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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" I try to see what could have possibly motivated them. A lot of the time, if you can work that out, you can understand them and hope that they get past whatever pushed them to do it. If I conclude that what motivated them was just pure meanspiritedness, then I make sure that they can’t have what they want most. I’m pretty sure that is files under revenge | |||
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"Confucius said,before embarking on a journey of revenge dig two graves. " Confucius also say - Man with hand in pocket feel cocky but man with two hands in pockets not feel too cocky | |||
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"Cut contact. Remain dignified and move on with your life. Works for me" life’s a book, if you get stuck on one page you’ll never find out what happens next; turn the page! As a yogi: release is the best tonic | |||
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"There's a good song exploring anger and revenge called you will see me, by Dan le sacv scroobius pip" I that track. Might have something to do with my all encompassing lust for Pip | |||
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"Cut contact. Remain dignified and move on with your life. Works for me" Well done Karen | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" Do me wrong and can comfortably let it go. Do my loved ones wrong and I might just fuck you up. Depending on what it was obviously. I believe in proportionality. | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" I walk away and leave it - Revenge is a dish best served cold! | |||
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"Leave them to it and get on with your own life. Karma will always have the last word whether it be days, weeks, months or years." | |||
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"Leave them to it and get on with your own life. Karma will always have the last word whether it be days, weeks, months or years. " Absolutely, although I’ve noticed some people call on karma when someone’s upset them but seem to forget about it when they are doing spiteful and nasty things to other people | |||
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"There's a good song exploring anger and revenge called you will see me, by Dan le sacv scroobius pip I that track. Might have something to do with my all encompassing lust for Pip " | |||
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"Leave them to it and get on with your own life. Karma will always have the last word whether it be days, weeks, months or years. Absolutely, although I’ve noticed some people call on karma when someone’s upset them but seem to forget about it when they are doing spiteful and nasty things to other people " so very true | |||
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"The best revenge is to be happy... Revenge, it's just anger dressed up in hurt. If you go out of your way to hurt another then are we any better than those who hurt us..." | |||
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"I'm sure there's some self-help phrase (but that doesn't mean it's invalid) along the lines of: "Holding onto resentment is like drinking rat-poison and expecting the rat to die"" I like that. | |||
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"bortaS bIr jablu'DI' reH QaQqu' nay'" Is that Klingon? | |||
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"Too close to the bone today im getting d*unk so hope i dont read this in an hour" Chin up. x | |||
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"Confucius said,before embarking on a journey of revenge dig two graves. " I prefer the Louis Mazzini's quote in the movie "Kind Hearts and Coronets": revenge is the dish people taste prefer to eat cold... that's me! | |||
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"There's a good song exploring anger and revenge called you will see me, by Dan le sacv scroobius pip I that track. Might have something to do with my all encompassing lust for Pip " He's my man crush ha ha | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" I know the best revenge is success, but when I caught my ex cheating (using her job as a cover) I emailed her bosses and asked if it was company policy to sponsor adultery.... She was mortified to say the least.... | |||
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"I don't seek revenge, I just get even " Exactly, it's a normal reaction... | |||
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"The best revenge is silence. Take the higher ground and move the fuck on! " This. Anything else, especially in swinging, is pathetic and childish. | |||
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"Revenge, like jealousy is a wasted emotion. Neither of which are things I waste my time & energy on.. But I do believe in 'what goes around, comes around' If people live a certain way, they will eventually meet someone the same as themselves & eventually be on the receiving end. " I like to think the same. I do wonder if it ever happens though. | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" I believe in Karma. Plus I have seen it in action so it does work sometimes unfortunately not all the time | |||
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"Revenge, like jealousy is a wasted emotion. Neither of which are things I waste my time & energy on.. But I do believe in 'what goes around, comes around' If people live a certain way, they will eventually meet someone the same as themselves & eventually be on the receiving end. I like to think the same. I do wonder if it ever happens though. " In my experience.. It always does. It may not be swift, but it always happens | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" Block and move on, retaining the hurt only hurts you they arnt really bothered | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" killing with kindness is my motto! | |||
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"The best revenge is silence. Take the higher ground and move the fuck on! This. Anything else, especially in swinging, is pathetic and childish. " Good advice | |||
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"I guess it all depends why you want revenge in the first place." This absolutely decides the response | |||
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"I don't go for revenge. I sit back and wait for karma to arse fuck the person with a cactus" my thought is why wait | |||
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"Cut contact. Remain dignified and move on with your life. Works for me" This is the only way imo | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" When you find the answers, please let me know. | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" ...revenge best served cold. Give people enough rope and they will fuck up again and again. Be happy you are no longer part of their drama. | |||
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""The best revenge is massive success"- Frank Sinatra If someone has 'done you wrong' do you turn the other cheek or get revenge? Do you tell them what you think of them or maintain a dignified silence? Do you better yourself and hold your head high or wallow in sadness?" I actually believe that people who deliberately treat others badly are sad, sorry little individuals who have huge issues of their own that they are too weak to deal with so decide to take it out on others. I don't have sympathy for them, I feel pity because to go through life like that must be pretty horrible, especially as they tend to only associate with others like themselves and must spend life in a horrible bubble, often mistakenly thinking that people really like them when, in fact, very few do. Never want to get revenge from this kind of individual because they have issues that they alone can resolve, and if they're not willing to try they are not worth any kind of emotion at all from me... | |||
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"The best revenge is living well and being happy in spite of others. You are responsible for your own actions and happiness not those of others. Move on, learn by the hurts and live your life to its fullest. You will find those that have wounded you generally don't care either way about you, it is all about them. You have no control over what they think and feel so no point even trying to do something to change it. Pointless waste of energy. " | |||
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"The best revenge is living well and being happy in spite of others. You are responsible for your own actions and happiness not those of others. Move on, learn by the hurts and live your life to its fullest. You will find those that have wounded you generally don't care either way about you, it is all about them. You have no control over what they think and feel so no point even trying to do something to change it. Pointless waste of energy. " So true, and to dwell on past hurts is to allow them control over you. | |||
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"Revenge, like jealousy is a wasted emotion. Neither of which are things I waste my time & energy on.. But I do believe in 'what goes around, comes around' If people live a certain way, they will eventually meet someone the same as themselves & eventually be on the receiving end. I like to think the same. I do wonder if it ever happens though. In my experience.. It always does. It may not be swift, but it always happens " Good to know, I have a long list.... | |||
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