establishing a friendship, then being able to build on that, if there's a mental connection I find the physical interaction is so much better.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Mostly new but with a few regulars

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Right now - I'd welcome a new man/men. All compatible of course.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have always preferred regular meets, however I have met guys just for one offs simply due to distance, I wouldn’t want a regular meet who is 200 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. And lucky enough to have a couple who are just that.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

If i'm in a freaky mood then a returning regular as they'll know a bit more about me. But if i want that overwhelming feeling of excitement then it's a newbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both suits us. Repeat meets do get better but the excitement of new ones is also lovely.

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