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"Think it was an accurate statement,and ridiculous any female should dress in attire like that ,under the guise of religion, the majority of Muslim s women do not dress like that ,and probably don't agree with it " Living in a highly Muslim populated area , having Muslim friends I’d say that the ones who do fully over ( my friends ) do it through personal choice. It’s a very emotive subject ... let’s face it , oppression is not covered face 99% of the time | |||
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"So a lot has been made of of Boris and the letter box comment in the media and social media. But how many have actually read the whole article that these comments come from? For everyone that didnt here it is: “If you tell me that the burka is oppressive, then I am with you. If you say that it is weird and bullying to expect women to cover their faces, then I totally agree – and I would add that I can find no scriptural authority for the practice in the Koran. _I would go further and say that it is absolutely ridiculous that people should choose to go around looking like letter boxes;_ and I thoroughly dislike any attempt by any – invariably male – government to encourage such demonstrations of “modesty”, notably the extraordinary exhortations of President Ramzan Kadyrov of Chechnya, who has told the men of his country to splat their women with paintballs if they fail to cover their heads.” “If a constituent came to my MP’s surgery with her face obscured, I should feel fully entitled – like Jack Straw – to ask her to remove it so that I could talk to her properly. _If a female student turned up at school or at a university lecture looking like a bank robber then ditto:_ those in authority should be allowed to converse openly with those that they are being asked to instruct. As for individual businesses or branches of government – they should of course be able to enforce a dress code that enables their employees to interact with customers; and that means human beings must be able to see each other’s faces and read their expressions. It’s how we work.” Im not a fan of Boris or the Tories but reading this article it seems things have been sensationalised and taken out of context? Granted terms like leter box and bank robers is not advisable use of descripted launguage. But in context to the who article is what Boris is arguing that unreasonable?" Boris is a clever guy politics is about appealing to the masses he does it like an advertising executive, religion is oppressive who cares that's their culture not mine, I don't like Burkhas or dungarees or gimp masks, I do like to see a woman's face and especially her smile so down with black letter boxes | |||
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"He’s an intelligent man. He knows how to articulate himself without causing offence. He’s a Politician, he knows that things can be taken out of context so even more care is needed with wording when spouting opinions. He therefore should know better. Instead he acts like an insensitive clod. The mind boggles." Well educated, not intelligent. He's been overbred for power. | |||
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"So a lot has been made of of Boris and the letter box comment in the media and social media. But how many have actually read the whole article that these comments come from? For everyone that didnt here it is: “If you tell me that the burka is oppressive, then I am with you. If you say that it is weird and bullying to expect women to cover their faces, then I totally agree – and I would add that I can find no scriptural authority for the practice in the Koran. _I would go further and say that it is absolutely ridiculous that people should choose to go around looking like letter boxes;_ and I thoroughly dislike any attempt by any – invariably male – government to encourage such demonstrations of “modesty”, notably the extraordinary exhortations of President Ramzan Kadyrov of Chechnya, who has told the men of his country to splat their women with paintballs if they fail to cover their heads.” “If a constituent came to my MP’s surgery with her face obscured, I should feel fully entitled – like Jack Straw – to ask her to remove it so that I could talk to her properly. _If a female student turned up at school or at a university lecture looking like a bank robber then ditto:_ those in authority should be allowed to converse openly with those that they are being asked to instruct. As for individual businesses or branches of government – they should of course be able to enforce a dress code that enables their employees to interact with customers; and that means human beings must be able to see each other’s faces and read their expressions. It’s how we work.” Im not a fan of Boris or the Tories but reading this article it seems things have been sensationalised and taken out of context? Granted terms like leter box and bank robers is not advisable use of descripted launguage. But in context to the who article is what Boris is arguing that unreasonable?" So is your argument that it is acceptable to use offensive language if it is in amongst a few paragraphs that isn’t offensive? | |||
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"Think it was an accurate statement,and ridiculous any female should dress in attire like that ,under the guise of religion, the majority of Muslim s women do not dress like that ,and probably don't agree with it " Funnily enough a few friends don’t agree with wearing it and dont | |||
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"Should be have said it? No. Is he wrong? No. " This ^ . Exactly ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with Boris I enjoy his eccentricity, nothing wrong with his comments either they are just words that in the context of life mean nothing " Words always mean something to someone. They appeal to the masses looking for another excuse to denigrate people who don’t look ‘like us’. Persecution starts small before it moves to book burning and yellow stars... I’ve met him a couple of times at events and when he had to make an in person apology to a foreign leader for things he said. Boris gives off the air of a first class buffoon, sadly he isn’t. Everything Boris says and does is designed to place himself in the best possible light. His article being the latest example. He knows his boss can do nothing about him and that’s the sad fact about it. In any other walk of life he would be talking to HR and probably face the sack. Did you realise when he was Mayor lobbying for the new airport, that he had a financial interest in site which would have shot up in value had the thing been approved. I do think that would have been a better option than expanding LHR. Others more qualified than me have spoken about wearing the veil. I have no objection to it per se, but then again, I’ve travelled around the Middle East for years and I’m a first generation WASP immigrant living in London. | |||
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"Nothing wrong with Boris I enjoy his eccentricity, nothing wrong with his comments either they are just words that in the context of life mean nothing " Given that he is the former foreign secretary, former mayor of London, a current MP for a culturally diverse jurisdiction and has long been talked up as futures leader of the tory party and potentially a future prime minister, I don't think his words can be dismissed as "meaning nothing". He's a mam of huge influence | |||
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"Nothing wrong with Boris I enjoy his eccentricity, nothing wrong with his comments either they are just words that in the context of life mean nothing Words always mean something to someone. They appeal to the masses looking for another excuse to denigrate people who don’t look ‘like us’. Persecution starts small before it moves to book burning and yellow stars... I’ve met him a couple of times at events and when he had to make an in person apology to a foreign leader for things he said. Boris gives off the air of a first class buffoon, sadly he isn’t. Everything Boris says and does is designed to place himself in the best possible light. His article being the latest example. He knows his boss can do nothing about him and that’s the sad fact about it. In any other walk of life he would be talking to HR and probably face the sack. Did you realise when he was Mayor lobbying for the new airport, that he had a financial interest in site which would have shot up in value had the thing been approved. I do think that would have been a better option than expanding LHR. Others more qualified than me have spoken about wearing the veil. I have no objection to it per se, but then again, I’ve travelled around the Middle East for years and I’m a first generation WASP immigrant living in London. " words are a method of communication you can only be offended by them if you are the type that gives them the meaning you object to Boris isn't the type to be deliberately offensive and the outfit as practical as it is in the dessert is unattractive and unsuitable as attire in our country, so the fact it also looks like a black letterbox means little in so far as it does | |||
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"Nothing wrong with Boris I enjoy his eccentricity, nothing wrong with his comments either they are just words that in the context of life mean nothing Words always mean something to someone. They appeal to the masses looking for another excuse to denigrate people who don’t look ‘like us’. Persecution starts small before it moves to book burning and yellow stars... I’ve met him a couple of times at events and when he had to make an in person apology to a foreign leader for things he said. Boris gives off the air of a first class buffoon, sadly he isn’t. Everything Boris says and does is designed to place himself in the best possible light. His article being the latest example. He knows his boss can do nothing about him and that’s the sad fact about it. In any other walk of life he would be talking to HR and probably face the sack. Did you realise when he was Mayor lobbying for the new airport, that he had a financial interest in site which would have shot up in value had the thing been approved. I do think that would have been a better option than expanding LHR. Others more qualified than me have spoken about wearing the veil. I have no objection to it per se, but then again, I’ve travelled around the Middle East for years and I’m a first generation WASP immigrant living in London. words are a method of communication you can only be offended by them if you are the type that gives them the meaning you object to Boris isn't the type to be deliberately offensive and the outfit as practical as it is in the dessert is unattractive and unsuitable as attire in our country, so the fact it also looks like a black letterbox means little in so far as it does " Boris isn't the ttoe to be deliberately offensive?? ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Nothing wrong with Boris I enjoy his eccentricity, nothing wrong with his comments either they are just words that in the context of life mean nothing Words always mean something to someone. They appeal to the masses looking for another excuse to denigrate people who don’t look ‘like us’. Persecution starts small before it moves to book burning and yellow stars... I’ve met him a couple of times at events and when he had to make an in person apology to a foreign leader for things he said. Boris gives off the air of a first class buffoon, sadly he isn’t. Everything Boris says and does is designed to place himself in the best possible light. His article being the latest example. He knows his boss can do nothing about him and that’s the sad fact about it. In any other walk of life he would be talking to HR and probably face the sack. Did you realise when he was Mayor lobbying for the new airport, that he had a financial interest in site which would have shot up in value had the thing been approved. I do think that would have been a better option than expanding LHR. Others more qualified than me have spoken about wearing the veil. I have no objection to it per se, but then again, I’ve travelled around the Middle East for years and I’m a first generation WASP immigrant living in London. words are a method of communication you can only be offended by them if you are the type that gives them the meaning you object to Boris isn't the type to be deliberately offensive and the outfit as practical as it is in the dessert is unattractive and unsuitable as attire in our country, so the fact it also looks like a black letterbox means little in so far as it does Boris isn't the ttoe to be deliberately offensive?? ![]() ![]() ![]() yes actually I am ![]() | |||
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"Boris is a very good Tory distraction tactic. We're debating this when we should be holding the current government to account for the rise in the use of food banks, the massive cuts they have just announced to councils which is going to impact essential services like social services, elderly care. And personally I have a massive issue with men, middled aged and privileged thinking it's anything to do with them what a woman wears. If you've ever spoken to a woman wearing a niqhab or burkah you'd soon see they are exactly the same as any other woman. Ooh rant over ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It's just a way for the left wing media to throw the term islamophobia around, even though the burka isn't part of Islam. But let's not let facts get in the way of a welcome distraction from the rampant anti-semitism in the labour party and their leader who attends ceremonies for terrorists. " You can;t see the irony in condemning the left wing media for doing exactly the same as what the right wing media are doing can you? And lets distract the nation from what Boris did last week by dragging up more and more dirt from years ago about Corbyn. | |||
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"Boris is a very good Tory distraction tactic. We're debating this when we should be holding the current government to account for the rise in the use of food banks, the massive cuts they have just announced to councils which is going to impact essential services like social services, elderly care. And personally I have a massive issue with men, middled aged and privileged thinking it's anything to do with them what a woman wears. If you've ever spoken to a woman wearing a niqhab or burkah you'd soon see they are exactly the same as any other woman. Ooh rant over ![]() I agree with this. Both a distraction and also positioning himself with the Tory party membership for a potential leadership challenge. I think his motives for writing it have very little to do with Muslim women. Or am I being too cynical? | |||
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"Boris is a very good Tory distraction tactic. We're debating this when we should be holding the current government to account for the rise in the use of food banks, the massive cuts they have just announced to councils which is going to impact essential services like social services, elderly care. And personally I have a massive issue with men, middled aged and privileged thinking it's anything to do with them what a woman wears. If you've ever spoken to a woman wearing a niqhab or burkah you'd soon see they are exactly the same as any other woman. Ooh rant over ![]() I think cynicism when it comes to politics is incredibly smart, says the cynic lol And I agree whole heartedly | |||
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"It was distorted by those that wanted to be offended. Arguments regarding it's rights and wrongs used misquotes and incorrect context. It was distorted by those that wanted to be inflammatory for their own financial gain ...... e.g. media. The ignorant will continue to condemn his comments without reading the article ( thanks for sharing ) and the plain fucking thick will continue to misunderstand what was said even when they've read it. " Thank you for calling me thick. | |||
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"He's not stupid. He knows this will sway the Tommy Robinson fan boys over to Conservative, it's a great distraction technique. Unfortunately, I think he'll probably be the next Prime Minister. Sounds insane but nobody thought Trump would be President. People like a showman/clown these days, regardless of their actual politics " I don't think he will be PM, I think Rees Mogg is being lined up for that; which is a terrifying prospect | |||
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"OP. Thanks for reposting what he said in full. It was the first time I’d read the full article. Also I believe he was responding to a question about freedom of expression and whether he felt that a ban on face coverings as introduced in Denmark constitutes a restriction of expression rather than simply his opinion on burkhas, and certainly not on Islam as a whole. It’s obvious from the reaction that anyone calling for boris’s Head has not read the article in full. Sadly but typically all people will have taken from that is the one headline sentence. Without the context This is a typical ploy by lazy journalists with a lunatic left wing bias who struggle to think yet alone write in anything over 140 characters. The BBC have been hugely and deliberately instrumental in this. What once was a proudly independent and unbiased organisation is a pathetic shadow of itself struggling to pump out it’s own political agenda. As someone who is non-BAME, educated, able bodied and male, the BBC were never going to miss an opportunity to attempt to fuck him over. His words have been pointedly ashamedly and deviously quoted in quite deliverately a completely different context to that in which they were intended. Rather than be sacked, Boris should be asking for an apology. Lesser politicians would be claiming defamation." I think we might have read two different articles. I read the above and I still think he was wrong and inflammatory saying those things and should not only apologise, but step down from being an mp. | |||
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"A guy who has a haircut like his, doesn't deserve to be heard ! He and His barber should be in jail ! " This ! | |||
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"He's not stupid. He knows this will sway the Tommy Robinson fan boys over to Conservative, it's a great distraction technique. Unfortunately, I think he'll probably be the next Prime Minister. Sounds insane but nobody thought Trump would be President. People like a showman/clown these days, regardless of their actual politics " . Im not sure any "fan boys" would vote Tory regardless of what Boris says so I think your over egging the pudding a bit there. As for next prime minister and sounding insane, well he's been the bookies lead twice and not got it yet, however I'd hardly describe it as insane to think he might one day, I'm afraid lots and lots of people thought trump would win the presidency, admittedly nobody in the libel press but that's because there stuck in their own little echo chamber. People don't like a clown/showman, they like people that say what they're thinking, in this case Boris has got his finger firmly on the button, the vast majority of people in the street would absolutely echo Boris Johnsons article be they labour Tory or ukip (obviously not lib Dems) but there just crackpots in the main with a very small following | |||
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"Boris is a very good Tory distraction tactic. We're debating this when we should be holding the current government to account for the rise in the use of food banks, the massive cuts they have just announced to councils which is going to impact essential services like social services, elderly care. And personally I have a massive issue with men, middled aged and privileged thinking it's anything to do with them what a woman wears. If you've ever spoken to a woman wearing a niqhab or burkah you'd soon see they are exactly the same as any other woman. Ooh rant over ![]() Food Banks - Build them and they will come... | |||
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"If I said all you women are lower then me and you shouldn't show your face as I own you. I think most people would think I'm a knob but in Muslim community's a lot of the women are held back and no-one says anything?" so you think Boris is right then? | |||
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"A guy who has a haircut like his, doesn't deserve to be heard ! He and His barber should be in jail ! This ! " This dude ! | |||
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"If I said all you women are lower then me and you shouldn't show your face as I own you. I think most people would think I'm a knob but in Muslim community's a lot of the women are held back and no-one says anything?" I didn't want to get involved in that sort of false debate but dude you need to open books instead of flies. | |||
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"What others have to say about these matters doesn't really concern me, being a white Englishman. My niece (single parent) met a new Englishman and a relationship began, as did the control. It started with she suddenly appeared out and about 'without makeup' As time past the clothes that she normally wore 'changed' Her friends started to mention that she had 'stopped coming out' They were also told that Mr Englishman didn't like her friends visiting the house when he was at home. She was challenged about these things by 'us her family' But I love him was her reply. I could go on, his controls were over every aspect of her and her childrens lives. After one year he had practically removed her free will, it was her teenage daughter that fought him at every turn. As with others, unless you know them personally and in the position to actually see their personality changing due to control by others. Then ? " Update. The nasty bastard has gone, but not before he hurt the mother and the teenage daughter. He has been arrested and bailed. They are being supported by us their family but some are so angry at the mother. When a rotten person shows you what they are, believe them the first time! | |||
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"Yes it is unreasonable. For a start it is the personal choice of the woman if she wears a full face vail or not. It's a cultural thing. As "we" can, they should be able to wear what they want. As for the comments about asking someone to take off their vail at university, that again I can't see his point. Why does a lecturer need to be able to see the face of a student? In some of the campus lecture theatres, the lecturer wouldn't be able to see most of the students on the back row!" I personally think Boris was bang on!! So, you would think it’s ok for someone to turn their back on your whilst having a conversation?? It’s down right rude!! Slightly different however the context is there in as much as you can’t see their face!! I believe it’s also totally oppressive and if these women actually had a choice without fear of being abused by their men/society for not wearing them, then I don’t believe for one minute they would choose to wear them!!! | |||
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"Yes it is unreasonable. For a start it is the personal choice of the woman if she wears a full face vail or not. It's a cultural thing. As "we" can, they should be able to wear what they want. As for the comments about asking someone to take off their vail at university, that again I can't see his point. Why does a lecturer need to be able to see the face of a student? In some of the campus lecture theatres, the lecturer wouldn't be able to see most of the students on the back row! I personally think Boris was bang on!! So, you would think it’s ok for someone to turn their back on your whilst having a conversation?? It’s down right rude!! Slightly different however the context is there in as much as you can’t see their face!! I believe it’s also totally oppressive and if these women actually had a choice without fear of being abused by their men/society for not wearing them, then I don’t believe for one minute they would choose to wear them!!! " Not quite sure how turning your back during a conversation and wearing a burka is the same. You can see where the eyes are, so you can direct your gaze there if eye contact is important to you. There are many interviews where women say they like wearing it. I'm not disagreeing that there aren't some women forced into wearing it, but that's a domestic violence issue, not a burka one (there are many non-muslim domestic violence victims who are told by their partners what they can and can't wear outside the house. | |||
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