FabSwingers.com forum: help me please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

are there any genuine people on here looking to actually meet?! i’m very new to it all...but there are soooo many time wasters!

how can you tell the real from the fake!?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You only have to see new verifications popping up to see there are genuine people who do meet.

Suggest a video call with someone you're interested in, that will prove if they are who they claim to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You only have to see new verifications popping up to see there are genuine people who do meet.

Suggest a video call with someone you're interested in, that will prove if they are who they claim to be."

thanks gorgeous x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m sorry you have been let down. Your profile is good. You should have no issue getting offers. Spend a bit more time messaging and or speak on the phone or Kik before you meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m sorry you have been let down. Your profile is good. You should have no issue getting offers. Spend a bit more time messaging and or speak on the phone or Kik before you meet. "

no need to apologise! it wasn’t you! xx

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Like video calling them or look at their profile deeply to see if they have any veris or pictures maybe to a reverse search on one or 2 of their pictures shame I wasn’t closer I would have given you a verification.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"I’m sorry you have been let down. Your profile is good. You should have no issue getting offers. Spend a bit more time messaging and or speak on the phone or Kik before you meet.

no need to apologise! it wasn’t you! xx "

I certainly wouldn’t let you down

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By *atural-born-thrillerMan
over a year ago

oulton broad

Sorry you have been unlucky so far . Sadly some of me fellow species just seem to get off on the thrill of arranging something they have no intention of turning up for they just wanna wank over your pictures while chatting/texting you possibly x their loss x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Learn to not waste your time and then call others time wasters.

Have in your head the type of meet you are looking for and how you can SAFELY achieve that.

Stick to your plan.

Women are outnumbered here and you are in the capital.

You won't have a problem.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"are there any genuine people on here looking to actually meet?! i’m very new to it all...but there are soooo many time wasters!

how can you tell the real from the fake!? "

It's hard sometimes

we still fall for them, more out of hope than anything else! But there are a lot of genuine.

To help you could turn off, newbies, unverified and no public pictures, that rules out a lot.

Then any female that contacts and starts talking dirty, invariably fake sadly.

Also, I know you didn't ask, but your completely pointless disclaimers and Sydney uni stuff takes up more space than your actual text

a guy would get slaughtered for that, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are there any genuine people on here looking to actually meet?! i’m very new to it all...but there are soooo many time wasters!

how can you tell the real from the fake!? "

The real ones turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a decent profile, I wouldn't let you down, but alas, the distance is too much

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for all the advice lovelies xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you don't send naked pics, you don't want theirs and you don't engage in sexual fantasy chat.

That will out the wankers; you'll still get the bored at work, just want someone to chat to people.

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

Only Yorkshire men are genuine so go hop on a train and I’ll meet you at York station

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great advice already... filter out newbies, no avatar, non-verified and restrict your age.

If youre interested after the first message ask for a photo - cuts out many. Read verifications too - always a good indication (if real, but not too difficult to suss).

Going with your gut is essential and maybe find the blokes and do the messaging, lots of great guys out there; just got to wade through the shite to find them!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"Tell them you don't send naked pics, you don't want theirs and you don't engage in sexual fantasy chat.

That will out the wankers; you'll still get the bored at work, just want someone to chat to people."

This

Don't go down the sexy talk route... They will just get off on that and tell you whatever they think you want to hear.

Never go out of your way for a first meet... You are going to Sainsbury's anyway so meet for a cuppa there, you are in town to meet friends so grab a quick drink an hour beforehand.

You really shouldn't have any trouble finding nice genuine men in London, there are 1000's on here.

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