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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So i thought i would ask a contraversial question.

Whats the difference between paying a prostitute for sex, or paying to join a swingers club?

In both instances you are paying out money for the intention of having sex, only one of the options guarentees success.

Discuss????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not paying for sex at a swingers club it's not guaranteed. Your paying to enter the club- same as entering a night club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to discuss really, you seem a bit confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not guaranteed sex in a club, it's an entrance fee!

Women/men in the clubs can say no.

They are also less likely to have a drug habit to feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. You pay to guarantee you’ll get laid

2. You pay to get in and may not get laid.

Difference is, you pay to choose and the other is you pay to get chosen if you’re lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An escort might not really want to have sex with you and she's only doing it for the money you give her.

Someone you meet in a swingers club (hopefully) actually does want to have mutually satisfying sex with you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Nothing to discuss really, you seem a bit confused."

This..

Op, have you been to a club with that assumption..?

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

One you're paying for use of facilities, the other you're paying for somebody to pretend they want you to use their "facilities". Simples!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. You discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One you're paying for use of facilities, the other you're paying for somebody to pretend they want you to use their "facilities". Simples!"

I like this reply the best

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By *imandher84Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Aww shucks talk about putting your foot in your mouth op.

Not every one is at a swingers club for the sole purpose of bumping uglies sometimes it's just a pleasant change from the normal nights out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am not saying one is any better or worse than the other, indeed there is nothing wrong with either option in my opinion.

Both options involve money of one sort or another and the hope of a happy ending.

I merley post to encourage frank and open discussion.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"So i thought i would ask a contraversial question.

Whats the difference between paying a prostitute for sex, or paying to join a swingers club?

In both instances you are paying out money for the intention of having sex, only one of the options guarentees success.

Discuss????"

You’ll be guaranteed sex with a prostitution (she probably won’t enjoy it).

You’ve no guarantee of sex at a swingers club!

No discussion needed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aww shucks talk about putting your foot in your mouth op.

Not every one is at a swingers club for the sole purpose of bumping uglies sometimes it's just a pleasant change from the normal nights out. "

I know a couple of people who would love to have somone put their foot in their mouth, and of course you are quite right, not everyone goes to the clubs with an expectation of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww shucks talk about putting your foot in your mouth op.

Not every one is at a swingers club for the sole purpose of bumping uglies sometimes it's just a pleasant change from the normal nights out.

I know a couple of people who would love to have somone put their foot in their mouth, and of course you are quite right, not everyone goes to the clubs with an expectation of sex."

What do YOU think is the difference?

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"1. You pay to guarantee you’ll get laid

2. You pay to get in and may not get laid.

Difference is, you pay to choose and the other is you pay to get chosen if you’re lucky"

Love that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the difference is you get what you want from a prostitute(hopefully) whereas paying to be at a swingers club is all about the social side and the hope that you may click with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your not paying for sex at a swingers club it's not guaranteed. Your paying to enter the club- same as entering a night club "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A similar concept would be

You pay to eat out, food is guaranteed.

The other one would be having a lady cook for you. Treat her like shit you get fed shit. Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a whore, you’ll be amazingly fed.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A similar concept would be

You pay to eat out, food is guaranteed.

The other one would be having a lady cook for you. Treat her like shit you get fed shit. Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a whore, you’ll be amazingly fed."

You’ve a lot to learn about women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh fuck

Did I pay for guaranteed sex

I paid subs that's all yo belong to this swinging community. One thing not on the tin was...

Guaranteed for two months worth of sex....

So it's a big NO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A similar concept would be

You pay to eat out, food is guaranteed.

The other one would be having a lady cook for you. Treat her like shit you get fed shit. Treat her like a princess and fuck her like a whore, you’ll be amazingly fed.

You’ve a lot to learn about women "

No idea what you just said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer getting paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An escort might not really want to have sex with you and she's only doing it for the money you give her.

Someone you meet in a swingers club (hopefully) actually does want to have mutually satisfying sex with you. "

Now don't be sexist there are make escorts too

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