FabSwingers.com forum: Leaving fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would make you leave fab/hang up your swinging boots?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

When it stops being enjoyable.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Honestly anything could. More than likely I will just wake up one day and decide that I want to use my time somewhere else and that will be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fun stops, stop

Mind you it needs to start first

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

The day I meet someone and start a relationship again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it several times and usually it's just spontaneous...time to go.

I nearly left about 20 minutes ago, but experiences tell me now, it's best to pause and think it over in the cold light of day.

Anything can trigger the urge I guess?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When it stops being enjoyable. "

Exactly this. I would love to meet someone and have a couples profile so I would leave for that.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve left before but missed my friends, the parties and the shenanigans. When they stop I guess I will too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my husband said he no longer wanted me to meet other men (but even then he probably wouldn’t have an issue with me hiding and staying for the forums) or it wasn’t enjoyable anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The moment my wife finds out

I jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

knob drops off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my husband decided he wanted to have sex with me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've left a few times, usually because I met someone, but last time I just didn't feel like I belonged here...so I left and came back when I felt I did

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Two reasons..

1. I meet someone.

2. I have something more important to be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well let you know next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get increasingly bored with fab each week.

One day I'll leave and no one will even notice

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"What would make you leave fab/hang up your swinging boots?

Tbh I’m not sure I will - not for a long time yet anyway! Fab is multi-faceted for me - the sex is only a small part of it!

It’s about the forums, friendships formed on fab and socialising (including group socials) as well as getting my rocks off occasionally!

Even if I ever decide to have a monogamous relationship I imagine I’d stay on here for the rest of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If my husband decided he wanted to have sex with me again."

Whattt , why doesn’t he want to have sex with you , is he okkk

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

When the bombardment of knob pics, entitlement and misogyny is no longer a mild irritation but annoys too much

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

Left 5 years ago for a vanilla relationship... was a good girl til he fecked off because I was boring

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I get increasingly bored with fab each week.

One day I'll leave and no one will even notice

I noticed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here. "

Don’t worry you got plenty of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here. "

Your body is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my wife catches me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get increasingly bored with fab each week.

One day I'll leave and no one will even notice

I think it was Samuel Johnson or John Thomas who said ‘When a man is tired of Fabswingers, he is tired of life.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my wife catches me on here."

Yeah, someone beat you to that gag.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

"When my wife catches me on here."

True same

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here. "

You look pretty damn amazing to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have left before. Mr said he couldn't be arsed with it and I said ok. Left for bout 6 months. He then said one night fancy an mmf so we joined back. Had an ffm and and mmf that weekend lol x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I usually hide when the lack of meets, misogyny, racism and general horridness gets too much for me. I've returned each time because I've been asked to help with the socials.

If I continue to fail to get any meets then the other stuff makes it more likely I'll hide for longer or for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get fed up of people bitching and moaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it doesn’t give me anything new or interesting. I’m dangling on the cusp of precisely that moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get increasingly bored with fab each week.

One day I'll leave and no one will even notice

I noticed!

And even then, you had to double check

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

When I stop finding people I want to meet who also want to meet me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I call fab my retirement years. Ive become less active as the years have gone on. Ive come to a point where ive got everything i want so have a hidden profile as i no longer meet new people. I stay for the forums and friends.

Guess one day i will just fade away completly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I stop finding people I want to meet who also want to meet me. "

I'm halfway there...

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We haven’t met anyone for a couple of months now . Quite simply , we haven’t wanted to , and haven’t missed it one bit .

In the past we would have left , and did twice . This time we are sticking around for the forums , and may start meeting again at some point .

Mind you , even the forums seem dull these days ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When there becomes one timewaster too many!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Nothing... We may decide to hide our profile but won't leave.

We've not been active for about 2 years, still socially meeting existing friends but, for the time being, swinging is off the agenda.

I just like the forums, he likes chat from time to time and we enjoy chatting via messages with anyone so no desire to leave.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

When it stops being fun

Or I'm not allowed to post on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here. "

I’ve been feeling like this year, one of the reasons I’ve been taking extended breaks. If this outweighs the fun then I’ll just drop off the radar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't why I havent left yet.

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By *CheshireMaleMan
over a year ago

Middlewich

i got bored with all the time wasters now back to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would make you leave fab/hang up your swinging boots?

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death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here.

I’ve been feeling like this year, one of the reasons I’ve been taking extended breaks. If this outweighs the fun then I’ll just drop off the radar."

I had noticed you were absent. It's not much fun getting old is it. Ah well, there's always the Knitting Club and WI for me to fall back on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I, (Mr), has had sex with Female triplets FFFM from Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often think about leaving and question why I’m here on occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here.

I’ve been feeling like this year, one of the reasons I’ve been taking extended breaks. If this outweighs the fun then I’ll just drop off the radar.

I had noticed you were absent. It's not much fun getting old is it. Ah well, there's always the Knitting Club and WI for me to fall back on. "

There’s quite a lot to adjust to, body and mind wise.

I’m thinking of lawn bowls....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here.

I’ve been feeling like this year, one of the reasons I’ve been taking extended breaks. If this outweighs the fun then I’ll just drop off the radar.

I had noticed you were absent. It's not much fun getting old is it. Ah well, there's always the Knitting Club and WI for me to fall back on.

There’s quite a lot to adjust to, body and mind wise.

I’m thinking of lawn bowls....

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you can still bend ok then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My body changes will make me leave. I'm at that age when the guys I fancy don't want an old woman and I wouldn't stay just for The Forums and socials. So not much time left for me here.

I’ve been feeling like this year, one of the reasons I’ve been taking extended breaks. If this outweighs the fun then I’ll just drop off the radar.

I had noticed you were absent. It's not much fun getting old is it. Ah well, there's always the Knitting Club and WI for me to fall back on.

There’s quite a lot to adjust to, body and mind wise.

I’m thinking of lawn bowls....

you can still bend ok then? "

I have no issues flexibility wise #pilates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd stop when one of us says they are not enjoying it anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve taken a break for a year or so and come back to it, just on account of life moving on but I don’t think there will ever be a part of me that doesn’t love this lifestyle..

it would take a pretty good reason for me to log out for the last time..

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

When the abusive messages and ignorant people take over fab I’ll leave. Until then I’ll just keep hammering on

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"When it stops being enjoyable. "

This

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

When we no longer want to swing.

Did it with our swingingheaven account when we lost the mojo years ago.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"What would make you leave fab/hang up your swinging boots?

If there was an alternative site where people probably paid more and actually wanted to arrange meets rather than chat and exchange dirty pictures like naughty school kids, lol. Assuming you mean the site, not the forums, completely different purposes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I find a woman with nice elbows who owns a ford fiesta and actually knows how to drives it like Alain Prost used to drive his F1.

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By *ordAnCoupeMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't put yourself down....a lot like older woman

and there is nothing wrong with you...sure you could teach a few people a trick or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If my husband decided he wanted to have sex with me again.

Whattt , why doesn’t he want to have sex with you , is he okkk"

He just has no interest anymore

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Why do you ask anyway. Are you thinking of leaving????

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

I wouldn't leave, but hide the profile from time to time when too busy to enjoy the site so my profile would just take a holiday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I left years ago, just haven't deleted my profile.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"If my husband decided he wanted to have sex with me again.

Whattt , why doesn’t he want to have sex with you , is he okkk

He just has no interest anymore "

Genuinely, that's sad, but my god is he missing out. Has he been to the docs, it must be a physical or mental problem as it certainly isn't you.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I get increasingly bored with fab each week.

One day I'll leave and no one will even notice

Yup. Same here.

As soon as our current subscription ends we're out of here. The forums are increasingly treated like FB and Fab has become over-run by chancers and fakes swamping out the decent members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im nit a swinger but if i started to get overwealmed i could but a have too much going for me

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