FabSwingers.com forum: Spanking

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

For those that like to be spanked, what is it that you particularly like about it?

And for those that like to do it, why do you like it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sound, the feel/pain. Knowing who's doing it is getting turned on. When doing it, gives a bit of power, feels a bit cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, especially blindfolded, because not knowing when it's coming in itself is very hot and the spank is usually followed by something even nicer

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Its all about the adrenalin rush with me .i get such a buzz. I'm in a different mindset .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its all about the adrenalin rush with me .i get such a buzz. I'm in a different mindset ."

I get that totally

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

"The sound, the feel/pain. Knowing who's doing it is getting turned on. When doing it, gives a bit of power, feels a bit cheeky

Couldn't agree more

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I love the instant sting and sound then the pleasure that follows mmmmm. It brings absolute clarity/peace/exhilaration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmmm.....being spanked over someone's knee is devine. The body contact, feel of someone pulling my panties down, knowing I'm being punished for being a naughty girl, the thuddy feel of a hard hand spank, each strike hitting with meaning, the after burn.

Such a turn on, it makes me so wet. Mr loves it when he makes he squirm, my toes curl and he hears that sharp intake of breath. Big turn on for both. H x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I love being spanked and also like to spank guys.

It's a mix of the sensations as well as the 'punishment' connotations and the mental side of receiving. When sexually highly charged, the high intensity of a spanking elevates it all to a new level of pleasure.

When giving a guy a good spanking - I like to have him submit and to really deliver a good intense spank to his bare arse, submitted to me for my hand to deliver a short shock that will leave enduring feelings. It's more complex than this but I love to use my power.

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By *vanabeusedTV/TS
over a year ago

somewhere

Adore the vulnerability of it and the loss of control .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sound, the feel/pain. Knowing who's doing it is getting turned on. When doing it, gives a bit of power, feels a bit cheeky

Spank me any day OP

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Adore the vulnerability of it and the loss of control .

Yes this!

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

As someone that like to give pleasure and dislikes causing people pain, I found it took me a while to get into spanking. I had to come to terms with the fact that the pain is pleasurable! Once I get my head in gear I enjoy it, but it didn't come naturally at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As someone that like to give pleasure and dislikes causing people pain, I found it took me a while to get into spanking. I had to come to terms with the fact that the pain is pleasurable! Once I get my head in gear I enjoy it, but it didn't come naturally at first."

The first time I had it done to me I was really unsure about it but it was with someone I trust and was happy to experiment with him and now it does turn me on a lot.

Not sure I would be into a lot of pain though...

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Im Into heavy cp and spanking. I love the prison strap . had the birch once .recovery period took a bit longer than I like though .I got frustrated waiting to heal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound like my husband. Took him a while to get into it and build up to it. Enjoys spanking me now, same with other small pain related things. But did take him a long time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I don't really get any pain from spanking, all pleasure. It's the sound, the feel, the way it makes all the blood rush, the feeling of submitting, of giving him control, of pleasing him by withstanding what he wants.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Its all about the adrenalin rush with me .i get such a buzz. I'm in a different mindset ."

Absolutely. A good spank can reset my brain, in a good way.

I've only met two good spankers ever tho.

It's not just about walloping someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... everything!

I like the anticipation, the sting, the tingle and the warmth (especially sitting down afterwards and feeling it) and it relaxes me completely. If I'm comfy enough I've been known to almost fall asleep.

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Its all about the adrenalin rush with me .i get such a buzz. I'm in a different mindset .

Absolutely. A good spank can reset my brain, in a good way.

I've only met two good spankers ever tho.

It's not just about walloping someone."

Say more about that.... what makes a good spanker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its all about the adrenalin rush with me .i get such a buzz. I'm in a different mindset .

Absolutely. A good spank can reset my brain, in a good way.

I've only met two good spankers ever tho.

It's not just about walloping someone.

Say more about that.... what makes a good spanker?"

Attentiveness and technique.

You need to know the signals of who you're spanking, where best to place strokes and how to control it. And after care, stroking and kisses.

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By *ocks99Man
over a year ago

Reading

"For those that like to be spanked, what is it that you particularly like about it?

And for those that like to do it, why do you like it? "

As a top, the feeling of trust and control, the sound of the spank itself, the ripple of the flesh from the target, the reddening of the bottom, the wriggles and squeals it can generate from the sub.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I did it to the wife I found I was always cautious not to go too far.. but in fet terms she is a bit of a pain slut and likes in quite hard, so it took a while but the inner sadist has stirred and i am happy to administer pleasure spanking when she has been a little slut and pleased me and to give her that punishment spanking ( my fave) when she been a brat !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's more about the pleasure another gets from it. It's usually better with someone already known as then it's easier to learn what works and what doesn't with that other...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The adrenalin, the head rush, the almost out of body experience. It's intensely erotic, exceptionally pleasurable and always leaves me weak at the knees and sated.

I would probably enjoy administering under the right circumstances but thats on the list for way into the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the sight of the waves of big bum

and love the noise of my hand slapping it !

If you want to experience a man who is crap at it but really enjoy it, please get in touch bae.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Its all about the adrenalin rush with me .i get such a buzz. I'm in a different mindset .

Absolutely. A good spank can reset my brain, in a good way.

I've only met two good spankers ever tho.

It's not just about walloping someone.

Say more about that.... what makes a good spanker?"

A good spanker can build tension, can vary how they spank, can alternate between pleasure and pain, can gauge how hard to hit, can make the experience sensual...can make the spankee beg for more...

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By *pwardcurveMan
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I love the sound, how red the bottom goes from a good spanking and the feeling of a woman completely submitting to me. I also love collecting new items to use as spanking implements. I’ve just bought a new wooden paddle and can’t wait to christen it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

During sex, a well-timed spank can heighten every sensation and make me orgasm.

I love the anticipation, the momentary sting, the warmth spreading, the tenderness of my skin and the tenderness of the spanker when soothing me afterwards.

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