FabSwingers.com forum: What does the term 'regular' mean to you??

By *asmine73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brisbane

So I've been on various sites over the years with various levels of success! You know it can be equally parts frustrating and fun :p But recently I've come to question my definition of the term 'regular' fwb and wondered what you lovely fabbers out there think?!

See I believe regular means often, hopefully every week if schedules allow. I don't expect or want exclusivity but if I'm seeing someone regularly I do get in touch with them first when I have a free night to see if they are available.... If not I look elsewhere

So tell me guys do I have this wrong....? Are my expectations too specific or high or something because guys who say they want regular don't seem to understand the term in my experience. I'm not moaning just trying to figure this out.

Thanks my lovelies xxx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Regular can mean different things to different people. Its what suits you. My most regular guy i only see once a month i cant be doing with seeing the same person too often

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think frequency of meeting is something you should agree with the other person. Once a week would be way too regular for us.

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By *asmine73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brisbane

Maybe my expectations are all wrong then.... Thanks ?

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By *witch4Fun24Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

To me it means consistently seeing them, not necessarily meaning frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure but our one “regular” guy turns up every other month or so. 12 meets in 18 months.

We’d like to see somebody about once a month.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Maybe my expectations are all wrong then.... Thanks ? "
just make it clear to people. I know if someone wanted to see me every week it would be to much

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By *asmine73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brisbane

"To me it means consistently seeing them, not necessarily meaning frequently."

Ooo now those are wise words x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular means once maybe twice a week

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"To me it means consistently seeing them, not necessarily meaning frequently."
thats what i wanted to say consistantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it means seeing someone with regular irregularity

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By *asmine73 OP Woman
over a year ago

Brisbane

"Perhaps it means seeing someone with regular irregularity

Perhaps it does

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Regular to me means on going 2 or 3 times a months or so. Once a week would be too much for me!!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Regular is whatever the two people concerned want and agree it to be. Therefore your expectations aren't 'wrong' as such - you just haven't met somebody on the same wavelength as you yet. How achievable a regular weekly meet is another question, a lot of people can't meet that often due to real life commitments and others simply wouldn't want to. I have seen a number of profiles however where it happens so don't give up hope!

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