FabSwingers.com forum: Put offs

By *exybums OP Couple
over a year ago

aboyne

What really puts you off someone's profile/messages?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Profiles - negativity.

Messages - too many ridiculously personal questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dim doms, assumptions and too many cock pics.

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By *exybums OP Couple
over a year ago

aboyne

For me, among other things, is when in messages you have to guess what they are trying to say, text speak or when people write they way they speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Not looking for single men'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Not looking for single men'"

Soz mate.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"For me, among other things, is when in messages you have to guess what they are trying to say, text speak or when people write they way they speak.

Agreed. Absolutely no punctuation irrationally irritates me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faf messages

Too little info on profile

Or ones that say 'new here' but they have been here over a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'Not looking for single men'

Soz mate. "

Meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things that should be so obvious they don’t need stating:

‘My kids come first.’

‘I won’t just sleep with anybody.’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profiles - negativity.

Messages - too many ridiculously personal questions. "

The minute you look at a profile and it's immediately aggressive about select groups of people. Tarnishing them with the same brush through bad experiences

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

Post-sex, cum-drenched, minge shots... I swear some of the pics I've seen here have almost turned me off fanny completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things that should be so obvious they don’t need stating:

‘My kids come first.’

‘I won’t just sleep with anybody.’

Believe me, these things do need stating quite clearly on here!!

You might be surprised by the messages women get on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Post-sex, cum-drenched, minge shots... I swear some of the pics I've seen here have almost turned me off fanny completely."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basic profiles with no pics, veris or bio read. There’s far too much competition out there to lack these in your profile if you want a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages - text speak and inane questions (how was your weekend? What are you doing at the weekend? How are you finding it on here?)

Profiles - "Fill this in later". Negativity, Cum all over someone/something and pictures of gaping vaginas.

Other than that....life's good

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By *exybums OP Couple
over a year ago

aboyne

[Removed by poster at 10/08/18 18:18:08]

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

The member has blocked you from seeing their profile

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Profiles that haven't been updated, you aren't new, x number of veri's over a year says you are fairly seasoned. Just a few words to where you are at, want to go on this journey.

Photos too, pics from 2013 all look dandy, but do you still look like that?

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Fill in later ... when they've been on a year and one blurred pic from 5 years ago !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pics taken in the loo ... REALLY !

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"'Not looking for single men'"

We have this on ours. Sorry

I like to look for what man I'd like rather than have single men look for us if that makes sense

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Post-sex, cum-drenched, minge shots... I swear some of the pics I've seen here have almost turned me off fanny completely."

Glad it's not just me thinks that.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Profiles :just cock pics,will fill in later,ask.

Not looking to play ping pong email here to meet.

More pics of conquests than him

Messages:Wuu2?

You free now?

Fancy some fun,with no prior contact

Fun?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

When the emphasis is largely about how they will be satisfied, rather than satisfy.

If they get pushy to meet before I'm ready, I perceive a lack of respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who drink tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they reply with a ...Yeah or no, as if that's they conversation I'm looking for.

Why bother replying if you're not going to show any interest.

9x out of 10 I'll let it all slide or if I'm in one of them moods I'll respond with 'cool'

That tends to kill it off nicely.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Loads of things but most just boil down to a lack of effort really. Like, the objective is to get intimate with you but they can't be arsed to conjure up a description of themselves, or a clear picture, or a message longer than one or two words. All of that suggests a certain level of entitlement to me which is an instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negativity in the profile.

Text speak.

In messages it’s really long winded messages, “Lets fuck” messages, and those that you can tell are a copy and paste job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who drink tea"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crude username / avatar

Messages that start with - “Boo”, “Hey Nawty” - cringed & the classic “Can I impregnate you” - check my age doofus..

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Oh ... and male profiles where all their pictures are 99% random female, the other 1% that you have to search for being his thumb or an inch of cock sticking out of aforementioned female. Really gets my back up, like how is that supposed to attract other women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who drink tea

Except you of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages from guys I’ve never chatted to who want to know where I am on my menstrual cycle?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What really puts you off someone's profile/messages? "

Nosey twonks who send endless questions! They get blocked eventually!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Demanding or needy people put me off. Oh and huffy ones.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Demanding or needy people put me off. Oh and huffy ones. "

Hot women with fabulous boobs really put me off

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