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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees

Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy.

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried the local shop or local pub?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Would maybe help if you put what type of woman you like. Might encourage more to message you x

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?"

Exactly this, whole generations have lost the skills and don't even realise the pleasure of meeting flirting and chatting up women in normal day to day life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?"

You can't buy women in the shops these days, can you?

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Maybe put an advertisement in the local newspaper ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?

Exactly this, whole generations have lost the skills and don't even realise the pleasure of meeting flirting and chatting up women in normal day to day life.

"

This.

I prefer to meet further afield but some good guys live miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for an indecent woman

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

No you cant buy them but I've met a few in our supermarket,a whole load more than on here that's for sure

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy.

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx"

It's even tougher finding a nice, indecent woman in your local area but, if you persist long enough, you'll eventually find one or two that are willing to be indecent with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?

You can't buy women in the shops these days, can you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bear in mind there are many more men on here than women,so they can be very selective. You could try going to socials if there are any in your area & get your face known. You've just got to be patient & keep trying.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?"

Is it a local shop for local people?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

They can’t give you a chance just because you’re local ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?

You can't buy women in the shops these days, can you?

"

A fiver is my final offer

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Have you tried the local shop or local pub?

Exactly this, whole generations have lost the skills and don't even realise the pleasure of meeting flirting and chatting up women in normal day to day life.

"

Some of us have issues which means we find it impossible to flirt and chat up someone we haven’t already broken the ice with. I used to think it was shyness but beginning to think it’s more of a social anxiety type thing

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have you tried the salad Isle in Sainsburys???..... You'll find a good woman there

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"They can’t give you a chance just because you’re local ... "

I know I get that.

but when you send them a decent message to a lass that is looking for similar things to you you would expect a reply or at least ask to see pic xx

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Have you asked Tubbs and Edward?

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"Would maybe help if you put what type of woman you like. Might encourage more to message you x"

You could be right thanks.

But to be honest I don’t really judge by looks as long as they want same as I do I.e regular fun etc xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Would maybe help if you put what type of woman you like. Might encourage more to message you x

You could be right thanks.

But to be honest I don’t really judge by looks as long as they want same as I do I.e regular fun etc xx"

It's just that you say you have a "certain" type.

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"Would maybe help if you put what type of woman you like. Might encourage more to message you x

You could be right thanks.

But to be honest I don’t really judge by looks as long as they want same as I do I.e regular fun etc xx

It's just that you say you have a "certain" type."

Yeah I should take that out really as meant personality type rather than looks type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would maybe help if you put what type of woman you like. Might encourage more to message you x

You could be right thanks.

But to be honest I don’t really judge by looks as long as they want same as I do I.e regular fun etc xx

It's just that you say you have a "certain" type."
yes a female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx"

We know the feeling we feel your pain

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Bear in mind there are many more men on here than women,so they can be very selective. You could try going to socials if there are any in your area & get your face known. You've just got to be patient & keep trying."

Guys can be just as selective...we can all say no thanks you're not my type..

If none are what you seek quantity doesn't necessarily mean it's easier.

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By *ornyjrl OP   Man
over a year ago

stockton on tees


"Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx

We know the feeling we feel your pain "

Where you guys from same place probs lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yorkshire birds are a tough nut to crack mate

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"They can’t give you a chance just because you’re local ...

I know I get that.

but when you send them a decent message to a lass that is looking for similar things to you you would expect a reply or at least ask to see pic xx"

They might not like your message, you might be wrong for them, they might have more than they can handle right now.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

My pal went a mission over a few months passing a business card with a smile to nice ladies in supermarkets..

Went on a good few dates and 3 years later he, s still with same girl... She, s nice aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx

We know the feeling we feel your pain

Where you guys from same place probs lol xx

"

Probs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy.

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx"

TRY BADOO

You will find lots there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried extending your area slightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a nice decent women in my local area it’s driving me crazy.

And when you do they don’t even give you a chance xx"

Why would you want a decent woman? The indecent ones are much more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god. #manfeelsentitled thread number 3487 this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should it be driving you crazy?

Patience is key. If they don’t reply move on to the next one.

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