FabSwingers.com forum: Married men and women on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s your take on married men & women being on here looking for sex without their partners permission?

After reading some profiles it seems as they get judged and Called out.. men more so than women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience."

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t meet married people as I don’t fancy getting my nose broken by an angry wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one knows each persons personal reason for being on here ...

Who are any of us to ‘judge’ or hold anyone accountable for their choices.

If their honest - it’s an individuals choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before? "

Are you on the moral high ground ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally "

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let they who are without sin cast the first stone.

I'll never judge, we all have a different life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

Are you on the moral high ground ?

Are you asking a question on a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

Are you on the moral high ground ?

Are you asking a question on a question?

Sure am ... but you’ve answered it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem "

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody should need to seek for permission. I hate that word it assumes ownership and no freedom of choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

No."

Interesting, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before? "

I have done occasionally but I prefer not to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own"

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

I have done occasionally but I prefer not to."

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

No.

Interesting, why not?"

I posted too early and reworded my reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience."

This is my experience and how I feel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

Are you on the moral high ground ?

Are you asking a question on a question?

Sure am ... but you’ve answered it anyway

Not sure I have, Reason I asked is because I’ve met married women and they say we don’t have sex in our relationship and we have needs.. I want to find out if that bothers as I’ve read many profiles saying no married men but not a single profile says no married women

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By *ottie_84Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Nope don’t condone it, both me & hubby are on here but play separately and it works for us and we’re happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

I have done occasionally but I prefer not to.

Why not? "

It has a stigma attached ... But this isn't a dating site.

It's not my place to dictate another person's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s one of the first things I state on my profile that I’m married. It’s then up to the individual to decide on whether to talk to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet married men as they mostly can't accommodate. Otherwise I'm not the morality police. What goes on between two consenting adults is their business.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't care what someone else does on here just stay away from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

Are you on the moral high ground ?

Are you asking a question on a question?

Sure am ... but you’ve answered it anyway

I was married and we hardly had sex, so we made the mature decision to end the marriage as we were not sexually compatible anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that? "

Well you did

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

Married or otherwise, surely Fab is the last place anyone expects to be judged.

Where does the judgement end, married, bi, gay, straight, red hair, blue eyes......absolutely agree on simply being open and honest about who you are, that way others can make an informed decision. We don’t play with married guys for the simple reason they are typically unavailable when we are, the telling signs of “infidelity” are often there if you care to look carefully enough; but each to their own surely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't meet married men as they mostly can't accommodate. Otherwise I'm not the morality police. What goes on between two consenting adults is their business. "

Will you meet in hotel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

Are you on the moral high ground ?

Are you asking a question on a question?

Sure am ... but you’ve answered it anyway

I was married and we hardly had sex, so we made the mature decision to end the marriage as we were not sexually compatible anymore. "

Did you cheat during your marriage?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"What’s your take on married men & women being on here looking for sex without their partners permission?

After reading some profiles it seems as they get judged and Called out.. men more so than women.. "

We won't meet anyone cheating on a partner (married or just bf/gf) regardless of how fit he/she was or even if they ticked every box that showed 100% compatibility. We don't care what reasons people give for being a cheat (people lie anyway) and we don't give anyone abuse for doing so...We just choose not to meet them.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I actually prefer married guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess every cheater will have their own backstory and journey that took them to the decision to look for extra marital sex. Each case will be different and some reasons may be more valid than others.

Until I’ve walked a mile in their shoes I’m not going to judge anyone on Fab on whatever they do, even if I might not agree personally with it whether it be cheating, barebacking or whatever.

I absolutely get it though that many people don’t want to meet married people so I think the status should be disclosed so people can make an informed choice.

Ditto if they have a boyfriend / girlfriend or fiancé / fiancée ..

And my experience on Fab is that there are MANY people claiming to be single and even vociferously publically slating then that are indeed themselves attached .. and that’s before the married couples on here when one party messages you and says they don’t want their other half to know ..

Anyway, what’s your view OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I actually prefer married guys"

Ah ha! Interesting! Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I guess every cheater will have their own backstory and journey that took them to the decision to look for extra marital sex. Each case will be different and some reasons may be more valid than others.

Until I’ve walked a mile in their shoes I’m not going to judge anyone on Fab on whatever they do, even if I might not agree personally with it whether it be cheating, barebacking or whatever.

I absolutely get it though that many people don’t want to meet married people so I think the status should be disclosed so people can make an informed choice.

Ditto if they have a boyfriend / girlfriend or fiancé / fiancée ..

Anyway, what’s your view OP?

I don’t like to get involved in why people do what they do and don’t.. don’t care simply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience.

Do you meet married men cheating on their wives if they tell you before?

Are you on the moral high ground ?

Are you asking a question on a question?

Sure am ... but you’ve answered it anyway

I was married and we hardly had sex, so we made the mature decision to end the marriage as we were not sexually compatible anymore.

Did you cheat during your marriage? "

Never. I would never do that to someone. If it’s not right then things end. Couldn’t live with myself for doing that to someone I love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your take on married men & women being on here looking for sex without their partners permission?

After reading some profiles it seems as they get judged and Called out.. men more so than women.. "

Depends if you think that cheating is the same as swinging.

We think one involves a lot of dishonesty to someone that the cheater pretend to care about, and the other is about people doing what they want without hurting others.

What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you? "

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I don't really care it's up to the individual's involved.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I actually prefer married guys

Ah ha! Interesting! Why? "
in my life experience not on fab married men are easy they dont want something i cant give. Ive had shit load of trouble over the years but never had trouble with a married guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I’ve walked a mile in their shoes I’m not going to judge anyone on Fab on whatever they do, even if I might not agree personally with it whether it be cheating, barebacking or whatever.

I absolutely get it though that many people don’t want to meet married people so I think the status should be disclosed so people can make an informed choice.

Ditto if they have a boyfriend / girlfriend or fiancé / fiancée ..

Anyway, what’s your view OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't want to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats "

Absolutely spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually prefer married guys

Ah ha! Interesting! Why? in my life experience not on fab married men are easy they dont want something i cant give. Ive had shit load of trouble over the years but never had trouble with a married guy"

The ones I’ve had problems with on fab were ones that were married or attached....not that they told me any of that. Nothing but trouble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats "

That’s being judgemental

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I will not enable cheating by seeing a married or otherwise attached woman without her partner's knowledge.

I've seen the pain and negativity caused by cheating even when the partner isn't sure what's going on. I have no wish to be involved in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

That’s being judgemental

Explain something to us please, how is that being judgemental?

Surely it is just stating facts?

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

They’ll do it with or without fab, their choice. Let them do whatever their conscience allows them to

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

Normally I would just give a naughty girl a slight spanking

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience."

I’d rather know from the get go if they’re married or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really care that there are married people on the site, however, I wouldn't meet one.

I agree that married men are called out on it more.

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

"A lot of the time you don't find out until after a meet ... That pisses me off.

If you know beforehand you can make your own decision.

As for the individual doing it ... It's their conscience."
well said you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another's life is theirs alone and their choices are determined by their own circumstances. It's not my place to tell others how they should live or what they should or should not do.

I have not walked in their shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

Naughty step for simply having an opinion!? I’m guessing there must have been more to it than that!?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

Oh la la Mr Banana

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By *oisisbackCouple
over a year ago

exeter

"That’s being judgemental

When you have a partner of a married person turn up on your doorstep shouting to anyone that can hear that you've been shagging his wife and going to get named in a divorce court you'll figure out quite quickly its not a case of being judgemental its a personal preference.

Married guys who cheat are a bloody nightmare same goes for married women.

If married people want to cheat on their partners try a cheats website there are plenty of them out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really care that there are married people on the site, however, I wouldn't meet one.

I agree that married men are called out on it more."

I got a great deal of grief from a couple when i first joined to the point where i had to block them. Since then i've not had a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are all so judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one knows each persons personal reason for being on here ...

Who are any of us to ‘judge’ or hold anyone accountable for their choices.

If their honest - it’s an individuals choice "

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Live and let live'... Nobody elses business

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

"I actually prefer married guys"
thank you, no judgement you are just being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

It was lovely and quiet

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Married men are less hassle

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"That’s being judgemental

Married guys who cheat are a bloody nightmare same goes for married women.

If married people want to cheat on their partners try a cheats website there are plenty of them out there. "

Indeed, a swinging friend had just this happen to her some years ago. The fact that she was living with her parents at the time made things all the more difficult.

You can be named in the divorce case as a reason for a marriage breakdown and even asked for a

statement. It's not fun and not judgemental to prefer to steer clear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

It was lovely and quiet

But was it lively

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I want to know how they manage it..I'm actually intrigued

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m married, it’s on my profile. I know it means some women won’t meet me. But there are plenty of others that will, even some that say they won’t on their profiles!

I only want to meet women on a fully consentual basis. As long as it’s clear, then adults should be able to make their own decisions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

It was lovely and quiet

But was it lively

Please explain how i am being judgemental for expressing a preference?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

It was lovely and quiet

But was it lively

Please explain how i am being judgemental for expressing a preference?"

#wrongconversation

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I want to know how they manage it..I'm actually intrigued"

Only god knows...theres a joke there somewhere .... youknowwhatImean

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

it doesn't bother me Cose it's their life their marriage thier choice

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent? "

If swinging is a subset of ethical non-monogamy (as discussed here last week) then cheating is not swinging as it doesn't involve the consent of at least one person concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent? "

God forbid!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#whyiseverybodywritinglikethis

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I want to know how they manage it..I'm actually intrigued

Only god knows...theres a joke there somewhere .... youknowwhatImean

Say a little prayer for me...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I want to know how they manage it..I'm actually intrigued

Only god knows...theres a joke there somewhere .... youknowwhatImean

#special

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

Oh la la Mr Banana

I know, I made a cat joke on a cat lovers forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married people are more discrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent?

If swinging is a subset of ethical non-monogamy (as discussed here last week) then cheating is not swinging as it doesn't involve the consent of at least one person concerned. "

Swinging and someone playing behind their partners back is two different things. I’m talking about guys that are playing without their partners knowledge (cheating) I have no desire to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent? "

I dont care if people married or not married....not my problem. If they wanna cheat...up to them. Obviously i am not married or in relationship...but i l9ve f8shing here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and very honest about it and my circumstances. However, I've had some stick for meeting married men that are cheating and do you know what, it's my life. I don't poke my nose in their business, it's my flipping choice.

I've also had people on my friends list who have categorically stated in the Forums that they won't fuck anybody married which confused me as they asked to be my friend? They aren't on my list anymore!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"You are all so judgemental

I know people eh,they should just let us cheating people get on with our lives without being judge judgy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm married and very honest about it and my circumstances. However, I've had some stick for meeting married men that are cheating and do you know what, it's my life. I don't poke my nose in their business, it's my flipping choice.

Hypocrisy? On Fab?!! Surely not?!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are all so judgemental

I know people eh,they should just let us cheating people get on with our lives without being judge judgy."

Ermmm who are you to judge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you’re here with his consent. I think people mean the ones that are here and the partner has no idea. It’s very different. I wouldn’t want to get an angry partner at my door. That’s for sure.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent?

If swinging is a subset of ethical non-monogamy (as discussed here last week) then cheating is not swinging as it doesn't involve the consent of at least one person concerned.

Swinging and someone playing behind their partners back is two different things. I’m talking about guys that are playing without their partners knowledge (cheating) I have no desire to meet them. "

Exactly what I thought I was saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there, done that, caused a lot of pain to all involved and still feel guilty about it. Life is better for me now I am separated but I have been with cheating wives and wouldn’t judge them - they were unhappy and unloved and wanted to feel alive again....which, I think, is what we all are on fab for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always amazes me how many hot, attractive, sexually confident, charming and charismatic men and women there are on Fab that would seemingly have no problem finding a boyfriend or girlfriend in real life and are of an age that you’d expect them to be partnered up or married that are, allegedly, ‘genuine’ singles.

Sure there will always be a percentage that haven’t yet found the right person or who have been divorced etc or indeed who don’t want the constraints of a relationship, but other than that so many decent outwardly desirable people that seemingly can’t attract a partner?

I’m not buying it to be honest! ...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It always amazes me how many hot, attractive, sexually confident, charming and charismatic men and women there are on Fab that would seemingly have no problem finding a boyfriend or girlfriend in real life and are of an age that you’d expect them to be partnered up or married that are, allegedly, ‘genuine’ singles.

I’m not buying it to be honest! ...

They just want sex when they are meant to be at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are all so judgemental

Because some of us have no desire to meet people playing without consent?

If swinging is a subset of ethical non-monogamy (as discussed here last week) then cheating is not swinging as it doesn't involve the consent of at least one person concerned.

Swinging and someone playing behind their partners back is two different things. I’m talking about guys that are playing without their partners knowledge (cheating) I have no desire to meet them.

Exactly what I thought I was saying

Sorry, I’ve just re-read. Bit of an emotional day for me today so my head is a little fuzzy. Apologies. Fab is keeping me distracted though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not buying it to be honest! ...

Thanks mate but it's true, honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not buying it to be honest! ...

I’m recently divorced. Would love to meet the right one for more but it’s not been easy to find what I want. Me and my ex husband broke up 4 years ago today actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant say what I think as last time I got a naughty girl time out

I was out on a naughty step too

It was lovely and quiet

But was it lively

Please explain how i am being judgemental for expressing a preference?

#wrongconversation

#doesntknowtheanswer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not buying it to be honest! ...

I’m recently divorced. Would love to meet the right one for more but it’s not been easy to find what I want. Me and my ex husband broke up 4 years ago today actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not buying it to be honest! ...

Yeah me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your take on married men & women being on here looking for sex without their partners permission?

After reading some profiles it seems as they get judged and Called out.. men more so than women.. "

I just think a bigger proportion of the males on this site, are more inclined not to care if someone is cheating or not. That's why more men than women get called out. There is a smaller proportion of genuine single women and some are not looking to meet someone who is cheating. For me, although it's not something that is preferable in my meet selection, I wouldn't rip them over the coals for it.... Unless they hid it from me, of course.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I also know (not on this thread) that there are women that state openly on the forum that they wont meet married men yet do meet them and do message those that have married on their profile so you cant believe all you read

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's not my place to judge how someone lives their life.

We have our reasons why we do the things we do, the choices we make.

Not everything is black and white.

Would I meet a married man?

Yes, if that person was upfront from the start, if I knew the circumstances, could relate & understand that person's reasons, what brought them here in the first place, given the option to make my own decision about them as a person.

But I've walked away from over a dozen socials, been chatting with a 'single' guy, on occasions for several weeks, arrange a social, only to turn up & the first thing I spot is a wedding ring, a photo of the wife & kids in his wallet, or once she even phoned while we had coffee.

What I do find intresting though...

I see so many threads on here from married guys, watch them get torn to shreds.

Doesn't quite seem to happen when it's a female posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not my place to judge how someone lives their life.

We have our reasons why we do the things we do, the choices we make.

Not everything is black and white.

Would I meet a married man?

What I do find intresting though...

I see so many threads on here from married guys, watch them get torn to shreds.

Doesn't quite seem to happen when it's a female posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also know (not on this thread) that there are women that state openly on the forum that they wont meet married men yet do meet them and do message those that have married on their profile so you cant believe all you read"

I’ve seen this through my time on here too

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I also know (not on this thread) that there are women that state openly on the forum that they wont meet married men yet do meet them and do message those tha9t have married on their profile so you cant believe all you read"

You shouldn't believe much on here at all

Most people aren't what they seem

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By *oisisbackCouple
over a year ago

exeter

Used to see a guy I met on here for about 5-6 months told me he was divorced and no ties that was until he walked in arm on arm with his wife of 25+ years into a club where I was with my husband and quickly left her stood there to make a dash to me to say "Don't say anything to her or i'll end up losing the house and kids"

Thing is I found out later in the evening they are a swinging couple and he still feels the need to cheat on his wife so it couldn't be the case he wasn't getting anything at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not my place to judge how someone lives their life.

We have our reasons why we do the things we do, the choices we make.

Not everything is black and white.

Would I meet a married man?

What I do find intresting though...

I see so many threads on here from married guys, watch them get torn to shreds.

Doesn't quite seem to happen when it's a female posting.

There will be one married woman who would disagree with you. She got completely vilified on a thread she started about being married. It does happen. It's just mainly men that start the threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a partner (she's stunning) and she really wants to meet a girl for a threesome however she's slightly bipolar has asked me to sort something but is then too shy and contradictory to assist hence I have a single persons profile... when I find someone who I feel is compatible I will organise something... yes this is going to take some time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats "

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this ^^

I was checking out the veri trail on a married mans profile, bizarrely has a veri left by a woman who categorical states she doesn’t meet men who cheat...hmmmm was it the fax that he’s desirable that changed her fickle mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a partner (she's stunning) and she really wants to meet a girl for a threesome however she's slightly bipolar has asked me to sort something but is then too shy and contradictory to assist hence I have a single persons profile... when I find someone who I feel is compatible I will organise something... yes this is going to take some time..."

I’m married and have a singles profile as I meet and my hubby doesn’t

I get a lot of abuse for that though, obviously I’m a liar

(Even though my husband also has a singles profile because he creeps the forums)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating? "

Come on, the OP just threw a hand grenade into the forum as he knew it would blow up!!

That’s his MO and it works without fail every time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating?

Come on, the OP just threw a hand grenade into the forum as he knew it would blow up!!

That’s his MO and it works without fail every time!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Hypocrisy? On Fab?!! Surely not?!!!

Go fuck yourself

My comment was a response to the statement by the person I copied in to. There is nothing aimed at anyone in particular there in my post. Although I should not need to disclaim anything I put on here."

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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My god. So much white knighting here and by ladies too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating?

Come on, the OP just threw a hand grenade into the forum as he knew it would blow up!!

That’s his MO and it works without fail every time!

It’s racing towards the 175, will barely feel the pitchforks touching my arse at this rate...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating?

Come on, the OP just threw a hand grenade into the forum as he knew it would blow up!!

That’s his MO and it works without fail every time!

Do you have splinters in your bum DB?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating?

Come on, the OP just threw a hand grenade into the forum as he knew it would blow up!!

That’s his MO and it works without fail every time!

It’s racing towards the 175, will barely feel the pitchforks touching my arse at this rate...

It's ok. I'll open a new one.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"My god. So much white knighting here and by ladies too.

Quite right too. It makes a nice change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging history dates back to the 16th century where the married man agreed for his wife to be swap with another couple

So yes permission is needed

Other wise it's just sex as a need.

Swinging is a way of life.

No. I don't cheat and would not want to be anyone's bit on the side. Its morally wrong. I have morals

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"My god. So much white knighting here and by ladies too.

Quite right too. It makes a nice change

All well and good until you actually know what's happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s your take on married men & women being on here looking for sex without their partners permission?

After reading some profiles it seems as they get judged and Called out.. men more so than women.. "

OP by now you should have a good idea on how this site operates - the power of the vagina- and all that jazz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I’ve walked a mile in their shoes I’m not going to judge anyone on Fab on whatever they do, even if I might not agree personally with it whether it be cheating, barebacking or whatever.

I absolutely get it though that many people don’t want to meet married people so I think the status should be disclosed so people can make an informed choice.

Ditto if they have a boyfriend / girlfriend or fiancé / fiancée ..

Anyway, what’s your view OP?

I don’t like to get involved in why people do what they do and don’t.. don’t care simply

Isn't the the very essence of your own post... you're getting involved by asking what others think and then speculating on it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Cue Bros....

You're a liar, yes you are, yes you are, a born liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet married men as they mostly can't accommodate. Otherwise I'm not the morality police. What goes on between two consenting adults is their business.

Will you meet in hotel? "

If they're paying then yeah sure

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"My god. So much white knighting here and by ladies too.

Quite right too. It makes a nice change

All well and good until you actually know what's happened "

It’s none of my business. There are two sides to every story and I don’t know either but I can acknowledge what I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging history dates back to the 16th century where the married man agreed for his wife to be swap with another couple

So yes permission is needed

Other wise it's just sex as a need.

Swinging is a way of life.

No. I don't cheat and would not want to be anyone's bit on the side. Its morally wrong. I have morals

Good for you.

You must be able to see though that people who don’t swing would think your morals are shot to pieces.

Live by your own values and moral code because you can bet your arse than everyone’s will be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Swinging history dates back to the 16th century where the married man agreed for his wife to be swap with another couple

So yes permission is needed

Other wise it's just sex as a need.

Swinging is a way of life.

No. I don't cheat and would not want to be anyone's bit on the side. Its morally wrong. I have morals

Good for you.

You must be able to see though that people who don’t swing would think your morals are shot to pieces.

Live by your own values and moral code because you can bet your arse than everyone’s will be different.

I have cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that. "

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that. "

Argh the men do. Needy little twats

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"My god. So much white knighting here and by ladies too.

Quite right too. It makes a nice change

All well and good until you actually know what's happened

It’s none of my business. There are two sides to every story and I don’t know either but I can acknowledge what I see. "

Which is exactly how they like it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that. "

Less talking Hatter. It’s the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that. "

Hey! I resemble that comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to know beforehand if they’re married, that way I can decide whether to go ahead or not.. it’s not for me to feel guilty about in my eyes but that’s just a personal opinion..

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over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Less talking Hatter. It’s the way forward

I used more than 7 words

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"My god. So much white knighting here and by ladies too.

Quite right too. It makes a nice change

All well and good until you actually know what's happened

It’s none of my business. There are two sides to every story and I don’t know either but I can acknowledge what I see.

Which is exactly how they like it

I’ll have to take you at your word. I’m none the wiser either way Honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Hey! I resemble that comment. "

You're different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Hey! I resemble that comment.

You're different. "

Special.

I prefer special to different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Hey! I resemble that comment.

You're different.

Special.

I prefer special to different. "

You're very special to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Hey! I resemble that comment.

You're different.

Special.

I prefer special to different.

You're very special to me.

Oh you.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look.

Their wives don't understand them or show them affection

They NEED it else they will die.

Poor deprived things.

So they have to come here and get it.

Oh look at my photos I take in the evening whilst she goes out to play darts.

Please feel sad for me I'm half decent looking and she doesn't care.

Yadda yadda.

Same for the women.

People should crack on and do what they like

But when some men (one man) decided to start emotionally fucking with you and then goes on to do it to others...oh I have feelings and other bullshit

That is not just a fuck, just sex.

That's being a fucking cunt.

Use your dick/cunt

Don't be one

That is all."
but you could of ended it the moment he mentioned feelings. Im sure i know who your talking about as the air of tension on the forums between you and someone else stands out a mile well between three of you really

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Look.

Their wives don't understand them or show them affection

They NEED it else they will die.

Poor deprived things.

So they have to come here and get it.

Oh look at my photos I take in the evening whilst she goes out to play darts.

Please feel sad for me I'm half decent looking and she doesn't care.

Yadda yadda.

Same for the women.

People should crack on and do what they like

But when some men (one man) decided to start emotionally fucking with you and then goes on to do it to others...oh I have feelings and other bullshit

That is not just a fuck, just sex.

That's being a fucking cunt.

Use your dick/cunt

Don't be one

That is all.but you could of ended it the moment he mentioned feelings. Im sure i know who your talking about as the air of tension on the forums between you and someone else stands out a mile well between three of you really"

Meh. I find it all rather amusing now.

"Please don't say anything that might make me look bad"

Oh sorry hun

Could have done. Correct

Drawn in by the nonsense wasn't I.

Silly me

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Hypocrisy? On Fab?!! Surely not?!!!

Go fuck yourself

Another pulled in by the bullshitter..."

There’s no need for that. I speak as I find with anyone and everyone. I think your comment was uncalled for and he shouldn’t have to justify anything. My

was in response to that comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve recently added to my profile, asking men to be honest and tell me if they were married or attached.

There’s no one more surprised than me by how many now tell me they are. I’m not sure if I’m surprised they’ve read my profile, or surprised they’ve been honest up front!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Less talking Hatter. It’s the way forward

I used more than 7 words

Go for a rest lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I quite like married women. They mostly don't want constant contact. I like that.

Less talking Hatter. It’s the way forward

I used more than 7 words

Go for a rest lovely

I think I need a lie down.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’ve been an openly married woman on Fab and not once did I get shit for it. Now single I’d have no qualms meeting a naughty married as long as he was upfront with me.

It’s when you meet them on/off for years and then find out about the partner and the baby that pisses me off

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Would anyone like a cup of tea?

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over a year ago

Bananaman is going to be really pleased with himself on this one you all realìse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone like a cup of tea?"

Green tea, please.

Loose leaf.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Bananaman is going to be really pleased with himself on this one you all realìse "

I like to leave him things to read

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look.

Their wives don't understand them or show them affection

They NEED it else they will die.

Poor deprived things.

So they have to come here and get it.

Oh look at my photos I take in the evening whilst she goes out to play darts.

Please feel sad for me I'm half decent looking and she doesn't care.

Yadda yadda.

Same for the women.

People should crack on and do what they like

But when some men (one man) decided to start emotionally fucking with you and then goes on to do it to others...oh I have feelings and other bullshit

That is not just a fuck, just sex.

That's being a fucking cunt.

Use your dick/cunt

Don't be one

Meh. I find it all rather amusing now.

"Please don't say anything that might make me look bad"

Oh sorry hun

Could have done. Correct

Drawn in by the nonsense wasn't I.

Silly me

"
you where. But watching public fall outs isnt pleasant especially when one minute your all over them. Maybe keep your personal business personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone like a cup of tea?"

It is Afternoon Tea week this week.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Would anyone like a cup of tea?

Green tea, please.

Loose leaf."

Bit posh aren't you?

I've got asda farm stores

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone like a cup of tea?

Green tea, please.

Loose leaf.

Bit posh aren't you?

I've got asda farm stores "

That'll do.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Look.

Their wives don't understand them or show them affection

They NEED it else they will die.

Poor deprived things.

So they have to come here and get it.

Oh look at my photos I take in the evening whilst she goes out to play darts.

Please feel sad for me I'm half decent looking and she doesn't care.

Yadda yadda.

Same for the women.

People should crack on and do what they like

But when some men (one man) decided to start emotionally fucking with you and then goes on to do it to others...oh I have feelings and other bullshit

That is not just a fuck, just sex.

That's being a fucking cunt.

Use your dick/cunt

Don't be one

Meh. I find it all rather amusing now.

"Please don't say anything that might make me look bad"

Oh sorry hun

Could have done. Correct

Drawn in by the nonsense wasn't I.

Silly me

you where. But watching public fall outs isnt pleasant especially when one minute your all over them. Maybe keep your personal business personal"

Haha. Nothing is personal on here is it?

I don't give a shit.

Someone else can be labelled the mental one tomorrow.

I like to think I've taken the heat off someone

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Would anyone like a cup of tea?

It is Afternoon Tea week this week. "

I make a wonderful scone. You must try one

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Would anyone like a cup of tea?

It is Afternoon Tea week this week.

Ooh are there scones? Jam first. Cream second. Yum"

Good maid

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

This has taken a rather unexpected turn. I’m in a tea shop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone like a cup of tea?

It is Afternoon Tea week this week.

I make a wonderful scone. You must try one "

I'd love to.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Look.

Their wives don't understand them or show them affection

They NEED it else they will die.

Poor deprived things.

So they have to come here and get it.

Oh look at my photos I take in the evening whilst she goes out to play darts.

Please feel sad for me I'm half decent looking and she doesn't care.

Yadda yadda.

Same for the women.

People should crack on and do what they like

But when some men (one man) decided to start emotionally fucking with you and then goes on to do it to others...oh I have feelings and other bullshit

That is not just a fuck, just sex.

That's being a fucking cunt.

Use your dick/cunt

Don't be one

Meh. I find it all rather amusing now.

"Please don't say anything that might make me look bad"

Oh sorry hun

Could have done. Correct

Drawn in by the nonsense wasn't I.

Silly me

you where. But watching public fall outs isnt pleasant especially when one minute your all over them. Maybe keep your personal business personal

Haha. Nothing is personal on here is it?

I don't give a shit.

Someone else can be labelled the mental one tomorrow.

I like to think I've taken the heat off someone "
some manage to keep it personal i suppose it just depends how much of an adult you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would anyone like a cup of tea?

It is Afternoon Tea week this week.

Ooh are there scones? Jam first. Cream second. Yum"

There are always scones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has taken a rather unexpected turn. I’m in a tea shop! "

It's happens quite when I'm on a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This has taken a rather unexpected turn. I’m in a tea shop! "

Dont splutter over the tablecloth

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Look.

Their wives don't understand them or show them affection

They NEED it else they will die.

Poor deprived things.

So they have to come here and get it.

Oh look at my photos I take in the evening whilst she goes out to play darts.

Please feel sad for me I'm half decent looking and she doesn't care.

Yadda yadda.

Same for the women.

People should crack on and do what they like

But when some men (one man) decided to start emotionally fucking with you and then goes on to do it to others...oh I have feelings and other bullshit

That is not just a fuck, just sex.

That's being a fucking cunt.

Use your dick/cunt

Don't be one

Meh. I find it all rather amusing now.

"Please don't say anything that might make me look bad"

Oh sorry hun

Could have done. Correct

Drawn in by the nonsense wasn't I.

Silly me

you where. But watching public fall outs isnt pleasant especially when one minute your all over them. Maybe keep your personal business personal

Haha. Nothing is personal on here is it?

I don't give a shit.

Someone else can be labelled the mental one tomorrow.

I like to think I've taken the heat off someone some manage to keep it personal i suppose it just depends how much of an adult you are"

Oh honey. Let's not be getting offensive at each other. This isn't about you and me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bananaman is going to be really pleased with himself on this one you all realìse "

Although he did bail quite early on

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Is there lemon cake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm getting what I want and the man is getting the sex he doesn't get at home I'm ok with it.

If he's looking for affection or proof that he's still got it, then he's probably not for me.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Hypocrisy? On Fab?!! Surely not?!!!

Go fuck yourself

Another pulled in by the bullshitter...

There’s no need for that. I speak as I find with anyone and everyone. I think your comment was uncalled for and he shouldn’t have to justify anything. My

was in response to that comment. "

No one asked anyone to justify anything. I speak as I find thats it really

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Would anyone like a cup of tea?"

Cocktail please,so much emotion on this thread.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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What kind of cocktail?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Sex on the beach...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that took an unexpected turn, seems I have missed a few things whilst on a break...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Well that took an unexpected turn, seems I have missed a few things whilst on a break...

Only a few Hexenbiests stirring their cauldrons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex on the beach...

You should get off the beach, you've burnt

And still got no pigtails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as they are upfront and transparent about the fact that they are married and why they are here, as that helps people make an informed choice of whether to meet them or not...

But i wouldnt personally

Why not?

I’ve met cheating wives and I have no problem

Each to their own

They normally say we don’t have sex and I have needs.. wondering if other people buy that?

Well you did

Because I dont judge.. do you?

Its nothing to do with being judgemental

I won't and dont meet liars and cheats

Exactly this

So op do you think if you was in relationship and tides were turned you could handle your partner cheating?

Come on, the OP just threw a hand grenade into the forum as he knew it would blow up!!

That’s his MO and it works without fail every time!

It's an interesting discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well that took an unexpected turn, seems I have missed a few things whilst on a break...

Only a few Hexenbiests stirring their cauldrons

Where art thou Google.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think quite a few are hypocritical about it. They will condemn married people for being on here, broadly, but have their favourites on the forum and happily chat away with them and maybe even meet them for/at a social.

I don't judge why they are here. Only they know their reasons. I just want to know what the situation is before I make a decision whether to meet them socially.

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