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Can swinging be tasteful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Inspired by a thread on clear heels..

Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tasteful is great ... why tacky?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m always very tasteful I’ll have you know!

I’ll even hoover the back seat of my Cortina for you before you nosh me off in it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a posh tart trashy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is possible to be classy with it imo.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No interest in tacky myself, prefer a little class.

But if you're into stripper heels, cheap scratchy underwear from Lovehoney and posting pics of your genitals, go for it

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I'd perhaps attack the question from the opposite direction, why is swinging considered to be tacky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons tasteful is another persons tacky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

It's classy if you choose it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..

Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"

Definitely it can be tasteful. Despite both of us liking sex with others, we try to avoid being tacky or tarty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not tacky, trashy or tarty... neither am I brilliantly classy either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..

Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"
yes if you meet in a restaurant you can have horsderves

And pigs in blankets followed by angel cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest I do the odd tacky- dress up but that's what worked for me and my FWB at the time. But generally I dress tastefully and classy.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting "

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )"

Leaving a bit of himself in every town he passes through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking strangers isn't classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )"

You can be my Helga if you like

.

p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking strangers isn't classy. "

It is if you are dressed as aristocracy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One persons tasteful is another persons tacky"

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.

Plus, you know, budget.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )

Leaving a bit of himself in every town he passes through"

Oi! Quit trying to turn this into a bareback thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something "

It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use.

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By *ischiefmanagedWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk border


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )

You can be my Helga if you like

.

p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive "

Really...? Driving? Soooo much less classy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )"

Please, please let there be lederhosen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )

Leaving a bit of himself in every town he passes through

Oi! Quit trying to turn this into a bareback thread! "

All those fair maidens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wipe my dick on my skirt before a meet

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"One persons tasteful is another persons tacky"

Very true G3orgie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use. "

Ooh that sounds a bit posh. There was a plentiful supply of loo rolls though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )

You can be my Helga if you like

.

p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive

Really...? Driving? Soooo much less classy... "

What about if I'm in a convertible with biggles goggles and a scarf blowing in the wind...

...and (by popular demand) lederhosen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use.

Ooh that sounds a bit posh. There was a plentiful supply of loo rolls though "

Did you steal them?! (We won’t tell,,)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm thinking of travelling through France soon. I like the idea of being open, friendly, and flirtatious and seeing if any situations present themselves naturally. I'd say that's classy, erotic, and enchanting

Love this, but am now imagining a wandering swinger, cycling from one village to another... It's all sounding a little bit 1970's German porn to me...

(No idea where the pushbike came from, sorry! )

You can be my Helga if you like

.

p.s I hate to burst your beautiful bubble but I might drive

Really...? Driving? Soooo much less classy...

What about if I'm in a convertible with biggles goggles and a scarf blowing in the wind...

...and (by popular demand) lederhosen "

Can you do photostories on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.

Plus, you know, budget."

But a classy woman dressed as a classy woman, concealing the slut is an even bigger turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

It depends on the club that you go to, some have sheets which get stripped and swapped after every use.

Ooh that sounds a bit posh. There was a plentiful supply of loo rolls though

Did you steal them?! (We won’t tell,,)"

Its amazing how many you can shove in your stocking tops

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.

Plus, you know, budget.

But a classy woman dressed as a classy woman, concealing the slut is an even bigger turn on! "

Ah bugger. Clearly where I’ve been going wrong..

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

How do you define tasteful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fucking strangers isn't classy.

It is if you are dressed as aristocracy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why it's deemed as tacky at all x

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something "

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club"

I stopped reading at "cockpit"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club"

Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club

Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club"

Sounds a much better way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club

Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No interest in tacky myself, prefer a little class.

But if you're into stripper heels, cheap scratchy underwear from Lovehoney and posting pics of your genitals, go for it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s good to embrace the trashy. I think a classy woman dressed like a slut is a big turn on for many men.

Plus, you know, budget.

But a classy woman dressed as a classy woman, concealing the slut is an even bigger turn on! "

I love this. Spot on x

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club

Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?... "

It’s a small select crew... and they’d definitely want to be pressed up against your holes whilst coming about...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The wipe clean aspect of a club setting can be a bit off putting. But I guess if you close your eyes really really tight you could be on a yacht or something

when you’re on my yacht laying on the cockpit cushions, if you close your eyes really really tight, you could imagine being in a swingers club

Do you also have single men pressing up against the portholes looking in whilst bashing one out?...

It’s a small select crew... and they’d definitely want to be pressed up against your holes whilst coming about..."

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No interest in tacky myself, prefer a little class.

But if you're into stripper heels, cheap scratchy underwear from Lovehoney and posting pics of your genitals, go for it "

Does class have to mean expensive lingerie?

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Your not surposed to eat them ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..

Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"
Yep sorry but serious swinging is a little sleazy so you have to embrace that or you're not doing it right

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You can have trashy or classy nightclubs or bars. You can have trashy or classy sex clubs.

*See Pandora's vs Vanilla Alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.

Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?

Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?

I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.

Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?

Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?

I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? "
sex in a hoody omg I don't even like hoodys as a fashion statement or the jeans that hang so low at the bum they look like you've pooped yourself I mean cmon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Inspired by a thread on clear heels..

Does swinging require embracing the tacky, tarty and trashy, or can you swing ‘tastefully’? Do you want to, or is tacky part of the fun?"

I enjoy both, variety is the spice of life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expensive lingerie makes fucking strangers classy. Awesome!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expensive lingerie makes fucking strangers classy. Awesome!! "

So does keeping all your clothes on and the lights out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expensive lingerie makes fucking strangers classy. Awesome!!

So does keeping all your clothes on and the lights out "

I'm classy! I knew it!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's always tasteful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.

Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?

Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?

I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? sex in a hoody omg I don't even like hoodys as a fashion statement or the jeans that hang so low at the bum they look like you've pooped yourself I mean cmon "

I was being over the top for its sake... I’m not saying I turn up like that but the point remains... surely it’s whatever makes you feel most confident / sexy?

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Expensive lingerie makes fucking strangers classy. Awesome!! "

So social conformity is classy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expensive lingerie makes fucking strangers classy. Awesome!!

So social conformity is classy?

"

How does expensive lingerie or fucking strangers = social conformity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try hard to be tasteful, especially the men I play with and their interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tasteful always..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I, personally, don’t think you have to conform to any form of ‘style’.

Why do you have to wear heels and corsets and push up bras to swing?

Couldn’t you just do it in hoodies and trainers?

I get the appeal to dress sexy and want to dress a certain way... but if it’s not for you then why try and make it something for you if it’s only going to make you feel uncomfortable? "

Have to say Ive started to ditch fancy shoes in preference to comfy ie trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody summed it up earlier battered chips after a swingers club

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