Convince partner to swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A girl friend of mine is driven crazy by the thought of another couple or man joining us in bed. I'm trying to convince her to try it but she won't take the next step. Any idea of how I can convince her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A girl friend of mine is driven crazy by the thought of another couple or man joining us in bed. I'm trying to convince her to try it but she won't take the next step. Any idea of how I can convince her?"

You can’t. For some it’s just a fantasy and will stay like that. If she wants to take the step it needs to be entirely on her terms and not down to some form of cajoling or manipulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she your actual girlfriend or just some woman you fuck? Why do you want to convince her to do something that she doesn't want to do?

You could suggest going to a club together. She can watch and see what she thinks.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Convince? Just ask her if she would like it. If she says "No" respect her choice and either drop the subject or get another girlfriend.

Think of something you would absolutely hate, then think of her trying to convince you to try it. Doesn't work does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t convince her.

Ask her if she’d like to try it. If she says no, then that’s that. Respect that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Ask her if why she doesn't want to take the next step. If she really wants to but has concerns discuss them, if she has strong objections and says it's just a fantasy eave it alone.

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