FabSwingers.com forum: Drinking for first time.

By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "

Yeah, tank a whole bottle of vodka in one go.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "

Don't get d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or ask your wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "

If you don't want to do it, don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "
do it in bedroom then when you fall you'll have somewhere soft to land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't bother! If you've survived almost 40 years without it, I'd argue that you neither want nor need it!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Depends what kind of d*unk you are

Happy/horny/aggressive/tearful

I suppose you’ll not know until you try but there’s no pressure to get d*unk... start with something you know you will like and mix it with because if u just try lager or whiskey straight off you’re gonna be put off for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't bother! If you've survived almost 40 years without it, I'd argue that you neither want nor need it!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Only do it if you want to, but you don't have to get d*unk when you drink. I rarely drink but when I do I have one maybe two drinks as I know that I can't handle more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only do it if you want to, but you don't have to get d*unk when you drink. I rarely drink but when I do I have one maybe two drinks as I know that I can't handle more."
Can I meet the lady when she's had 3

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

Some really good feedback.

Thanks

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "

Different drinks affect the body differently.

Takes a while to find the one that works best for you.

Then you have to work out your limit - the rubicon where you're merrily content or venture past the point of no return.

One thing I learned was never to mix the grape and the grain.

I settled on vodka and red and wine.

But never in the same glass and never on the same night.

One or t'other leaves me feeling fresh as a daisy the next day, but both together is a nightmare lol.

I avoid adding chemicals to any drink - mixers etc. So its fresh orange juice with the vodka rather than, say, cola.

And if you over-do it, drink as much water as you can before you pass out lolololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get a full litre of vodka and tank it in one go

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why is she pressuring you to drink?

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Why is she pressuring you to drink? "

She’s not pressuring me just saying try it once you will love it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why is she pressuring you to drink?

She’s not pressuring me just saying try it once you will love it. "

You said she was on your case about it.... That sounds like pressure to me. Why don't you drink at the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tank a litre of vodka

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Why is she pressuring you to drink?

She’s not pressuring me just saying try it once you will love it.

You said she was on your case about it.... That sounds like pressure to me. Why don't you drink at the moment? "

First started off due to religious reasons and after just didn’t.

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

I really need someone who I can trust and will join me for the first time.

I trust my wife but I don’t think I want her to be around for my first d*unken night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink is OK for socialising but keep it away from play - it has too many detrimental effects on performance.

I always avoid alcohol when meeting... Be on top form with your wits about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vodka

Litre

Tank it

Just do it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I really need someone who I can trust and will join me for the first time.

I trust my wife but I don’t think I want her to be around for my first d*unken night. "

You can enjoy a drink without getting dRunk.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I really need someone who I can trust and will join me for the first time.

I trust my wife but I don’t think I want her to be around for my first d*unken night.

You can enjoy a drink without getting dRunk."

As Samiss says. You’re not missing anything, there’s no fun in getting d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "

It's all very well to advise excercising self control but by the time you realise you've had enough,you're probably two or three drinks too late

Maybe the best advice for your first time drinking alcohol would be to sleep with the window open and a large bowl by the bed. Enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really need someone who I can trust and will join me for the first time.

I trust my wife but I don’t think I want her to be around for my first d*unken night. "

In my experience,going out on the lash with strangers seems like a lot of fun at the time but never,ever,ever ends well.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP if you don't really want to drink then don't - your wife should respect your decision.

A lot of people have an unhealthy attitude towards alcohol and consume it for the sole purpose of getting d*unk. The best way to enjoy alcohol is to just have a couple because it is a drink you enjoy the taste of and to not over do it. When you drink too much it makes you throw up and can give you an almighty hangover the next morning which is rather unpleasant.

If you are curious and just want to try it then have one or two just to see what it tastes like. If it doesn't feel right to you because of your faith then don't do it. Nobody has to drink if they don't want to.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Obviously, you sound like you actually want to go out and have a drink... maybe even to excess.

Having a drink doesn't need to be a bad thing, it is generally just a mood enhancer... (happy people get happier and sad people get sadder).

What I would suggest though is to go out to a local pub with your wife and just try a few different drinks. Try half a pint each of larger, bitter, cider, maybe a small wine and a couple of different shots (whisky or vodka) mixed with something that you like such as or lemonade... limit yourself to no more than 6-8 units of alcohol and drink them slowly.

Afterwards, you will have an idea what it feels like to be under the influence, but not "hammered". You'll also have an idea of which drinks you like.

Cal

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Obviously, you sound like you actually want to go out and have a drink... maybe even to excess.

Having a drink doesn't need to be a bad thing, it is generally just a mood enhancer... (happy people get happier and sad people get sadder).

Afterwards, you will have an idea what it feels like to be under the influence, but not "hammered". You'll also have an idea of which drinks you like.

Cal"

Good advice

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Ignore that

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Just have a few shots, enough to make you tingle and relax you, don’t go beyond that or get d*unk the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post hits home since I remember the first time I drank alcohol. Being a Muslim myself, the religious conditioning we go through during our childhood can be debilitating during adulthood.

The best advice I've seen so far is from Cal.

Personally, I think you should try something like an alco-pop and see if you like that.... Baby steps

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

Thanking everyone for the advice. I done it last night no longer a alcohol virgin.

What a fantastic night it was!!

Just looked at the bill OMG. Got a bit carried away.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Thanking everyone for the advice. I done it last night no longer a alcohol virgin.

What a fantastic night it was!!

Just looked at the bill OMG. Got a bit carried away. "

What did you have??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't keep us waiting, what did you drink??!

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Thanking everyone for the advice. I done it last night no longer a alcohol virgin.

What a fantastic night it was!!

Just looked at the bill OMG. Got a bit carried away.

What did you have?? "

Only ones I remember

Porn star

3 vodka

Tequila shots

Gin

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Thanking everyone for the advice. I done it last night no longer a alcohol virgin.

What a fantastic night it was!!

Just looked at the bill OMG. Got a bit carried away.

What did you have??

Only ones I remember

Porn star

3 vodka

Tequila shots

Gin

I'd have been hospitalized if I drank that

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Thanking everyone for the advice. I done it last night no longer a alcohol virgin.

What a fantastic night it was!!

Just looked at the bill OMG. Got a bit carried away.

What did you have??

Only ones I remember

Porn star

3 vodka

Tequila shots

Gin

I was perfectly fine I don’t even have a hangover.

Necks is a bit stiff and that is about it.

I'd have been hospitalized if I drank that

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Thanking everyone for the advice. I done it last night no longer a alcohol virgin.

What a fantastic night it was!!

Just looked at the bill OMG. Got a bit carried away.

What did you have??

Only ones I remember

Porn star

3 vodka

Tequila shots

Gin

I'd have been hospitalized if I drank that

I am perfectly fine I don’t even have a hangover.

Necks is a bit stiff and that is about it.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Bloody hell bet you were off your rocker! Glad you had a good night though

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"My wife does drink and loves it. She is on my case to try it at least once. I am bit scared to be honest regarding how I would react or do when d*unk.

Any tips or suggestions? "

Go crazy, get into a fight, throw up on your wife, get locked up for stealing a police woman's truncheon and generally be a total arse.

Your wife will soon want the old none drinking you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends what kind of d*unk you are

Happy/horny/aggressive/tearful

Alcohol usually only extenuates what your already feeling so if your feeling sad you will feel sadder, angry will make you angrier. It also removes the social restrictions we place on ourselves.

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By *3xyCouple OP Couple
over a year ago

swingers town

"Depends what kind of d*unk you are

Happy/horny/aggressive/tearful

Alcohol usually only extenuates what your already feeling so if your feeling sad you will feel sadder, angry will make you angrier. It also removes the social restrictions we place on ourselves.

My wife said my OCD was at 101%

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