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We are no longer immortal

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

as far as we know only one person from my year at school has passed away (he was a young 24 years old when he died)

This year I have already heard of two friends that were the year below me that have already passed.

To me it is another sign that our immortality is waning fast.

Live life to the max while we all can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a strong sense of my own mortality. But a recent spate of deaths among family and friends has left me much more aware that the clock really is ticking for me. It motivates me to make sure I'm living my own life and not someone else's. And to make sure I spend my time only doing things that are deeply important to me like... typing posts on Fab???

Hmm maybe it's time I logged off and did something else with my day? Haha

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Live your life now, it’s not a rehearsal

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm living my live to the full and making most of what I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping for the option of digital immortality within my lifetime .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does make you question where you are in life doesn’t it ?

It’s so short and you should be living your life to the fullest and in the happiest most content way possible

Don’t think what if ....

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Life is too short to be taken seriously.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have become quite aware of time passing (people too) and it's made me more fatalistic.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I thought that read fantastic

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its terrible the amount of people that i was at school with that have died. When we had our reunion we let of ballons for them and i think another couple of died since then all for varies reasons. Im like the grim fucking reaper three of my ex boyfriends are now dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering there is nothing after in a way we all are immortal, bit philosophical!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No one needs to remind me of our mortality, I was living life to the full and enjoying it very much, then in one trrrible moment it was over and life hadn’t been the same since

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I meen no disrespect but....

1 must arsk if sum may have made thar own lives shorter by doing stupid things.....

I no of 2 people from my school years both have parsed away. But cos of car crashs of witch thay both wos driving and speeding.

How do i no thay wos speeding. Cos thar wos no other car involved. 1 hit a tree and the other roled in to a ditch.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I meen no disrespect but....

1 must arsk if sum may have made thar own lives shorter by doing stupid things.....

I no of 2 people from my school years both have parsed away. But cos of car crashs of witch thay both wos driving and speeding.

How do i no thay wos speeding. Cos thar wos no other car involved. 1 hit a tree and the other roled in to a ditch."
the ones i went to school with have been for varies reasons from a lorry full of ashfelt falling on her car to cancer i dont think any of them can be blamed for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to live forever. Though I'd still be seeing forum entries like I'm straight but can't get muff in the year 5100. That and what's the best robot fuck you've had on Mars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember: Life is short, break the rules (they were made to be broken) Forgive quickly, kiss slowly Love truly, laugh uncontrollably And never regret anything that makes you smile. The clouds are lined with silver and the glass is half full (though the answers won't be found at the bottom) Don't sweat the small stuff, You are who you are meant to be, Dance as if no one's watching, Love as if it's all you know, Dream as if you'll live forever, Live as if you'll die today.

James Dean

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I meen no disrespect but....

1 must arsk if sum may have made thar own lives shorter by doing stupid things.....

I no of 2 people from my school years both have parsed away. But cos of car crashs of witch thay both wos driving and speeding.

How do i no thay wos speeding. Cos thar wos no other car involved. 1 hit a tree and the other roled in to a ditch.

the ones i went to school with have been for varies reasons from a lorry full of ashfelt falling on her car to cancer i dont think any of them can be blamed for that"

No things like that are all sad and unfortunate events. Wear respect is giving.

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

All have died of natural causes, one had a coronary at 24

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying my best to live it to the full despite sometimes it not happening ... But at least I am trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m trying to work out what’s important to me after being in a controlling marriage.

A great post and a good reminder thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deal with death quite often due to my job. And the stories I can tell Life is fragile and incredibly precious. S9 many people go out and never make it home, be that through sudden medical events or accidents. Life is for living, living a full life is such a subjective term. Just live the life that makes you happy and don't take it or the people around you for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people close to you live on in your heart that's what I believe anyway

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"as far as we know only one person from my year at school has passed away (he was a young 24 years old when he died)

This year I have already heard of two friends that were the year below me that have already passed.

To me it is another sign that our immortality is waning fast.

Live life to the max while we all can"

While at school, two people in my year died just over a week apart (separate incidents). We all understood our own mortality. I think at least two others from my year have died since leaving school. I'm not in touch with any of my school friends to know about any more.

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"I meen no disrespect but....

1 must arsk if sum may have made thar own lives shorter by doing stupid things.....

I no of 2 people from my school years both have parsed away. But cos of car crashs of witch thay both wos driving and speeding.

How do i no thay wos speeding. Cos thar wos no other car involved. 1 hit a tree and the other roled in to a ditch.

the ones i went to school with have been for varies reasons from a lorry full of ashfelt falling on her car to cancer i dont think any of them can be blamed for that

No things like that are all sad and unfortunate events. Wear respect is giving."

Even if it was "their own fault", it's still sad to hear someone has died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m trying to work out what’s important to me after being in a controlling marriage.

A great post and a good reminder thank you"

You're free. x

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By *olgate OP   Man
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Basically, enjoy life while you can. It doesn’t last for ever and nobody knows when it will be taken away from us until it’s too late

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My mum who has had several strokes, a broken back, a brain injury and heart failure in the last 8 years is constantly telling me I should go out more, do more things etc etc. She's projecting her regrets on to me. I'm quite happy with how often I go out, the places we go and the things I do. When she rings me and finds I'm actually at home her first words are "why aren't you out somewhere?" Although it's useful now and again to realise what's important in life and not waste time on things you can't change if I was out all the time nobody would do her internet shopping or change her duvet. Balance is what it's about in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"as far as we know only one person from my year at school has passed away (he was a young 24 years old when he died)

This year I have already heard of two friends that were the year below me that have already passed.

To me it is another sign that our immortality is waning fast.

Live life to the max while we all can"

tihs is hte scneod tmie yuov'e wrroeid me tnioght

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