FabSwingers.com forum: A question for the guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok so here’s the thing, on nights out do you sometimes feel that your constantly being judged by others due to what your wearing / your size (fat or slim) or maybe your little fella down there??

There’s always going to be people that you don’t want to play with, but can also be social too... or the other way round, you are social and want to play, but it just doesn’t seem to be working?

Or do you like to make friends first? But then there’s the problem with friend zone V play partners?

What’s your thoughts guys? Girls can answer too. Haha

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I’d rather meet in person and see what a person is like and see if there’s a connection. Size and clothing doesn’t really matter. I’ve played with guys of varying body sizes and heights because I like them. What they wear isn’t important. I’m usually attracted to nice eyes and a smile and decent conversation.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

The answer is confidence. This enables your self esteem and dignity to stay in tact regardless of outcomes.

Know yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont go out anymore as its hard to get away from the groupies following me everywhere as soon as i walk in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Granny.... you know I am quite confident usually, but just recently I’ve started to question myself over things.

I am unique though.... nobody can handle 2 of me! Haha

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Ok so here’s the thing, on nights out do you sometimes feel that your constantly being judged by others due to what your wearing / your size (fat or slim) or maybe your little fella down there??

Or do you like to make friends first? But then there’s the problem with friend zone V play partners?

What’s your thoughts guys? Girls can answer too. Haha "

I'm sure that we ate all judged and judging constantly, but if you are happy with yourself then others opinions have little value.

Cal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Granny.... you know I am quite confident usually, but just recently I’ve started to question myself over things.

I am unique though.... nobody can handle 2 of me! Haha "

Hmmmm change direction for a short time. Do something that makes you feel good with people you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes......

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

This in interesting today I am wearing retro adidas jacket and bucket hat with jeans. Last night was in shoes jeans and long sleeved shirt. At club in red boxers.

What I wear is flexible, so for me I am a bit on the bigger side weight wise (I am doing something about it), I have slim arms but my shoulders are quite toned, along with arse.

For me I am who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes...... "

Ha but the people who would then be 'interested' in you would be even worse than the ones you feel are judging you.

Shake yourself up a bit, start walking more or something else to make you feel good about yourself for a bit. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes......

Ha but the people who would then be 'interested' in you would be even worse than the ones you feel are judging you.

Shake yourself up a bit, start walking more or something else to make you feel good about yourself for a bit. Xx"

I feel good about myself (mostly) but I suppose I could do a bit more walking haha

It’s just one of those days today I guess?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter what you look like. If you can make a girl or guy laugh then you're half way there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes...... "

Your fine as you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't matter what you look like. If you can make a girl or guy laugh then you're half way there. "

Oh I can do that easily enough.... last night, was in pink shirt, pink shorts and pink knickers!

Well I have to be colour conscious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes......

Ha but the people who would then be 'interested' in you would be even worse than the ones you feel are judging you.

Shake yourself up a bit, start walking more or something else to make you feel good about yourself for a bit. Xx

I feel good about myself (mostly) but I suppose I could do a bit more walking haha

It’s just one of those days today I guess? "

Its raining, brings the gloom with it. Walking is very underrated as exercise but pretty good I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The image is scarred into my mind ??. I'm sure it raised a few giggles. Laughter is the best aphrodisiac ever!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The image is scarred into my mind ??. I'm sure it raised a few giggles. Laughter is the best aphrodisiac ever! "

I am well known in the club for my knicker thing.... certainly makes a few people laugh, but also scares some people off too.... the poor newbies! lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes...... "

The attention you'd get wouldn't be 'like' let alone 'love'

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I dont go out anymore as its hard to get away from the groupies following me everywhere as soon as i walk in

I’m the same.

I get fed up of being asked for my autograph all the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes......

The attention you'd get wouldn't be 'like' let alone 'love' "

I’m not looking for love, I have that at home with Mrs Marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so here’s the thing, on nights out do you sometimes feel that your constantly being judged by others due to what your wearing / your size (fat or slim) or maybe your little fella down there??

Or do you like to make friends first? But then there’s the problem with friend zone V play partners?

What’s your thoughts guys? Girls can answer too. Haha "
People judge you here......... Nooooooooo........never

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ok. Im assuming you mean in swingers clubs. For swinging clubs i have a different way of playing than at other times. I dont judge anyone and will be social to all however i will only play with those im physically attracted to all a guy has to do is conduct himself in a nice way and if im attracted i will play. I might shag five different guys in a night i dont have time to get to know someones personality who im not instantly attracted too.

Outside clubs i do it a completly different way which is mostly based on personality

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes...... "
i swear to god this is true. I was in a club one night and this couple walked up to me. Well the woman and the first thing out of her mouth she said "where millionaires can you tell"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes...... i swear to god this is true. I was in a club one night and this couple walked up to me. Well the woman and the first thing out of her mouth she said "where millionaires can you tell"

I would have to spend quite a bit to be that skint! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go on nights out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

Good grief...reminds me of Harry Enfield: "Excuse me, I couldn't help noticing that we appear to be considerably richer than you"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes...... "

Yes you're right, that way you could attract shallow women who only go for body and car

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

Good grief...reminds me of Harry Enfield: "Excuse me, I couldn't help noticing that we appear to be considerably richer than you""
she was topless and i just said we all look the same when weve got our tits out love and walked off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes......

Ha but the people who would then be 'interested' in you would be even worse than the ones you feel are judging you.

Shake yourself up a bit, start walking more or something else to make you feel good about yourself for a bit. Xx

I feel good about myself (mostly) but I suppose I could do a bit more walking haha

It’s just one of those days today I guess?

Its raining, brings the gloom with it. Walking is very underrated as exercise but pretty good I think

I wholeheartedly agree, excercise is a well known way to help with depression. I took up running and it worked wonders with me. Indeed, I have been a bit low over the last week or so, but after going out and doing 3 miles I feel much better.

On a personal note Autumn, I love your photos and gave you a bunch of fabs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh guys, I’m not depressed, think I may have given the wrong impression with the initial posting.

I’m always a happy cheerful soul, just sometimes over think things.

Must be the marmite affect eh

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Ahh guys, I’m not depressed, think I may have given the wrong impression with the initial posting.

I’m always a happy cheerful soul, just sometimes over think things.

Must be the marmite affect eh "
it doesnt have to be someones physical looks but there over all persona

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s funny how I am always good at making friends... but not so much playmates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i look alot different to most of the "attractive guys" on here im chubby i have a mohican and tatts and piercings but the way i see it its worth being rejected 50 or 100 times to then find someone or someones that i connect with and aslong as ur happy in urself thats all that matters, 99% of people have bad days or bad weeks where they hate they way they look or act, some of the most depressed people on the planet are rich and famous so it means nothing, dont know if any of this helps but from a chubby average looking guy i seem to do alright

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Yeah, I feel like with my black hair and slitty eyes everyone is just going round think I've got a tiny cock.

That's why I come prepared with a pre-marked Sky remote tucked in my pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't matter what you look like. If you can make a girl or guy laugh then you're half way there. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op you say you are unque. In what way. What is your usp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging and being judged??

Nah mate, I’m far too busy enjoying my self and getting pissed to notice or care about anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I was told last night, love yourself, fuck what others think of you

If only I was a little more on the gym fit size, with a Ferrari parked outside and a pocket full of £50 notes......

Ha but the people who would then be 'interested' in you would be even worse than the ones you feel are judging you.

Shake yourself up a bit, start walking more or something else to make you feel good about yourself for a bit. Xx

I feel good about myself (mostly) but I suppose I could do a bit more walking haha

It’s just one of those days today I guess?

Its raining, brings the gloom with it. Walking is very underrated as exercise but pretty good I think

On a personal note Autumn, I love your photos and gave you a bunch of fabs."

Thanks,and good to hear it. Keep it up (the walking)

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