FabSwingers.com forum: politeness

By *.H.S OP Man
over a year ago

London

it seems even when your just that people still talk or treat you bad regardless....your views please

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you saying that even though you're polite people are rude?

My view on that is that's its not nice.

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By *.H.S OP Man
over a year ago

London

i agree with you aswell

we all cant be everyone cup of tea but i feel over inflated egos are the real cause of it. me personally try to be nice as much as possible its nice to be nice. there is more to a person than pics and ping pong with mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners are free, is all ill say

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell "

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!"

Exactly! Didn’t help that his dick looked like it was riddled with something (was rather red & dry) so I told him to get himself to an std clinic (this was also after he started to give me abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it seems even when your just that people still talk or treat you bad regardless....your views please"

You always get rude c**ts

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By *ymaleMan
over a year ago

nr Bradford

Good manners are never wrong, take the high ground and consider others rudeness as an effective idiot filter. Their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!

Exactly! Didn’t help that his dick looked like it was riddled with something (was rather red & dry) so I told him to get himself to an std clinic (this was also after he started to give me abuse "

Haha thats brilliant! Fair play to you! If that was me id of gave him loads, that description of his penis could give me lots of ammo for jokes lol, hope its not disheartened you too much?

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!

Exactly! Didn’t help that his dick looked like it was riddled with something (was rather red & dry) so I told him to get himself to an std clinic (this was also after he started to give me abuse

Haha thats brilliant! Fair play to you! If that was me id of gave him loads, that description of his penis could give me lots of ammo for jokes lol, hope its not disheartened you too much?"

Oh god no! I’ve had a few meets recently and have some planned for this weekend after having a break for couple years because of RL etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!

Exactly! Didn’t help that his dick looked like it was riddled with something (was rather red & dry) so I told him to get himself to an std clinic (this was also after he started to give me abuse

Haha thats brilliant! Fair play to you! If that was me id of gave him loads, that description of his penis could give me lots of ammo for jokes lol, hope its not disheartened you too much?

Oh god no! I’ve had a few meets recently and have some planned for this weekend after having a break for couple years because of RL etc "

Fair play to you! Hope all goes well! Have fun and stay safe!

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!

Exactly! Didn’t help that his dick looked like it was riddled with something (was rather red & dry) so I told him to get himself to an std clinic (this was also after he started to give me abuse

Haha thats brilliant! Fair play to you! If that was me id of gave him loads, that description of his penis could give me lots of ammo for jokes lol, hope its not disheartened you too much?

Oh god no! I’ve had a few meets recently and have some planned for this weekend after having a break for couple years because of RL etc

Fair play to you! Hope all goes well! Have fun and stay safe!

Thanks and always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

Typical case of a fella thinking with his knackers, small man syndrome, some of us have been raised with a tad more canter, needs to be more imo!

Exactly! Didn’t help that his dick looked like it was riddled with something (was rather red & dry) so I told him to get himself to an std clinic (this was also after he started to give me abuse

Haha thats brilliant! Fair play to you! If that was me id of gave him loads, that description of his penis could give me lots of ammo for jokes lol, hope its not disheartened you too much?

Oh god no! I’ve had a few meets recently and have some planned for this weekend after having a break for couple years because of RL etc

Fair play to you! Hope all goes well! Have fun and stay safe!

Thanks and always

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If I wasn’t rude people that know me would think my account had been hacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners Maketh Man - Its as simple as that.

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

life is like a looking glass......

What you give out tends to be reflected right back at you.

So if you are getting a negative response on a regular basis,

Then its probably time to look at your self in the mirror,

And ask yourself what you can do to improve, learn, and move forwards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"life is like a looking glass......

What you give out tends to be reflected right back at you.

So if you are getting a negative response on a regular basis,

Then its probably time to look at your self in the mirror,

And ask yourself what you can do to improve, learn, and move forwards!

Unsure if thats the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it seems even when your just that people still talk or treat you bad regardless....your views please"
I find respect sometimes goes with how you portray yourself if you turn up grubby maybe because it's your profession you get treated grubbily if you message somebody with your cock on show that's what they are replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell "

This ^^^ One guy said he was going to r**e all my holes because I declined him.

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

This ^^^ One guy said he was going to r**e all my holes because I declined him. "

Some guys aren’t right in the head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being brought up knowing that manners doesn't cost you a thing I've always and mean always been courteous with everyone !!

Nothing wrong in showing that you're a gent in any way shape or form but not everyone has the same outlook I guess !!

I had a lady mail me and as I always do if not interest politely declined and wished her well within the Fab community and wow the grief I got from her was insane !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell "

That is such a shame ...politness cost nothing and makes the experience so much better

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Rude or impolite doesn’t work for me. It’s completely unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rude or impolite doesn’t work for me. It’s completely unnecessary. "

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

That is such a shame ...politness cost nothing and makes the experience so much better "

Exactly, I was telling a chap who I’m meeting about it and he said surely if I was a slag I wouldn’t have said a polite no thanks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a chap messages me and he’s not my type I’ll reply with a polite no thank you not interested/type etc what pisses me off is when they get verbally abusive after I’ve neen polite!

I had one guy call me a slag because I “give it away” on here despite me actually being fussy as hell

That is such a shame ...politness cost nothing and makes the experience so much better

Exactly, I was telling a chap who I’m meeting about it and he said surely if I was a slag I wouldn’t have said a polite no thanks lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i agree with you aswell

Given that you attribute riudeness to ego, I'm interested as to what you class as rudeness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened just now. I was meant to meet a guy sat but he seemed really pushy so decided to give it a miss. He sent me a text just now calling me disgusting and ignorant. Does he really think he's going to get in my pants now

. Men are weird

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"This happened just now. I was meant to meet a guy sat but he seemed really pushy so decided to give it a miss. He sent me a text just now calling me disgusting and ignorant. Does he really think he's going to get in my pants now

. Men are weird

Lol that they can be

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Rude folk of all genders aren't confined to the internet..

luckily on here I can delete block and move on quickly.

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