FabSwingers.com forum: Downsides to meeting only forum folks

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fire them at me

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Are there any?

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Are there any upsides ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tell the other forumanites your actual cock size

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All my meets have been through the forums and have yet to discover a downside - in fact it's all upside for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me"

This for me as well. Well, fiance but yes. You only have to read the pointed comments and digs to find that out.

Come to think of it, you can meet from the forum without having to discuss it with everyone and thereby avoiding the nasty side (like I do). People are going to gossip whatever you do if they know/think they know about it.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

This for me as well. Well, fiance but yes. You only have to read the pointed comments and digs to find that out.

Yeah I agree. I hate the gossipy, nasty side but it's easy enough to avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eurgh... why would anyone????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

This for me as well. Well, fiance but yes. You only have to read the pointed comments and digs to find that out.

I’ve only met people from the forums, it’s not been an issue for me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eurgh... why would anyone????"

My type don't seem to frequent the forum. Thank fuck!!!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

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By *ormalBlokeIncMan
over a year ago

Preston,Blackpool,Blackburn

I haven’t actually met anybody via a forum...though am happy to test the system!

I can see there could be advantages.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

I do think there's something to be said about getting a feel for someone through the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

We agree with this , it’s got to be fun , exciting , new ... we don’t want it to be like having sex with your mates guy that’s just not appealing .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

I do think there's something to be said about getting a feel for someone through the forums "

I get much more of a feel away from the forum

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

I've met all non forum folks, no disasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel."

I agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

I do think there's something to be said about getting a feel for someone through the forums

I get much more of a feel away from the forum

Exactly

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel."

That as well .

It’s inevitable that it becomes somewhat uncomfortable on a forum when so many have fucked each other on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters"

It's difficult to know if it's the forum which is the factor there though or if you're attracting the wrong kind of attention or having the wrong kind of conversations outside the forum

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

I've met all non forum folks, no disasters. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

See im the opposite iv tried the meet now spontanious fuck in the past or next day tipe thing both times fealt machanical like scratvhing an itch found it horrible as i knew nothing about them

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Well I haven’t met any but from what I can see the main downside for me would have to be the bloody distance I’d have to travel to do it if I wanted to anyway

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

I do think there's something to be said about getting a feel for someone through the forums "

All but one of my meets has been via the forums. I like that I get to see what they're like and if we get on.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

See im the opposite iv tried the meet now spontanious fuck in the past or next day tipe thing both times fealt machanical like scratvhing an itch found it horrible as i knew nothing about them"

I felt the same as you when I was single .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

It's difficult to know if it's the forum which is the factor there though or if you're attracting the wrong kind of attention or having the wrong kind of conversations outside the forum

It would be daft to assume that their non foruming ways are why they were disasters. Sorry OP. I've had meets that work from the forum and away from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

See im the opposite iv tried the meet now spontanious fuck in the past or next day tipe thing both times fealt machanical like scratvhing an itch found it horrible as i knew nothing about them"

Would you not be better on tinder ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

See im the opposite iv tried the meet now spontanious fuck in the past or next day tipe thing both times fealt machanical like scratvhing an itch found it horrible as i knew nothing about them"

Why does meeting away from the forum have to equate to the spontaneous unknown. I put far more effort into my meets than most on the forum do... because they think they know them. It's bollocks. People on the forum give off the persona they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets Fuck baby im feelin foxy ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I imagine a downside would be if you didn't get on having previously been quite chatty on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me"

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

They can't help it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

Makes me cringe, but I generally keep myself to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets Fuck baby im feelin foxy bingo ..

Other bingos are available.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets Fuck baby im feelin foxy bingo ..

Other bingos are available."

Banana bingo

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

They can't help it though "

And it isn’t hard to read between the lines .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Never done it in over 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive met 2 none forum folks both disasters

It's difficult to know if it's the forum which is the factor there though or if you're attracting the wrong kind of attention or having the wrong kind of conversations outside the forum

It would be daft to assume that their non foruming ways are why they were disasters. Sorry OP. I've had meets that work from the forum and away from it."

The op has since described that his non forum meets were last minute or next day and with no real getting a sense of the person. That there is the problem imo not forum vs not... context and build up vs not.

As I've said elsewhere, it's why I lay emphasis in my profile on seduction. A meet who isn't interested in the build up isn't worth meeting imo. If it doesn't work for you, you shouldn't have any fear about ruling it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

They can't help it though "

Yes some do this I prefer to keep it between friends.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Not dabbled with a forum person yet, I suppose there's more chance of indiscretion within friendship groups , but if there's trust built I can't see an issue.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

**Hanky quietly crosses Gloswingers off her fucketlist**

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

Hence why I don't show any verifications on my profile. What and who I see on here is my business.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Ultimately there is no right way or wrong way - just your way

I personally like to be able to get to know people both through messaging and seeing how they are on the forums (where you can often see a different side to some people) but that's my preference. It doesn't mean I shout about it or find any awkwardness when those people have met others either - I just go quietly about my meets and the only way people will mostly know who I've met is if they look at my veris.

Totally appreciate though that that approach may not be for others and if it's what works for them then great - certainly wouldn't put what works for others down in any way at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally only meet people from the forums- I don't meet but I occasionally meet forum folk as I feel I get to know them better

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

Hence why I don't show any verifications on my profile. What and who I see on here is my business."

That’s cool , but do you leave veris ? And do those you leave them for exercise the same discretion ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming "look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

I've had lovely meets with two lovely women since I joined this time. Neither of them with any veri trail. Neither of them mentioned once on here by me other than in this vague way. I'm someone who could be accused of broadcasting my misadventures on the forums. But I hate gossip and shit stirring. I'm super allergic to it in fact. So whatever I share on here is only ever about situations or people who I'm confident aren't on here and with a view to offering or getting advice advice or stimulating interesting conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would hate to meet these forumites it seems like there’s some weird shit going on between them all , we don’t have all this drama ! Shit it’s like a soap .

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

Hence why I don't show any verifications on my profile. What and who I see on here is my business.

That’s cool , but do you leave veris ? And do those you leave them for exercise the same discretion ? "

I do leave them for others but I never go into detail, I find that crass and totally unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it simple really.

Don't lamp post piss

Don't announce to the forums or anyone who your meeting before during or after

Don't have a "private bitchfest" in the forums if you have issues with another

Don't show veries

Don't advertise what you don't want others to know...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel."

Yup. You get to know people on the forums and it's hard to resist, but meeting them has a real sting in the tail, it's all too *ncestuous for my liking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met from both forums and not . Neither have caused any bother. I sometimes choose to show veris or not from people Ive met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They flirt/fuck with a large proportion of other forum folk. Under your nose.

I don’t need that.

#jealousbintalert

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By *eliciousKisserMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I’ve only met people from the forums, it’s not been an issue for me at all"

I wished I’d read this 7 weeks ago!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel.

Yup. You get to know people on the forums and it's hard to resist, but meeting them has a real sting in the tail, it's all too *ncestuous for my liking.

I think I feel the same as Frisky. That's not to say I wouldn't meet forumites. But I'm concerned that it could all become a bit claustrophobic. I don't know. Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

Hence why I don't show any verifications on my profile. What and who I see on here is my business."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X "

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel.

Yup. You get to know people on the forums and it's hard to resist, but meeting them has a real sting in the tail, it's all too *ncestuous for my liking.

I think I feel the same as Frisky. That's not to say I wouldn't meet forumites. But I'm concerned that it could all become a bit claustrophobic. I don't know. Hmmm

It only becomes claustrophobic if you allow it to - as I said before all of my meets so far have been with forumites and there's no awkwardness, no sense of claustrophobia or anything - but then by getting to know those people first partly through seeing how they act on the forums and partly through messaging I've always had a fair level of confidence that would be the case. Add to that that I go about my Fab business quietly and respectfully and awkwardness is avoided.

Yes there are some that revel in washing their dirty linen in public but through seeing them do so on the forums it helps me avoid them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any."

Don't they just??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They flirt/fuck with a large proportion of other forum folk. Under your nose.

I don’t need that.

#jealousbintalert"

The flirting is all part of the forum fun

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any.

Don't they just??

Sometimes it's like being in a playground full of 3 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They flirt/fuck with a large proportion of other forum folk. Under your nose.

I don’t need that.

#jealousbintalert

The flirting is all part of the forum fun

Sets my anxiety off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No downsides that I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any."

Oh yes, I’ve seen it get nasty at times. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who are you meeting op that you're worried about??

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any.

Oh yes, I’ve seen it get nasty at times. X "

So have I which is sad. I think some people have a very unrealistic view re swinging and aren't mature enough to handle things when they don't go their way.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"So who are you meeting op that you're worried about??"

Ok it's me, secrets out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any.

Oh yes, I’ve seen it get nasty at times. X

So have I which is sad. I think some people have a very unrealistic view re swinging and aren't mature enough to handle things when they don't go their way."

Sometimes people want different things, then due to either lack of communication or not being truthful misunderstandings happen. X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any.

Oh yes, I’ve seen it get nasty at times. X

So have I which is sad. I think some people have a very unrealistic view re swinging and aren't mature enough to handle things when they don't go their way.

Sometimes people want different things, then due to either lack of communication or not being truthful misunderstandings happen. X "

I agree....facts should always come before fiction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve. Met both on and off the forums. I just don’t get involved in the drama. X

Some people just like to create drama where there isn't any.

Oh yes, I’ve seen it get nasty at times. X

So have I which is sad. I think some people have a very unrealistic view re swinging and aren't mature enough to handle things when they don't go their way.

Sometimes people want different things, then due to either lack of communication or not being truthful misunderstandings happen. X

I agree....facts should always come before fiction."

Makes for car crash reading at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So who are you meeting op that you're worried about??

Ok it's me, secrets out."

Fucking hell... how many couples are you becoming part of,??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fire them at me

Go"

Got enough yet?

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

They’ll say you’re not as funny in real life than in the forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

There’s good folk about. However, I have been amazed at some of the behind the scenes slagging off that I’ve become aware of over the years though. Both genders. And often those that are frequent posters that they *don’t* do that. We are all hypocrites here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

Hypocrites everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

I think you're right that after a while of being involved in the forums you get to know a lot more about people.

The forums have evolved from what they used to be like. Some good some bad.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

I think you're right that after a while of being involved in the forums you get to know a lot more about people.

The forums have evolved from what they used to be like. Some good some bad. "

I like them to have a cheeky little flirt and a laugh with people

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"So who are you meeting op that you're worried about??

Ok it's me, secrets out.

Fucking hell... how many couples are you becoming part of,??

It won't last

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

**Hanky quietly crosses Gloswingers off her fucketlist**

Hey ignore me, I am still sat quietly gutted in the corner!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

I think you're right that after a while of being involved in the forums you get to know a lot more about people.

The forums have evolved from what they used to be like. Some good some bad.

I like them to have a cheeky little flirt and a laugh with people

That's outrageous behaviour please report to my room for a good spanking

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

I think you're right that after a while of being involved in the forums you get to know a lot more about people.

The forums have evolved from what they used to be like. Some good some bad.

I like them to have a cheeky little flirt and a laugh with people

That's outrageous behaviour please report to my room for a good spanking

On my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me"

I've had a few meets through the forums over the years, though many more still from users outside them?

I think it's location mainly, I can get really friendly with forumites, bit of course they're well spread location-wise, so we have to wait until I am based in their area and they are free to coincide?

Whereas I get plenty from the messages I receive from women and couples in the area I'm in where location is less of a waiting game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The vast majority of my sex meets from Fab have been non-forum folk.

Talk about poisoning the well Estella

So now we're supposed to believe there are a bunch of unnamed people among us on the forum who slag us off behind our backs and that they are often the people who appear to be nice ?!?!

That's fucking Stasi level paranoia inducement there.

Jeez. When the fuck did the forums turn into the Jeremy Kyle show? I'm just about done with this bullshit. So fucking claustrophobic. I came on here for some light hearted fun. Not to get embroiled in a fucking soap opera

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Pretty much all of my meets off here have been a result of flirting on the forums

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By *J8929Man
over a year ago

london

Most people who use the forums talk to much, are extremely irritating, also very often opinionated, albeit usually misguided opinions, hate being disagreed with, make the same shitty jokes on threads , such as any BBC thread “oh I prefer ITV”

are capable of the most horrific virtue signalling u could wish to find, are cringe as fuck and chat pure shit.

But if they got a nice set of Tits I’ll still meet them, so Swings and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any upsides ?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As we rarely meet anybody from Fab meeting Forumites would be no different.

It does however let us know who we would never wish to meet off here when the usual backbiting crew join forces to put down a newbie or someone who disagrees with them.

Mind you looking at their profiles they never meet anybody but each other and they are welcome to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fire them at me

Go"
Everyone knows about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys guys guys your all reading far too much into this just an innocent question all of a sudden its like jeremy bloody kyle lol

No lines to read between

Hahahaha

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Guys guys guys your all reading far too much into this just an innocent question all of a sudden its like jeremy bloody kyle lol

No lines to read between

Hahahaha

Well you did ask

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Fire them at me

Go"

Thar arnt any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't met any for a while

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's like 6 degrees of separation. 'Some' bitchiness, gossiping, stepping on others toes can occur but I met my fwb through the forums so it worked for me

But all of that is avoidable, if people didnt broadcast their sex lives to the world.

Screaming " look who I've fucked" is kinda courting disaster really

They can't help it though

And it isn’t hard to read between the lines .

I love the couples profiles they set up. We all know they aren't real... aren't going to last... we're just waiting

Whats that got to do with anything why do we have to be a real couple to want to try things together oh swinging goddes keep ya barbs to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fire them at me

GoEveryone knows about it "

Only if you tell them!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So who are you meeting op that you're worried about??"

Who said i was worried its just a simple question i love meeting forum folks rather that the wild west of locals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site like any other site. If you click you might meet.......or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums."

It’s always been the same unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a time I thought it was a good place to meet people, but then I realised I was too immature to cope with it after I read and believed all the advice on the forum

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

It’s always been the same unfortunately "

I noticed. To me if you don't have the balls to sort it out face to face then don't come whinging about it on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That thier confidence drains when you're hand them a pen and peace off paper other too them.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

When I meet someone it doesn’t make very much difference if they have been on the forums or not. I haven’t been to the large forum social gatherings. I’m not interested in the soap opera nature of some of it.

I actually like seeing the people I have met from the forums flirting with others. And the people not in the forums still display verifications from other meets, so I still know when they have seen other people. But that’ the point of this site.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Threads on this topic always seem to bring out one or two individuals who seem to delight in expressing a particularly superior disdain towards forumites ...

… forgetting that by virtue of posting in the forums at all, and sometimes regularly, they too fall within the group of people they're so scathing about

Which always makes me think it's a good job that *their* non-forum meets don't share the same opinion about seeing forumites or else they'd be a bit stuck ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums."

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

What a shame that we have to discuss forum users as though they are ‘lesser’ beings. If you’ve commented then you use the forums which therefore means you’re criticising yourselves... if you’re here then you’re a forumite

Meet from the forums if you are happy doing so. I feel a downside is that you can lose some of your privacy when you do so because people talk, irrespective of having a veri and often without having any facts, but such is life. I would put as much effort into meeting someone from the forums as away from it because anyone, anywhere can have any persona they choose to have (including those that don’t visit the forums).

Just because a person doesn’t believe what you say that doesn’t make you a hypocrite - it does however make them cynical. I’m very pleased not to live my life that way.

I like hanging around the forums and I chat to some lovely people. I’ve met some at socials and again, I’ve enjoyed that. I tend to keep other things away from the forums but it would always depend on the person.

I will be meeting some more forumites at the Manchester social and I am very much looking forward to that. They really are a lovely lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The few forumites I've met have been on more of a friendly basis, which is fine. I find it difficult to find anything more than that here or elsewhere on the site, to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads on this topic always seem to bring out one or two individuals who seem to delight in expressing a particularly superior disdain towards forumites ...

… forgetting that by virtue of posting in the forums at all, and sometimes regularly, they too fall within the group of people they're so scathing about

Which always makes me think it's a good job that *their* non-forum meets don't share the same opinion about seeing forumites or else they'd be a bit stuck ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

"
damn can I help

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

You must have had offers though. Virtually every day!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets? What are these strange things you talk of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple once, and their general principal is 'consenting adults in private'. Meaning that you are not obligated or coerced and it's discreet.

It depends on how much you wish to be exposed and visible. What other factors kick in to bear influence on your decisions.

But there is a discreet world operating quite nicely within the site. It's how some folks want it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are just like any other social commmnity surely. The fact it’s on fab is fairly irrelevant. Like most other social communities, relationships and friendships will happen, some may last, some may not. People will fall out and have disagreements. That’s life. Don’t think we need to be speculating that people’s relationships won’t last. If 2 people meet in life and feel enough for each other that they think they have a shot at being happy then surely we should all be supportive and positive about it, as long as nobody is being hurt in the process.

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Never met anyone from the forums.....it hasn't been a conscious choice...just never happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

damn can I help

Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The downside for me is that it all seems a little inc*stuous (had to censor that to get through site filters!) there’s definitely a ‘behind the scenes rumour mill’ about who did what at which social etc, that’s a lot of dramarama for what I view as a NSA fuck site. And I don’t necessarily want to be the topic of conversation at future Forum-dwellers meetings!

Having said that, the people I have met off of the forums have all been lovely - and had I not been a gobby twat on here, I wouldn’t have had anywhere near the volume of meets. Even the ‘non-forum’ meets have tended to come from lurkers who saw me on here even though they don’t post themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

You must have had offers though. Virtually every day!?"

Aww thanks, but my ‘offers’ very rarely one from the forums. I think that’s why I see them as more for social chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

damn can I help

Maybe?

"
Oooooo see I love a positive comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The downside for me is that it all seems a little inc*stuous (had to censor that to get through site filters!) there’s definitely a ‘behind the scenes rumour mill’ about who did what at which social etc, that’s a lot of dramarama for what I view as a NSA fuck site. And I don’t necessarily want to be the topic of conversation at future Forum-dwellers meetings!

Bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

damn can I help

Maybe?

Oooooo see I love a positive comment "

OK, I’m positive you might be able to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never met anyone from the forums, I’ve always viewed the forum as somewhere to chat, never thought about potential meets strangely

damn can I help

Maybe?

Oooooo see I love a positive comment

OK, I’m positive you might be able to help

"
Ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can’t speak without repeating your last sentence first

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

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over a year ago

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Guys I’d say avoid the bunny boilers they’re easy to spot

Ladies don’t believe everything you’re told, read between the lines

Last but not least due diligence

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"[Removed by poster at 20/08/18 09:56:40]

Coward

No just sorting my emojis

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 20/08/18 09:56:40]

Coward

No just sorting my emojis "

I know im one too

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I don't see why you'd limit yourself to forumites, I've met some fantastic people both on and off the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They can’t speak without repeating your last sentence first "

Oops, apologies all.

I was answering the original post, seems a bit out of place having read the whole thread now.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"They can’t speak without repeating your last sentence first

Oops, apologies all.

I was answering the original post, seems a bit out of place having read the whole thread now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This threads a perfect example of chinese wispers who knows what it gonna finnish up as

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel."

Everyone and anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t met anyone from the forums but there are a few folk that I would like to meet, socially or to play.

Reading all these points, and there’s plenty of very valid points, but most of these issues you could get with non-formite meets i.e the bitchiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anybody wants to arrange a meet, you know where to find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit off putting when everyone is fucking everyone.

I know how that sounds, but that's just the way I feel.

Everyone and anyone

But it is not down to the forums only though. People from the same area usually meet the same people and it completely made me rethink my approach to sex, which btw I am actually grateful for.

I don't mind meeting ppl (forumites or not) socially and then I just carefully choose who I get intimate with.

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By *exyspecs and supermanCouple
over a year ago

A house, a very big house in the country

If it's bareback you choose then I suggest it's a trip to the gum clinic

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up.

Better than any soap operas...tune in next week for even more drama

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up.

Better than any soap operas...tune in next week for even more drama

Wheres the duff duff thing

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up.

Better than any soap operas...tune in next week for even more drama

Wheres the duff duff thing

That's still to come...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it's bareback you choose then I suggest it's a trip to the gum clinic

Random but thanks for the imput

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up.

Better than any soap operas...tune in next week for even more drama

Wheres the duff duff thing

That's still to come..."

Must be a slow episode there wasnt one

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Too many people air personal grievances on here and everyone adds fuel to the fire. Some things should be kept of the forums.

I think it should be brought to the forum more often. Plus an Omnibus edition thread so we can catch up.

Better than any soap operas...tune in next week for even more drama

Wheres the duff duff thing

That's still to come...

Must be a slow episode there wasnt one

It will kick off again soon enough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never met anyone from the forums in a sexual way, only a social setting. I don’t think I’ve seen my type of guy on here anyway. I would prefer to keep any friendships on the forums as just that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re never in your area so your petrol and train expenses are through the roof!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They’re never in your area so your petrol and train expenses are through the roof!"

Not half

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some turn out to be not who they seem...

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’ve met a certain bearded chap from the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fire them at me

Go"

Never meeting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The funny thing is we carry on the conversation from the threads lol some of them are right funny buggers the others are just keyboard warriors lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The positives outweigh any negatives for me. Are there any negatives??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The positives outweigh any negatives for me. Are there any negatives??"

Well that kind of were i was going with it before it mutated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re talking to you but you can’t see them because they’ve forgotten to turn the cloaking shield off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re talking to you but you can’t see them because they’ve forgotten to turn the cloaking shield off

Oh and calling people using their username rather than their actual names lol

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"For us swinging is like a fantasy world .

An escape from reality .

Spontaneous , adrenaline fuelled encounters that satisfy all parties , a fix if you like .

By getting to know people we play with so much of the above is lost . Second meets are never as good as the first , in fact underwhelming best describes them .

So for different people , meeting forum members is the last thing that appeals as there’s a sense of already knowing them . And that has no appeal for us at all .

**Hanky quietly crosses Gloswingers off her fucketlist**

Hey ignore me, I am still sat quietly gutted in the corner!!

We have plenty of ‘friends’ in the scene . Some we’ve played with , some we haven’t .

We’ve never met you , although over the years we have chatted and there have been times we most certainly would love to have been on your fucket list !

You would be the exception to our rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets have been through the forums.

I don't do fuck and runs, so I use the forum as a way of gauging whether we'd be a good match in and out the bed as I like to social and flirt before the clothes come off.

If we get on well online, chances are we will face to face, and so far haven't had a bad experience using this method.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re talking to you but you can’t see them because they’ve forgotten to turn the cloaking shield off

Oh and calling people using their username rather than their actual names lol"

Real names are so hard to remember

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Anyone faf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone faf

Only if it will shut you up!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Anyone faf

Only if it will shut you up!

Depends if your any good or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They’re talking to you but you can’t see them because they’ve forgotten to turn the cloaking shield off

Oh and calling people using their username rather than their actual names lol

Real names are so hard to remember

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Oh yeah, one other thing. Some of them bitches be crazy!!!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Oh yeah, one other thing. Some of them bitches be crazy!!! "

Oh yes this for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bitchiness and gossip. That's why it's important to choose forum prey well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The bitchiness and gossip. That's why it's important to choose forum prey well

Im not a bloody raptor

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"The bitchiness and gossip. That's why it's important to choose forum prey well

Im not a bloody raptor

I had you more as a T-Rex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The bitchiness and gossip. That's why it's important to choose forum prey well

Im not a bloody raptor

Yeah yeah! You keep telling yourself that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally won't meet forum it's for a few reasons. That said I've met one and will meet another soon but it's a very rare thing. Maybe the Irish forums have had a big influence on my decision. The two I refere too above are from England.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

No one near.me on the forums...lots of folk dont ever use the forums ...

I prefer to keep myself.to myself ....im not an exhibitionist .... im a listener , and will join in on a topical debate if its interesting ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a kick off last year, it's where yazoo comes from. Forum people tend to be on lots of people's radars and I can't cope with that, I like to be special and now one of many. I wouldn't meet any forum people, ok maybe Lib or F&B but even then I wouldn't want to have sex with them in case I was shit and had to face them again on here, I'd be embarrassed to stick around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a kick off last year, it's where yazoo comes from. Forum people tend to be on lots of people's radars and I can't cope with that, I like to be special and now one of many. I wouldn't meet any forum people, ok maybe Lib or F&B but even then I wouldn't want to have sex with them in case I was shit and had to face them again on here, I'd be embarrassed to stick around. "

I get where you're coming from and yes that would be a hard one to face. I'd rather think though you wouldn't fall into that category.

There are times one see posts on forums that may allure to something on the topic you suggest but it's more often than not by someone who didn't get what they wanted.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

FAB would be so much better without "verifications" they seem to cause more trouble than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe Lib or F&B but even then I wouldn't want to have sex with them in case I was shit and had to face them again on here, I'd be embarrassed to stick around. "

It takes two to tango.

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