FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do if...

By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

You discovered one of your kids was on here?

(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else).

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"You discovered one of your kids was on here?

(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else). "

Send a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the words of Chic - Aaahhh Freak Out!!

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"In the words of Chic - Aaahhh Freak Out!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I really don’t know. I’m going to have to think about that.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Block. And then retire gracefully and acknowledge the baton has been passed to the next generation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im thinking about my 19 yr old son here, and I would talk to him about if. Why run away and hide. Honesty is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really don’t know. I’m going to have to think about that. "

Same. I’ve got 5 boys,3 of which are 18 & older so it’s a real possibility it could happen.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Block. And then retire gracefully and acknowledge the baton has been passed to the next generation.

Yes

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

It’s happened OP. It spilled onto the Forums as it got quite messy when they started frequenting the same clubs and men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think we'd probably leave the site. At the very least we'd put all our pictures to private and block them. Since we get a lot of pleasure from taking and posting pictures that would mean a big part of the fun was gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome them to swinging

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them? "

I wouldn't encourage no, I'd be quite concerned if they joined at a young age. Hence another reason that I would chat to them. Parents are there for children about absolutely everything in life, even when things are awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This reminds me of that daughter/mom pic I came across here

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I'd be a little upset that they felt the need, my lad is 22 and has a beautiful wife and child. I'd want them to be concentrating on themselves for a few more years, 10 or so, at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You discovered one of your kids was on here?

(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else). "
I'd be disappointed with myself to be honest and I would leave

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

This thread is playing with my mind. I really don’t know what I would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a fake profile and scare the poop out of them so they don’t think to use this site again!

Then I’d have it all to myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them? "

Absolutely no way.

What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!

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By *Vine OP Man
over a year ago

The right place

"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?

Absolutely no way.

What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!"

I feel the same. I’m very clear about it too. I guess I’ll just be happy being hypocritical on this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them. Hide profile ....maybe leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the stuff of nightmares.

I'm trusting my adult child is sufficiently niave right now that this just wouldn't happen.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Be concerned that the condom failed all those years ago, then panic that they might be after 18 years of child maintenance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've three sons and to be honest they would be more shocked to find me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freak out then tell him he gets enough action in the real world stay out of this one

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"I was nearly sick here a while ago, there was a local couple on here that had the name names as one of my kids and their partners.

And yes, I v quickly looked at the profile (NOT PICS) from behind a hand just to make sure it wasn't. "
** same names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd delete my profile straight away and swallow some immodiums

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them? "

No. I feel that our kids sex life is something they need to build for themselves. Obviously if one of them came to us with a problem we would give advice but actively encouraging one course of action is asking for trouble if it goes wrong. The only time we would actively encourage would be to leave an abusive situation.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've spotted several of my eldest sons friends on here, and blocked them.

It's one of the reasons, I have my filters set to 35.

If I did spot my son on here, I'd be hoping it was a couples profile with his GF and not as single too!

And yes, we'd talk.

I've always raised my children to be open minded, they know they can ask me anything.

I've been a shoulder to a lot of his friends in their teens/early 20s, and having issues dealing with their sexuality, coming out as gay, bi & 1 TG.

I don't see it would be an issue between us, but just something to be aware of when chatting to people "Yeah I shagged your mum" might not go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say block, but if there were naked pics, I doubt that be possible as I’d go instantly blind

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

It won't happen as my daughter is way too much of a prude, however if it did, just block and leave it at that.

I brought her up well enough to make her own decisions.

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

How many will be using the who’s near search in the next few days with their fingers crossed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have kids so it's not an issue thank goodness

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"You discovered one of your kids was on here?

(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else).

Send a dick pic

I'm going to assume you didn't think that reply through

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

I’d just block them I think, no point in saying anything as they’d only find another site to join. Would be more shocked if I found my parents on here though

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not as shocked as i'd be if I found mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have any

Fuck.. imagine finding your daughter on here! I’d go ape shit and lock her indoors till she’s 54 with a stable income

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it’s a strange place to find out im a dad

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?

Absolutely no way.

What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!

I feel the same. I’m very clear about it too. I guess I’ll just be happy being hypocritical on this one. "

They are adults. This is an adult website.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Block them and have a chat with them about the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and discuss.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I've spotted several of my eldest sons friends on here, and blocked them.

It's one of the reasons, I have my filters set to 35.

If I did spot my son on here, I'd be hoping it was a couples profile with his GF and not as single too!

And yes, we'd talk.

I've always raised my children to be open minded, they know they can ask me anything.

I've been a shoulder to a lot of his friends in their teens/early 20s, and having issues dealing with their sexuality, coming out as gay, bi & 1 TG.

I don't see it would be an issue between us, but just something to be aware of when chatting to people "Yeah I shagged your mum" might not go down well

It's pretty standard banter amongst that generation...

But if it was actually true then it could get a touch awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter and son know I am on here (and was on elsewhere) so no secrets. When my daughter's marriage went tits up she started Swinging but had a long chat with me first. we made sure we never were on the same site ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True story from when I was at Chams one evening, Following a young couple down the stairs to where the jacuzzis and door to the bar area are when at the bottom an older lady waiting said "What are YOU doing here?" To which her daughter (as it turned out) said "Probably the same as you Mum. Hello Dad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone actively encourage their adult children to create a profile? If it’s good for you, might it not be good for them?

Absolutely no way.

What’s good for me isn’t necessarily good for them!

I feel the same. I’m very clear about it too. I guess I’ll just be happy being hypocritical on this one.

They are adults. This is an adult website. "

On paper that’s true, however they’re my children and I wouldn’t want them on here.

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

It's probably easier for parents than kids to be honest.

I mean, at least you spent the first few years seeing them naked all the time so there's slightly less chance of inadvertently fabbing one of their photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think I'd be too bothered if any of my kids were using this site as adults,I'd probably just block them and have a quick chat with them about it all.Would want to make sure any club visits didn't clash too,that would just be too awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You discovered one of your kids was on here?

(Assume they are over 18 - let’s not take this anywhere else).

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My ex’s mum messaged him not knowing was him awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d leave and join another site pronto!!

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By *arctMan
over a year ago

West of the bann

I don't see a problem there

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Delete my profile, get some mind bleach and let them have their fun. Some issues don't need addressing unless you fancy ending up on a Jeremy Kyle style program!

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Lucky i got 8 years till.mines.old enough but would scare me a little seeing my kid on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block them

Agreed. Block them before they know your on here and avoid embarressment. I mean, they wont wanna see you, you wont wanna see them, no matter how open a family you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really think I'd be too bothered if any of my kids were using this site as adults,I'd probably just block them and have a quick chat with them about it all.Would want to make sure any club visits didn't clash too,that would just be too awkward

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Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I never cross that bridge.... Like ever...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass out, leave, kick his arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This reminds me of that daughter/mom pic I came across here

Were they both pleased with the tribute?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have any

It's weird, women never finish that sentence with, not that I know of.

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