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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what happened

been chatting to a wonderful woman on a dating site, felt like we just clicked from both sides,she was very open about things,and said we was on same page,and wanted to meet etc, all the right signs,it couldnt have been any better, was emailing each other several times a day...felt just right and was as keen to meet up as i was....,then i get sorry had change of heart and wont explaine why....good luck talk about a knock of confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she wasn’t who she said she was.

Maybe her ex who she’s still in love with came back in the picture.

You’ll never know.

And maybe..…you had a lucky escape.

You’ll be okay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well she has put new pics on profile after saying to me...i need to think things over what i want lol

it just felt perfect,that feeling that you get when you feel like you have found that special person that ticks every box so to speak....makes you think stay single its less hassle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well she has put new pics on profile after saying to me...i need to think things over what i want lol

it just felt perfect,that feeling that you get when you feel like you have found that special person that ticks every box so to speak....makes you think stay single its less hassle lol"

Only... you'd never met her

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Tale as old as time mate

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"well she has put new pics on profile after saying to me...i need to think things over what i want lol

it just felt perfect,that feeling that you get when you feel like you have found that special person that ticks every box so to speak....makes you think stay single its less hassle lol"

Maybe try to hold yourself back from thinking so full on when it is early days next time?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You should of arranged to meet her sooner maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well she has put new pics on profile after saying to me...i need to think things over what i want lol

it just felt perfect,that feeling that you get when you feel like you have found that special person that ticks every box so to speak....makes you think stay single its less hassle lol

Only... you'd never met her "

Did you express that thought process to her?

The reason being that as soulful kinky stated; you hadn’t met her. I does sound like maybe you were very ‘invested’ for someone who hadn’t met.

I think it’s very easy to ascribe the tone that you want to the written word and maybe get carried away in what you want rather than what is actually happening.

Personally I think she probably picked up on this from you and decided to find something less intense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well she has put new pics on profile after saying to me...i need to think things over what i want lol

it just felt perfect,that feeling that you get when you feel like you have found that special person that ticks every box so to speak....makes you think stay single its less hassle lol

Maybe try to hold yourself back from thinking so full on when it is early days next time?"

Yep. Has to be reciprocated

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i see what you mean but it wasnt just one way from me, she was the same very intense, she also said that i made her feel very at ease etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i see what you mean but it wasnt just one way from me, she was the same very intense, she also said that i made her feel very at ease etc

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All just a bit too full on then maybe, for not actually having even met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should of arranged to meet her sooner maybe?"

There is definitely a natural pace to escalation isn't there Lick

I've had a couple of times on here when I've been chatting to a lovely woman but life got in the way and stalled things and she read that as a sign of disinterest or fate and gave up. It's always a shame when this happens. But I do understand it. It's so much simpler when life gets out of the way and things escalate easily and naturally without missing a beat. That's why I always try my best (when life allows) to meet those beats xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve never met this person and you got all those feelings from exchanging messages? Wow.

Maybe she got cold feet or you were being too intense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well she has put new pics on profile after saying to me...i need to think things over what i want lol

it just felt perfect,that feeling that you get when you feel like you have found that special person that ticks every box so to speak....makes you think stay single its less hassle lol

Maybe try to hold yourself back from thinking so full on when it is early days next time?"

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Maybe another case of the chase is better than the catch.

Alot of woman are looking for men who dont exist!

Before the sexist police arrive and throw the book at me i agree it works both ways.

(just for the record)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe another case of the chase is better than the catch.

Alot of woman are looking for men who dont exist!

Before the sexist police arrive and throw the book at me i agree it works both ways.

(just for the record)

"

Nee nah nee nah nee nah

Door smashes open and in walk two big burly blokes.

"Halt!! We are the sexist police!! "

"Fucking typical," you reply "even the sexist police are fucking men! Such a fucking sexist stereotype!"

At which point they look at each other, shrug, say "it's a fair cop", and arrest each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’ve never met this person and you got all those feelings from exchanging messages? Wow.

Maybe she got cold feet or you were being too intense? "

I have a few times and I know it sounds silly but it’s can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she found out you are on fab?

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