FabSwingers.com forum: ever regreted your actions ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So any regrets ? WHY ?

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Yep... should of taken note years ago to keep in touch with someone. Now in the later years both are kicking ourselves that we didn't but now it's to late.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no regrets here...

life is far too short and precious to waste it on what might have been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I've lost loved ones recently so life is too short for regrets it's for living

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

You cant live your life based on regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember don’t do it again

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are plenty of things I wish I hadn't done but each of them taught me valuable lessons so not regrets as such but still wish I'd not done them because of the pain it caused not only myself but in some instances others too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plenty of things I wish I hadn't done but each of them taught me valuable lessons so not regrets as such but still wish I'd not done them because of the pain it caused not only myself but in some instances others too"

Ditto

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Yes. Too many. Missed opportunities and mistakes. Life I guess.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Frequently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You cant live your life based on regrets"

Took the words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A few "

But then again, too few to mention....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets are just moments we play over as what ifs. I have things i wish had been better, though mostly learnt to do better the next time round.

That said, living in Grantham Lincolnshire for a couple of years is something I'd change if I could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Too many. Missed opportunities and mistakes. Life I guess. "

Same missed opportunity and wonder where i would be now if had taken it ( fem half )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A life lived without regret is a life not lived! Regret that my eldest daughter and I had a massive row 7 years ago and haven’t spoken to one another since and in that time she had emigrated to Canada. Think it’s highly unlikely I will ever hear from her or see her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So any regrets ? WHY ?"

Yeah I didn’t buy 3 houses when I was 21

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Disappointment and lessons learned - but what's passed is gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To regret is a misuse of hindsight when we should use it to learn and move on. Not always easy I admit ...

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"A few "

Not enough to mention?

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"A few

But then again, too few to mention....

Gah...you beat me to it

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By *lbert_shlossedMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I try to live in the here and now and not the past, the past is just memories waiting to give you guilt trips through hindsight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, but try not to get stuck on them.

Motto: It’s better to regret what I’ve done, then what I haven’t.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I do wonder what life would have been like if we’d have discovered swinging earlier!!!!!

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Used to regret alot but then when had my kid i relised it was all for a reason. Wouldnt change a thing as it could mean i wouldnt have had my beautiful daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get hurt I do tend to hit out in anger ( verbally) it’s almost my protective shield.

In fact it does me more hard than good.

I wish sometimes I could just zip it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets ive had a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yeah. I try not to dwell on it but these things have a habit of haunting you.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"A life lived without regret is a life not lived! Regret that my eldest daughter and I had a massive row 7 years ago and haven’t spoken to one another since and in that time she had emigrated to Canada. Think it’s highly unlikely I will ever hear from her or see her again"

Oh I feel your pain, please write to her and tell her of your regret. You clearly love her and I hope you will be able to re-establish your bond.

A hand written letter means so much to the recipients than emails and will show you do care about her. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did what I had to do

And saw it through without exemption....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So any regrets ? WHY ?"
nope once it's done it's too late you can't take it back ask John coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - They haunt my soul and being intrinsically linked to happiness - it’s a struggle to stay in the light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes - They haunt my soul and being intrinsically linked to happiness - it’s a struggle to stay in the light."
just lurk in the shadows it's only way

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Regrets no.

Lessons learned plenty

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By *umpsMan
over a year ago

city

Ouch that is painful...

Hopefully for you it is not forever... perhaps put a request in the Canadian media for making contact... I friend done something similar only it was a different situation..

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Is there a difference in the way you feel about things you haven’t done or didn’t do, to the regrets about the things you have done?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

One...but the writing was on the wall. I went against my own better judgement to give the benefit of doubt for the inevitable to happen, let down again.

No one gets second chances again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times. The feeling of regret normally goes after a few weeks though.

Every thing happens for a reason right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always! (Espcially the night of the £200 bar bill

) but my mistakes have make me who I am today. So i allow myself a bit of time to reflect then move on!

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

At least once a week

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes. I took sides when my dad split up with my step mum. For no reason at all. A sign of immaturity. One of my big regrets.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

None...a few life lessons but no regrets love my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll have to wait for my autobiography!

....accepting pre-orders now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily my regrets haven't impacted my life in a negative way and I am now enjoying life how I want to, not how other people think/say I should...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret selling my house and coming off the Property ladder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets. They don't work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret not thumping some people when they deserved it.

Apart from that no.

No regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No regrets. They don't work...."

They only hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’ve led me where I’m supposed to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non rien de rien

Non je ne regrette rien

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Loads.

One action is buying an air pistol, that was used on me when messing around ended up blinding me in one eye.

Giving up my cycling as it got boring, no idea where I would have ended up though.

Not getting into crossdressing at an earlier age, when I had the looks and figure to pull a good luck off.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes. Should have listened to my gut instincts I'll never ignore it again.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"So any regrets ? WHY ?"

Wrong guy, wrong time

Enough said

Mrs M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes, learning experiences...

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

Yes, regret actions that have caused hurt to others

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By *rs Butterfly.Woman
over a year ago

Never NeverLand

You need to have the bad experiences to learn and adapt.

Do I have regrets yes have I learnt from my past mistakes...Yes.

The main thing I have learnt is never go against your gut instinct. It's there for a reason

Mrs B

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