FabSwingers.com forum: Is milf a derogatory term?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ....

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I'd prefer Wilf ,but that could get confusing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ...."

Who invented it anyway and why?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nar it's just stupid.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ....

Who invented it anyway and why? "

Was it the Archbishop of Canterbury or some porn pedalling misogynist that labels women for financial gain? I can't recall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

So why not go by what women tell you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ....

Who invented it anyway and why? "

Most probably the media, tabloid press most likely, and I believe it was supposed to be teenage boy's view of his best mate's mum.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ....

Who invented it anyway and why?

Was it the Archbishop of Canterbury or some porn pedalling misogynist that labels women for financial gain? I can't recall."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me cringe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt offend me, it’s not sexy & I just think it makes the men that use it look like dicks.

That’s my opinion, there’s plenty of women out there that like the terminology.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Yes, in my case. Some comments say hot milf, how can that be.

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

No terms need to be derogatory if used in the right way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont bother me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll form an opinion on whoever calls it me yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?"

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

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If labels are derogatory then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feed the troll.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll."

Wrong thread snowhite

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster

Your lack of knowledge of the American pie series of films saddens me. It all started with Stiflers mum, she was a pedigree milf, the original milf.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

It’s something I’d maybe expect one of my kids mates to say. In fact some dick of a lad said it when I was out with my daughter the other week and even she said she’d be embarrassed if any of her mates used that term. She said the others would all just laugh at him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?"
yes the statistics

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Don't feed the troll."

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?"

Better luck next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now gilf that's another thing entirely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though."

How do we determine what a troll is?

Just so I know

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Nar it's just stupid."

This. I don't particularly find it offensive, a bit cringey though.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

How do we determine what a troll is?

Just so I know"

It sits under a bridge and waits for trip trapping goats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?

Better luck next time

Next time I may read an educated, reasoned adult debate on here

Probably best I dont hold my breath though

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Nar it's just stupid.

This. I don't particularly find it offensive, a bit cringey though. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

How do we determine what a troll is?

Just so I know"
It's tabloid terminology it doesn't apply here or if it does we are all trolls

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

In my understanding it's someone who sets out to deliberately cause offence .... dumb questions and gentle wind ups don't come under that category to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

Id love to be called a milf its a compliment imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my understanding it's someone who sets out to deliberately cause offence .... dumb questions and gentle wind ups don't come under that category to me. "
an Internet troll is a person who quarrels or upsets people to attract and sow discord by posting inflammatory statements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my understanding it's someone who sets out to deliberately cause offence .... dumb questions and gentle wind ups don't come under that category to me. "

Ah, but how do we determine what a ' dumb question' is?

Some would say there is no such thing

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

It's a overly used these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my understanding it's someone who sets out to deliberately cause offence .... dumb questions and gentle wind ups don't come under that category to me.

Ah, but how do we determine what a ' dumb question' is?

Some would say there is no such thing"

I think there's no such thing as a dumb question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your lack of knowledge of the American pie series of films saddens me. It all started with Stiflers mum, she was a pedigree milf, the original milf. "

Is that where it came from?

The word doesn't bother me. It depends on the person it's describing whether they like it or not I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?

Better luck next time

Next time I may read an educated, reasoned adult debate on here

Probably best I dont hold my breath though"

You don’t have to get involved if you don’t find it entertaining.. hope this helps

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

If it’s said as a compliment, I’ll take it.

I’m usually just delighted that someone has said something nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with most things it's offensive to some.

I do roll my eyes when I'm referred to as one even though I have no children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As with most things it's offensive to some.

I do roll my eyes when I'm referred to as one even though I have no children

It's bad with no kids and someone says "you're a milf". Are they saying I look haggard?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell noooooo. Ruby quite likes it. She much prefers being called milf rather than babe or hun or similar names, any day of the week. There are several others she likes too but since she's a lady we won't disclose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?

Better luck next time

Next time I may read an educated, reasoned adult debate on here

Probably best I dont hold my breath though

You don’t have to get involved if you don’t find it entertaining.. hope this helps

You ever so slightly missed my point there

I was trying to get involved

Responding to your OP.

Thinking you were going to respond accordingly

That didnt happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people are offended way too easy.

Who cares, it’s like the C word people hyperventilate.

Just rediculous.

Just words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hated being referred to as a milf when I was in my twenties, especially by guys that were the same age or older than myself.

Now it doesn't bother me so much because I have a teenage child but if anyone older than about 25 used the term I'd still call them out for sounding like a dick

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

It’s not a term I’d use myself but I’m not offended by it - no!

My hackles rise if I’m called a cougar though - as my definition of a cougar seems to be somewhat different to theirs!

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ....

Who invented it anyway and why? "

Don't know who invented it, but I first heard it in the film American Pie

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Your lack of knowledge of the American pie series of films saddens me. It all started with Stiflers mum, she was a pedigree milf, the original milf. "

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Not offended (as I'm childless) but my goodness it reeks of teenage wanking and crusty mop up rags stuffed under the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's make the chamge to MWILF. Mature Woman I'd Like to Fuck

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Not offended (as I'm childless) but my goodness it reeks of teenage wanking and crusty mop up rags stuffed under the bed "

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not a fan makes me cringe

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By *ieran2210Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I have always had mixed come backs, some love it & even call themselves it & some say don’t call me that lol it’s a mixed word so I don’t use it no more

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

It's a term that used to be used mainly by older teens not long out of school about their mates mum's, nowadays it's used by loads of guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

If most people get offended

What does that tell you?

“Most people”

You haven't answered the question.

Are you able to?

My post says most people find it offensive not everyone.. hence the question. Reading my post again will help

Thats just my point!!

You said " most people find it offensive"

So you answered your own question didnt you?

Or have I missed something?

Better luck next time

Next time I may read an educated, reasoned adult debate on here

Probably best I dont hold my breath though

You don’t have to get involved if you don’t find it entertaining.. hope this helps

You ever so slightly missed my point there

I was trying to get involved

Responding to your OP.

Thinking you were going to respond accordingly

That didnt happen

What’s your point?

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though."

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling."

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I also think it is a big assumption, I may be 44 however, I am not a mother, so that is why it irks me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then. "

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted."

Ok, apologies. I thought this was a serious thread though. It's just a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted.

Ok, apologies. I thought this was a serious thread though. It's just a question.

I thought it was too

I feel a bit silly now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted.

Ok, apologies. I thought this was a serious thread though. It's just a question.

I thought it was too

I feel a bit silly now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking as most people get offended if you call them milf..

What has being a MOTHER got to do with wanting to fuck a woman ?

I think that women are less offended by the term....than they find the men who use it sexually to be creepy ....

Who invented it anyway and why? "

I think from the USA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted.

Ok, apologies. I thought this was a serious thread though. It's just a question.

I thought it was too

I feel a bit silly now"

I tend to assume his posts err to the wind up / joke / controversial side as opposed to the serious. Maybe one day he’ll surprise us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted.

Ok, apologies. I thought this was a serious thread though. It's just a question.

I thought it was too

I feel a bit silly now"

Not sure if you're serious but don't feel silly. It's Saturday. Weekends are awesome.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"Don't feed the troll.

No one has trolled anyone on this thread which itself is not a troll thread.

Alluding that someone is a troll without any substantive evidence is trolling though.

Considering the the long conversation held where he refused to clarify a point. Yes, he's trolling.

Are people trolls if they don't want to answer questions? I'm a troll then.

You, no.

Bananaman is known for trolling/setting up joke threads to annoy. She was the only one to give him the reaction he wanted.

Ok, apologies. I thought this was a serious thread though. It's just a question.

I thought it was too

I feel a bit silly now

Not sure if you're serious but don't feel silly. It's Saturday. Weekends are awesome.

Any serious answers he seems to have ignored and let be, so technically it's both a serious and troll thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As with most things it's offensive to some.

I do roll my eyes when I'm referred to as one even though I have no children

"
35 is a good age to start thinking about them mind but practice is just as good

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

No.

Next question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was it even in existence before American pie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was it even in existence before American pie?"
yes it was a term used in morse code

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