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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right I want to try anal with my friend with benefits. Do I have to get all sorts of different sizes of buttplugs to try anal or will a small one be good enough?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Plenty of self-help tutorials on the internet, which perhaps can be summarised as:

* You need to begin stretching the muscles

* Start with a small toy and work your way up in size

Toys can be expensive - a cucumber from Lidl or wherever is a very cheap alternative. Just be careful how you examine them in the shop lolololol

The anus does not produce lubricants naturally in the way a vagina does.

I love a mix of baby lotion and baby oil.

However, for the purposes of sex with a condom, only a water-based lubricant is effective - KY Jelly etc.

Anything with oil in it will degrade the condom.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coincidentally we had an email last week from lovehoney titled ~Anal 101: How to Put Things in Your Bum

Taking a bit of a fucking Liberty I thought!

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

"Coincidentally we had an email last week from lovehoney titled ~Anal 101: How to Put Things in Your Bum

Taking a bit of a fucking Liberty I thought!"
did you put any of it into practice lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

How big is his cock?

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By *miler_23Woman
over a year ago

near the sea

Position is important..

Try lying on your side in the spooning position.. you will have more control over the thrusts. Lots of lube. Go slowly.. you dictate the pace.. relax and enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting post as although a guy, i'm looking to do the same and happy to hear some advice on having my ass fucked!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Right I want to try anal with my friend with benefits. Do I have to get all sorts of different sizes of buttplugs to try anal or will a small one be good enough?"
Small one here for you BooBoo

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Right I want to try anal with my friend with benefits. Do I have to get all sorts of different sizes of buttplugs to try anal or will a small one be good enough?"

I wouldn't bother with plugs at all they're completely different shape to a cock... fingers are a good place to start and always use loads of lube.

Also go slowly and relax and use loads of lube.

Most important thing to remember is use plenty of lube.

Cal

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

"Right I want to try anal with my friend with benefits. Do I have to get all sorts of different sizes of buttplugs to try anal or will a small one be good enough?"

Try the fwb's tongue

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By *webMan
over a year ago

doncaster/Benidorm

just take it nice and slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and steady.......... lots of lube

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Steady run up from the other side of the room.

Bitches be luvvin it.....

*true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have used my strapon a guy, I used one lubed finger, then two, then in with my rubber cock.

I use gloves and puppy training mats just in case and the guy was a sweetheart and douched before hand.

Lots of patience, lube and take it slow.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Steady run up from the other side of the room.

Bitches be luvvin it.....

*true story"

I find leaping off the wardrobe is hazardous as I once sprained ma ankle, I might have to invest in a chandelier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right I'm quite a anal newbie, but what worked for me was douching first. If you douche it already makes you more relaxed as your not worried about making a mess.

Having a glass of wine or something for Dutch courage and to help you relax.

There is a serum you can buy from love honey that helps a little you put it on and dab it back off. A well lubed finger with some really good lube, I love liquid silk. Loads and loads of lube, if you think you have enough put even more on for good luck.

Trust in your partner. Get him to enter very slowly and just hold it there for ages. Then slowly start to move when your ready, he got me to hold a wand on my clit too which helped loads as it helped me enjoy the sensation and relax more. Don't go at it for 2 long on the first session, just a few minutes then remove clean up and have some vaginal fun. It worked for me and I'm looking forward to trying anal again because of how patient he was.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

The medical profession advises against Douching as it introduces unexpected bacteria... it's also known to sometimes create MORE mess than it prevents.

The "best" advice is to keep your diet high in fibre for a couple of days before and goto the loo an hour before... apparently.

Cal

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Steady run up from the other side of the room.

Bitches be luvvin it.....

*true story

I find leaping off the wardrobe is hazardous as I once sprained ma ankle, I might have to invest in a chandelier

I was doing it in the kitchen one day, misjudged my run up and stubbed little Stingly on the dishwasher.

Ouchie.

*also true story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the advice about fingers rather than plugs. It also helps you learn where your sphincters are.

I do use jelly plugs now though. They have more flex than other types and so are more comfortable to use. I use them just before sex to stretch the smooth muscle and to get used to just feeling something there.

I do choose to douche. For me it puts my mind at ease about mess and I relax a lot more. Do it a while beforehand so if any water is trapped there is time for that to come out.

And remember that second sphincter is smooth muscle, so you can’t relax it consciously, it has to be stretched slightly, then get used to being stretched, then stretched a bit more. That’s why slow entry and pauses are so important.

Have fun! I hope you find it leads to climax..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Steady run up from the other side of the room.

Bitches be luvvin it.....

*true story

I find leaping off the wardrobe is hazardous as I once sprained ma ankle, I might have to invest in a chandelier

I was doing it in the kitchen one day, misjudged my run up and stubbed little Stingly on the dishwasher.

Ouchie.

*also true story.

I once broke a fingernail opening a jar of Vaseline

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Steady run up from the other side of the room.

Bitches be luvvin it.....

*true story

I find leaping off the wardrobe is hazardous as I once sprained ma ankle, I might have to invest in a chandelier

I was doing it in the kitchen one day, misjudged my run up and stubbed little Stingly on the dishwasher.

Ouchie.

*also true story.

I once broke a fingernail opening a jar of Vaseline

God, that must have really hurt......

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Steady run up from the other side of the room.

Bitches be luvvin it.....

*true story

I find leaping off the wardrobe is hazardous as I once sprained ma ankle, I might have to invest in a chandelier

I was doing it in the kitchen one day, misjudged my run up and stubbed little Stingly on the dishwasher.

Ouchie.

*also true story.

I once broke a fingernail opening a jar of Vaseline

God, that must have really hurt......

Only ma pride

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