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Older women interested in younger?

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Not had any luck with older women, was wondering whether I was the issue or women just weren’t interested in younger guys

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i need to find older women interested in even older guys lol

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I like younger guys as long as they don't act like teenagers

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I like younger guys as long as they don't act like teenagers "

Would you want to drop me a message?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I like younger guys but there has to be far more attraction than just being within a certain age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will go 8 yrs younger but 33 yrs younger is a bit out of my age range..

I've got LP's older than you OP

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I like younger guys but there has to be far more attraction than just being within a certain age range. "

Would you say there’s any attraction?

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Most of my veris have been older women

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm probably not old enough for you, and you're not old enough for me so it's moot. But in general terms, you need to look at how you present yourself. Why would a woman be interested in you? What might she see in you? What do you have to offer? Answer those questions in your profile and messages (and in messages, why does this specific woman interest you?).

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By *arie79Woman
over a year ago

Stornoway

There are plenty of us cougars about

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"There are plenty of us cougars about "

Message me x

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Tbf though I know this has hindered me a bit not being able to accommodate to quite a lot of women looks shifty

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Tbf though I know this has hindered me a bit not being able to accommodate to quite a lot of women looks shifty"

I house share with friends that don’t know I’m on here so it’s not practical

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I prefer younger guys, but they need to have a profile for a start

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Tbf though I know this has hindered me a bit not being able to accommodate to quite a lot of women looks shifty

I house share with friends that don’t know I’m on here so it’s not practical "

I understand that I’m the same but most people don’t think about that straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the younger guys

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Pretty laid back and non judgemental - is that really all you have to say about yourself?

Women pretty much are over run by guys on here, you really need to try a little harder.

And 20 may be a bit young for some women, depends how much older your looking for. The belt on my jeans is way older than you are.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.

A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not had any luck with older women, was wondering whether I was the issue or women just weren’t interested in younger guys "

And then you messaged me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.

A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person "

Yeah, the reason my age limit is as high as it is, is some younger guys are incredibly immature. (older guys aren't immune, but younger guys are often worse)

And as someone who gets it on multiple fronts, please don't fetishise her age or anything else. I'm not attractive because I'm 32. If I'm attractive (to anyone) it's for other reasons, even if my age might play into it.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.

A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person "

I totally agree, age is a number and itself not usually the barrier.

I personally have 3 very lovely young men who I’m in “negotiations” with

Their age, or mine is not the important factor though.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

When I was your age I thought if a woman was 25 I was like "ooooh, older woman." Lol.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"When I was your age I thought if a woman was 25 I was like "ooooh, older woman." Lol. "

Sad but true. Before I raised my age limit I got a good few messages from guys looking for a cougar. Err... come back in fifteen years or so?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.

A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person "

Totally agree with you there judging by a lot of the messages I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.

A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person

Yeah, the reason my age limit is as high as it is, is some younger guys are incredibly immature. (older guys aren't immune, but younger guys are often worse)

And as someone who gets it on multiple fronts, please don't fetishise her age or anything else. I'm not attractive because I'm 32. If I'm attractive (to anyone) it's for other reasons, even if my age might play into it. "

I meet young guys only. So i am attracted to their age as i love the whole naughty taboo to it. Thats what does it for me. So they are just doing the same back to me.. so its fine to be attracted to age, same as some are to other factors such as bbw

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Younger is good, though there has to be a decent level of maturity.

A lot of young guys are man boys who think an older woman is something to 'do' rather than a person

Yeah, the reason my age limit is as high as it is, is some younger guys are incredibly immature. (older guys aren't immune, but younger guys are often worse)

And as someone who gets it on multiple fronts, please don't fetishise her age or anything else. I'm not attractive because I'm 32. If I'm attractive (to anyone) it's for other reasons, even if my age might play into it.

I meet young guys only. So i am attracted to their age as i love the whole naughty taboo to it. Thats what does it for me. So they are just doing the same back to me.. so its fine to be attracted to age, same as some are to other factors such as bbw"

Fair enough. Different strokes. I find being told I'm attractive because of my age, or kinky because I'm bi, etc, irritating. I feel like I'm being reduced to relatively unimportant attributes.

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"There are plenty of us cougars about "

Won’t let me message you

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By *arie79Woman
over a year ago

Stornoway

Hold on I'll change age range.

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Hold on I'll change age range."

Still won’t let me. Could you kik me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message me

Male 29 here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Hold on I'll change age range.

Still won’t let me. Could you kik me?"

This will all end in tears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hold on I'll change age range.

Still won’t let me. Could you kik me?

This will all end in tears "

Yes, but who will be crying?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I meet younger guys - but not guys under 25 op! Guys 25-30 have to be very mature for their age - and I expect all guys I meet to be very sexually experienced!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I can only speak for myself,but prefer round my age give or take a few years either way .

Many will have children around your age ,so this will be an issue.

Some women like younger ,I think there are club nights for this .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv a thing for naughty 40s at the min but thats not much older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go as low as 32, anything under that just seems wrong to me personally ... Sorry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is it about the older lady that appeals? The only reason I ask is that, to echo an earlier poster, there’s a plethora of young bucks who fetishise a woman’s age without any real sense behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbf though I know this has hindered me a bit not being able to accommodate to quite a lot of women looks shifty

I house share with friends that don’t know I’m on here so it’s not practical

I understand that I’m the same but most people don’t think about that straight away. "

More likely to be worried about parents in residence than a wife

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"I will go 8 yrs younger but 33 yrs younger is a bit out of my age range..

I've got LP's older than you OP "

Well im 8 years when we getting together xx

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"I meet younger guys - but not guys under 25 op! Guys 25-30 have to be very mature for their age - and I expect all guys I meet to be very sexually experienced! "

Fair but in my experience I have found some men under 25 to be more mature than men over the age of 25.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keeping a eye out

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By *aucyknickersWoman
over a year ago

Midlands ish

Personally, at 34, being messaged and called an ‘older woman’ just hurts! Can I not be attractive for being me or is it just my age that is the reason for interest?

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By *arie79Woman
over a year ago

Stornoway


"Personally, at 34, being messaged and called an ‘older woman’ just hurts! Can I not be attractive for being me or is it just my age that is the reason for interest?"

I know what you mean, hearing that they have a thing for older women or that I look good 'for my age' does grate after a bit.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Personally, at 34, being messaged and called an ‘older woman’ just hurts! Can I not be attractive for being me or is it just my age that is the reason for interest?"

I posted a threadt a few days ago following a message I had saying I had a good body for my age ... if only the folk would stop before they add ..the age bit into the sentence..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was also reffered to as an "older woman" in a message a few weeks ago, it kind of hit me like a smack in the teeth.

But I'm 38 so. I am what I am

Jo.X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was also reffered to as an "older woman" in a message a few weeks ago, it kind of hit me like a smack in the teeth.

But I'm 38 so. I am what I am

Jo.X"

Were still kids

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I kinda have a rule that if I could have given birth to them then they’re not for me! (Age wise)

Having said that!!! Maturity counts for everything!

And I’ve broken the rule already! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was also reffered to as an "older woman" in a message a few weeks ago, it kind of hit me like a smack in the teeth.

But I'm 38 so. I am what I am

Jo.X

Were still kids "

Yes we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would genuinely love to talk to any older women interested

Love a bit of experience. ..

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By *av-RickMan
over a year ago

Nearby

There are definitely older women out there who look for or like younger guys, after all there are many sites dedicated to toyboy/age gap meets, and some of them do work, as well as on swinging sites like fab - definitely what appeals to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish they would find me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger guy with a mature attitude...perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger guy with a mature attitude...perfect!"

This could be arranged...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've slept with a couple of women 10+ years older then me and I think it helped that they were women I worked with/got to know progressively, I think you it takes time to show maturity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love to have some younger ladies in there 20s

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Younger guy with a mature attitude...perfect!"

to be fair that is quite hard to find as many that say they do don't as for example on here they can seem mature but in person can be the complete opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Younger guy with a mature attitude...perfect!"

That’s me

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By *ounghungguy123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Encouraging thread. There are some older women looking for younger guys out there

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