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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

well this went down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Probably just sees you as a quick one-off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see patience is not one of your qualities x

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Probably just sees you as a quick one-off."

take it as a compliment or insult?

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I can see patience is not one of your qualities x"

haha im a go getter so yes i suppose your right on the money

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm guessing she likes your body and looks but not your brain.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference? "

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone."

i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I'm guessing she likes your body and looks but not your brain."

should i be flattered??

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.

i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose "

The principal is still the same. You obviously tick her box for sex, just not for anything else. I don't know if you should be flattered by her reasons, but you certainly should be offended by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.

i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose "

How old is said lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.

i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose "

I would not be flattered if someone said that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing she likes your body and looks but not your brain.

should i be flattered?? "

If you want to be used as a sex toy then go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to date most of the men I've had sex with.

It's not a case of them not being good enough for me; we aren't compatible for a relationship.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference? "

Yeah, I tell people that all the time! I prefer someone near my own age for a relationship or even a fwb, you have more in common, and you don't draw attention out in the real world. If it's purely sex and a little pillow talk then fine, I can find younger men attractive. You can be a touch flattered, but should mostly just accept it as realism IMO.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I wouldn't want to date most of the men I've had sex with.

It's not a case of them not being good enough for me; we aren't compatible for a relationship.

"

Exactly.

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.

i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose

How old is said lady? "

55

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I'm guessing she likes your body and looks but not your brain.

should i be flattered??

If you want to be used as a sex toy then go for it"

hahaha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a older lady has told me im fuckable but too young to date?... dateable or/and fuckable.... is there a difference?

Big difference. An actual relationship involves a lot more than just sex. As a result, people look for a lot more than just sexual attraction when they consider dating someone.

i didn't suggest a relationship with her, i said a date or 2 as i enjoy the build up to sex as much as i love a quickie meet.... she replied "im far too old to be seen with you, but id gladly have you fuck me..." i should be flattered i suppose

How old is said lady?

55"

Ok, I get that. My ex husband is your age but I’m 47. I only date 35-early 40s. I don’t sleep with anyone I wouldn’t consider dating. It’s why I rarely meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely say so. For example I’ve met with some people before older than myself. Attractive don’t get me wrong and I definitely wanted to fuck them but date them I couldn’t purely down to that age gap. Plus a lot of people you do meet on here you might not get along with enough to form a relationship. But the attraction is there

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex... "

I get that and I would do the same if just doing casual. Find someone else to have fun with on your wavelength. Not someone that makes lame excuses.

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex...

I get that and I would do the same if just doing casual. Find someone else to have fun with on your wavelength. Not someone that makes lame excuses. "

oh i didn't mind the suggestion.... i will gladly fuck her, it just made me wonder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as iv said earlier on here, im not asking or looking for a relationship, i just enjoy the build up as much as the sex...

I get that and I would do the same if just doing casual. Find someone else to have fun with on your wavelength. Not someone that makes lame excuses.

oh i didn't mind the suggestion.... i will gladly fuck her, it just made me wonder x"

Crack on then...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Did Fabswingers turn into a dating site and I didn't get the memo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did Fabswingers turn into a dating site and I didn't get the memo "

Funnily enough, it’s also a swinging site but not many actual swingers on here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a huge difference between fuckable and dateable. Fuckable engages the genitals and a little bit of personality. Dateable engages EVERYTHING.... That's my take anyway

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Did Fabswingers turn into a dating site and I didn't get the memo "

you a wham bam thank you man then?

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"There is a huge difference between fuckable and dateable. Fuckable engages the genitals and a little bit of personality. Dateable engages EVERYTHING.... That's my take anyway "

Thanks... your both by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It basically means she can bare your presence for 40 mins if you shut up and fuck her. Stay any longer or open your mouth and she's liable to clobber you

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By *ilth500 OP   Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"It basically means she can bare your presence for 40 mins if you shut up and fuck her. Stay any longer or open your mouth and she's liable to clobber you "

40mins?? you stallion you! haha

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