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When a profile stipulates safe sex....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But all the photos are of multiple partners with no condoms on.....

Kind of puts you off doesn't it.

Why do people lie about stuff like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even ones with condoms on in pics ask to meet us and say they prefer bareback dont believe what they say or show in profile if safe sex is what you prefer you just have to make sure its what you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabguys has a box for bareback in the list of likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know that their pics aren’t from a relationship where they’re tested?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know that their pics aren’t from a relationship where they’re tested?"

With multiple different partners. I'm talking 20+ different cocks unsheathed?

It may be the case, but it's still off putting

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


"But all the photos are of multiple partners with no condoms on.....

Kind of puts you off doesn't it.

Why do people lie about stuff like that?"

By accident or design, they are sending out mixed messages.

Safe sex is a must for me, so anything that hints of bareback steers me away from someone.

I just reactivated my profile on fab guys.

As someone said above, one of the interests you can tick there is "bareback".

I have lost count of the number of times I have replied to a message with "sorry, your profile lists bareback" before blocking them.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

People lie on here full stop to get sex ,always take yoyr own precautions and take everything people say with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But all the photos are of multiple partners with no condoms on.....

Kind of puts you off doesn't it.

Why do people lie about stuff like that?"

Am with you on that one Op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know how many people they might have fucked before without a condom. You don't. You have to take their word for it.

Many guys on here have double standards. Not all. Just some. Same with ladies and couples too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does it say "safe sex only" if not I assume that they are happy to practice safe sex but it isn't a requirement.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"But all the photos are of multiple partners with no condoms on.....

Kind of puts you off doesn't it.

Why do people lie about stuff like that?"

I've always taken the view that 'safe sex' means they'll consider it rather than it being their norm!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does it say "safe sex only" if not I assume that they are happy to practice safe sex but it isn't a requirement."

Touche!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play safe stay safe, is the rule. We have been asked, so many have asked! But we have politely, declined.

The great thing is that there is a large majority of the community who agree with safe sex as a must.

So don’t concentrate on those who don’t, which is a small minority. Just find those who do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know that their pics aren’t from a relationship where they’re tested?

With multiple different partners. I'm talking 20+ different cocks unsheathed?

It may be the case, but it's still off putting "

Do you study the cocks in great detail to know that they're all different?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Photos represent the past, so are potentially different from the present and future. There's probably almost no one who has never had bareback, which may just have been with their partner whilst trying to conceive.

Just focus on great communication before and during a meet, alongside your own safety precautions. Medication is an additional method that some use for reduced issues potential but it won't be seen in pics.

Regular testing is essential, as not everything will show symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reverse image search them, most are probably not them anyway!!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I kind of assume they mean boring sex without the use flamethrowers, chainsaws or knifes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why make an issue over it?

If it's bothering you that much then there are plenty more profiles to look at.

Jeez....judgemental people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why make an issue over it?

If it's bothering you that much then there are plenty more profiles to look at.

Jeez....judgemental people."

Yep, just move on if something puts you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s my only interest listed on Fab, safe sex. Written again in my profile.

Met up with a guy yesterday who asked for bareback?! Obviously no. He didn’t even have condoms on him. No play. Wasted my time completely.

Afterwards I thought, thank goodness! Not that I would have considered it. But, seriously even with a condom I wouldn’t have wanted to fuck after knowing that! Too risky. Cause he was only meeting me for the first time, and clearly this is his M.O.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People lie on here full stop to get sex ,always take yoyr own precautions and take everything people say with a pinch of salt."

I just assume everyone does bareback.

The pics themselves would put me off anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why make an issue over it?

If it's bothering you that much then there are plenty more profiles to look at.

Jeez....judgemental people."

Are people not allowed to have opinions? And to discuss such things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think you never know what someone has done before. They could list safe sex and only show pics with condoms on but you never know if they've had hundreds of partners bareback they're not showing pics of so really it doesn't make much difference.

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