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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Seems to be a dying art form these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met and fucked the op at the back of her car guys

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The verifications are a dead giveaway!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I'm very discrete, sometimes I dinthave tell myself the gossip

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have met and fucked the op at the back of her car guys "

If you are going to lie at least make it good.....it was over the bonnet

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The verifications are a dead giveaway! "

But what if there are no verifications?...

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"The verifications are a dead giveaway!

But what if there are no verifications?..."

Like with us you mean

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have met and fucked the op at the back of her car guys "

That reminds me, can you send us all the video again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any particular event that’s sparked this thread OP?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think people are any more or less discreet it's just that indiscretion has a wider audience.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"The verifications are a dead giveaway!

But what if there are no verifications?...

Like with us you mean "

Exactly

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have met and fucked the op at the back of her car guys

That reminds me, can you send us all the video again "

Its available at WHSmiths

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any particular event that’s sparked this thread OP? "

Yes....though I as I am discrete I shall not divulge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I thought the word discretion on a singles profile just meant married.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx"

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any particular event that’s sparked this thread OP?

Yes....though I as I am discrete I shall not divulge "

Given as it could result in a forum ban, that's a good call

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark "

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that. "

There's a shit storm?

I need to get my brolly!

(Cracks me up when it's said I am in the clique, I am a mushroom!)

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that.

There's a shit storm?

I need to get my brolly!

(Cracks me up when it's said I am in the clique, I am a mushroom!) "

Oh I’m not in it either. All I know is something happened, I don’t know who or what. And I don’t want to know.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that. "

Me either but I guess you live and learn

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any particular event that’s sparked this thread OP?

Yes....though I as I am discrete I shall not divulge

Given as it could result in a forum ban, that's a good call "

They will be their own undoing hence why I shall sit back and smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that. "

Yes, it does make me very sad. Although I’ve been the subject of forum gossip years ago and taught me a valuable lesson

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that.

Yes, it does make me very sad. Although I’ve been the subject of forum gossip years ago and taught me a valuable lesson "

I don't actually mind the gossip, obviously they have nothing more exciting to do....shame lol it's the accusations that come from it that bug me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Depends what it is for me.

Is it people who's concern comes from a genuine place? Those you'd consider friends? If so, that can't be a bad thing having people that care.

Is it people who are merely trying to cause trouble? Fuck em off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we joined we thought this place would be full of discretion and certainly less judgement.

But people do what they do, as long as you always stay true to yourself, the others don't matter.Xx

Wish it were that simple but when they deliberately go trolling for information then that's over stepping the mark

It’s only since the recent shit storm that I had considered that there are so many people from the forums that discuss who’s doing what to who privately. Apparently a lot of gossip goes on behind closed doors. Maybe I’m naive but I didn’t expect that.

Yes, it does make me very sad. Although I’ve been the subject of forum gossip years ago and taught me a valuable lesson "

I've had that too. It's pretty much why I don't bother much with the Irish forum and avoid the social scene like the plague.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

Could it maybe not be so much a lack of discretion rather people’s views of the lifestyle changing and becoming more liberal? Swinging is becoming ever more popular and more people are being honest about the lifestyle

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion is indeed a dying art form. I think it comes with a general lowering of standards in Society, the ease with which people can make arsewipe comments about anyone on Social Media and get away with it and the total disregard for the etiquette and unwritten rules of Swinging. Or rather ignorance of those key elements

Outside of a verification no one knows who I meet and when. None of anyone's business and I respect the other people's privacy

As for Verifications being indiscreet? No. If someone is verifying that someone is as they are described and that other person agrees to post it then that is all consensual. Even when we get the full detail, chapter and verse of events if the other person agrees to post it then fine by me. I would never write like that

To me indiscretion is saying stuff about someone, or what two people did, in a public forum or in private without the other person's knowledge. Just bang out of order.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

This wouldn't be a discreet pop at another user would it OP?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"This wouldn't be a discreet pop at another user would it OP?"

Just a generalisation

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford


"Seems to be a dying art form these days "

Perhaps it's because some feel they have something to prove and the indiscrete use of knowledge of others furthers that agenda.

Either that or they're just complete cock knockers and not worth the stress of thinking about!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"This wouldn't be a discreet pop at another user would it OP?"

Seems so

Maybe leave any issues with other people away from the forum please OP

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