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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

blimey, that cheered me up no end lololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

What: You’re a horrible shit

Why: Because he’s my boss and I need the money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“If I turn blue with this orange in my mouth and this rope around my neck, please cut me down as my autoerotic asphyxiation experiment has gone horribly wrong”

Anyway, what about you OP?

You can’t pose a question like that without going first ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love you.

I don’t want to be rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn’t anything I need to say to anyone.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?"

I don't regret anything I haven't told anyone. But I think my family might have a few surprises when they look into me and how I lived my life!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I love you.

I don’t want to be rejected.

Say it. It’s really empowering

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Everyone I love knows it ,as I tell them all the time. No regrets if I pop my clogs tomorrow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There isn’t anything I need to say to anyone.

I can't think of anything I need to say to anyone either. I would only need to double check my will was in order really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find that if I've lost contact with someone it's not the good feelings I'd regret not telling them, it's the things they've said or done that have hurt me. Those feelings we keep hidden so not to upset a friend. But then I'd feel guilt at leaving them on a negative.....nope, I can't die, I'd feel too guilty

Peach x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't think there is anyone. I tend to tell people how I feel about them too often if at all.

And any I have possible negative feelings towards? Well, I would regret saying something shite and that being the last thing I told them. So no, I don't *think* there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love you.

I don’t want to be rejected.

Crikey just tell them. Rejection is far lesser pain than the feeling of regret that you didn’t have the courage to tell someone you loved them and lose them that way instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you did last summer !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There isn’t anything I need to say to anyone.

I can't think of anything I need to say to anyone either. I would only need to double check my will was in order really."

Good point the will needs updating. Must get round to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far too many to say

But if my phone rings now il freak out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love you.

I don’t want to be rejected.

Tell them. Fear is far more damaging than daring to do anything.

What do you have to lose? Once you do there's no going back whatever they may say.

But if you never tell them how will they ever know. If your really lucky they may feel the same way.

We only ever regret the things we didn't do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?"

I don't think there's anything I'd regret not saying tbh, my friends and family all know how much I love them. I'd maybe regret a little not being more honest when I haven't liked people, but on the other hand it's not in my nature to upset people so maybe not.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Please go to my house, go to our room, remove all the boxes from the top of the wardrobe, empty the bookcase, take the boxes and spreader bar from under the bed and empty the bedside drawers. Destroy the lot. Them smash my laptop and the pc." This to a trusted friend

Why? I don't want our kids finding THAT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop talking and thinking and get doing. Get busy living or get busy dying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d regret not telling my children i love them.

I tell them daily that i love them and how much they mean to me. But i would want to say it once more, with a big hug and a long look at their beautiful faces before i had to leave them.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?"

No regrets as they eat away at you so I've always told people what I want to say(good and bad)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?"

Not telling my wife that she is the best part of me and she has completed my life, why I havent told her that? I think she knows already

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?

Not telling my wife that she is the best part of me and she has completed my life, why I havent told her that? I think she knows already

Tell her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel a bit to sad to answer this this morning. But I'll tell my kids I love them again just incase.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel a bit to sad to answer this this morning. But I'll tell my kids I love them again just incase. "

I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling sad. Be gentle with yourself, and hugs x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet?"
What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel a bit to sad to answer this this morning. But I'll tell my kids I love them again just incase.

I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling sad. Be gentle with yourself, and hugs x"

Thanks Estella xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway ."

I actually find it uplifting!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!"
I understand that . I just don't want to die and leave my beloved Prince in the hands of anyone else . All my family are long gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

I can’t think of a single thing I haven’t said to the important people in my life

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Nothing

I can’t think of a single thing I haven’t said to the important people in my life"

This ^ and they know I love them, I tell them every day and they tell me. I wouldn’t want it any other way.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!"

I agree.

Most people don't like the thought of their own mortality, so immediately think that this thread is upsetting.

So, are you going to tell the person(s) that you love them?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!

I agree.

Most people don't like the thought of their own mortality, so immediately think that this thread is upsetting.

So, are you going to tell the person(s) that you love them?"
Are you asking me or Estella ?? x

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!

I agree.

Most people don't like the thought of their own mortality, so immediately think that this thread is upsetting.

So, are you going to tell the person(s) that you love them? Are you asking me or Estella ?? x"

Estella!

I was just being lazy and not scrolling back up and posting two replies.

However, if there is someone you love, you should tell them too!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!

I agree.

Most people don't like the thought of their own mortality, so immediately think that this thread is upsetting.

So, are you going to tell the person(s) that you love them? Are you asking me or Estella ?? x

Estella!

I was just being lazy and not scrolling back up and posting two replies.

However, if there is someone you love, you should tell them too!"
There was once . And as I said my parents are long gone , so it's just me and Pooch now. If I die before him , I want him in my arms , that's it xx

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!

I agree.

Most people don't like the thought of their own mortality, so immediately think that this thread is upsetting.

So, are you going to tell the person(s) that you love them? Are you asking me or Estella ?? x

Estella!

I was just being lazy and not scrolling back up and posting two replies.

However, if there is someone you love, you should tell them too! There was once . And as I said my parents are long gone , so it's just me and Pooch now. If I die before him , I want him in my arms , that's it xx"

Make sure you tell pooch every day then x

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven't you told them yet? What a cheery thread

. But as it's you Estella I'll let you off .

As long as Pooch is in my arms I don't really care what I haven't told others. He's all that matters to me anyway .

I actually find it uplifting!

I agree.

Most people don't like the thought of their own mortality, so immediately think that this thread is upsetting.

So, are you going to tell the person(s) that you love them? Are you asking me or Estella ?? x

Estella!

I was just being lazy and not scrolling back up and posting two replies.

Make sure you tell pooch every day then x"
Oh I do trust me . He's the reason I get up in the morning xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’d have regrets in telling my children and mr I love them. But I’d regret not having the opportunity to tell a nasty couple of people my true feelings towards them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always find that if I've lost contact with someone it's not the good feelings I'd regret not telling them, it's the things they've said or done that have hurt me. Those feelings we keep hidden so not to upset a friend. But then I'd feel guilt at leaving them on a negative.....nope, I can't die, I'd feel too guilty

Peach x"

Can you tell them they hurt you? It helps.

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