FabSwingers.com forum: Do women get intimidated on here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes this has most likely been asked but I haven't spent a decade on here like many of you dinosaurs lol

So I was just wondering....do you ladies ever get an image from a guy and think he's out of your league, and as a result reject him for it. Guys have you ever felt like this has happend to you (I know some of us check the veris of those who reject us and judge)

I am interested to know

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Yes this has most likely been asked but I haven't spent a decade on here like many of you dinosaurs lol

I am interested to know

No never feel anyone is out of our league, people look for different things in different people. If people reject us we just respect that we are not for them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've taken things with more caution with very conventionally attractive guys, certainly, because I'm wary of them laughing at my expense. But reject, no.

Also, I meet different people for different reasons, and a guy in my veris says nothing about any other guy who messaged me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ... I don’t get intimidated by the men

If they want to meet and they’re genuinely nice then why should I feel I’m not good enough ??

Saying that , nor would I think I’m too good for someone either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

#youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this has most likely been asked but I haven't spent a decade on here like many of you dinosaurs lol

I am interested to know

No never feel anyone is out of our league, people look for different things in different people. If people reject us we just respect that we are not for them.

Excatly this

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I always look at veries for the body types /ages they meet too,so if someone really attractive messaged me and they'd met younger ,slim women.Id be wondering why they were messaging me tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest ... I’d rather a handsome face than a man who’d think he was God’s fucking gift

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I’m never intimated by someone, but what some would call ridiculously hot, is really not my kinda thing.

What I like to look at and what I like to feel beneath/above me are often two different things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've taken things with more caution with very conventionally attractive guys, certainly, because I'm wary of them laughing at my expense. But reject, no.

Also, I meet different people for different reasons, and a guy in my veris says nothing about any other guy who messaged me. "

That quite a sad thing to say. Why would you think anyone would ever laugh at you

I guess we are dealing with humans and we can be shitty at times. But surely you haven't experienced that here have you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

I'm no ones novelty fuck I either

Cave man doesn't fit in clowns costume. I just have big red shoes and messy hair.

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By *aughty-MittsCouple
over a year ago

Newport

Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t ever feel that. I’ve rejected some very good looking guys in the last week but only because they want a fb/fwb thing and I don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah of course women get intimadated, just like men do! Plus there are too many freaks on here as it is

. I always get told...'Sorry not what I'm looking for'.... scandalous! Haha. Think it helps if the banter is on point aswell, nothing worse than dry chat!! But hey ho what do I know!! Praccccccce

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

No. Just abused badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get intimidated on here.

I know my type and what inlike

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've taken things with more caution with very conventionally attractive guys, certainly, because I'm wary of them laughing at my expense. But reject, no.

Also, I meet different people for different reasons, and a guy in my veris says nothing about any other guy who messaged me.

That quite a sad thing to say. Why would you think anyone would ever laugh at you

I guess we are dealing with humans and we can be shitty at times. But surely you haven't experienced that here have you?"

Here, no (although I have had young gym fit guys tell me that I had to do as they said because they were hot. They discovered themselves on my block list). In real life, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

Yeah, but you’re hot as fuck. (Not blowing smoke)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. Just abused badly "

If anything is intimidating, it's this. You've got to have incredibly thick skin as a woman here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, thankfully I seem to find very down to earth people on here, and if there is an attraction it always tends to be mutual, physically and mentally. Though I don't look at myself as being particularly amazingly attractive, so it's always nice when someone does find me attractive.

The only time I've ever felt intimidated on here, something which is down to my own insecurities, is when someone I plan to meet has met someone else who has a rather bigger chest than I do. But I like my boobs now a lot more than I used to, and I also know that, like myself, people like different aspects of different people and won't be comparing my body to a previous meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. Just abused badly

If anything is intimidating, it's this. You've got to have incredibly thick skin as a woman here. "

I would struggle to feel hurt by

Horny keyboard woriorrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need girls im attainable just be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

Yeah, but you’re hot as fuck. (Not blowing smoke)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

Yeah, but you’re hot as fuck. (Not blowing smoke)

aint wrong there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No need girls im attainable just be nice"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

Yeah, but you’re hot as fuck. (Not blowing smoke)

aint wrong there"

Pah smoke blowers

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. Just abused badly

If anything is intimidating, it's this. You've got to have incredibly thick skin as a woman here.

I would struggle to feel hurt by

Horny keyboard woriorrs

It's not a hurt thing. It's, you join a site not knowing what to expect, you blink and you have hundreds of messages. Many messages expect you to drop everything and meet right this second. A good number of messages are sexist, vile, violent, or abusive. People's statuses often include unpleasant views about women (and other groups).

I've learned not to take it personally and sift through the shit to get what I want here. But it's not a character flaw for being unable to handle hundreds of messages, dozens of threats of violence, and countless treating women like pieces of meat, a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this has most likely been asked but I haven't spent a decade on here like many of you dinosaurs lol

I am interested to know

No, never

But I do get images from men and think 'he's not my type' and reject them on that basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this has most likely been asked but I haven't spent a decade on here like many of you dinosaurs lol

I am interested to know

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I'm intimidated by some of the large Breasted ladies I mean they are dangerous weapons....... Do they not come under health and safety at play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

Yeah, but you’re hot as fuck. (Not blowing smoke)

aint wrong there

Pah smoke blowers

I dont blow smoke just sweet nothings into ladys ears some guys just got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t get intimidated.

It’s kind of exciting actually when someone you find really attractive messages you and thinks the same of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get intimidated if the persons has pucs or veris with woman who are clearly slimmer and hotter than me as i do worry i look slimmer and younger in pics than i do in person.

If i get to the point of adding them on kik then i will send a vid i have that i think shows me more for who i am, wobbles as wrll xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. I'm realistic about my level of attractiveness, if someone ridiculously hot gets in touch I'm immediately suspicious as to why.

I'm no ones desperation or novelty fuck

Yeah, but you’re hot as fuck. (Not blowing smoke)

aint wrong there"

bloody hell

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Not intimidated.

But I do get the sort of giddy - 'Ah fuck, he noticed me? Me?! But he's so hot! Really? Yay!' internal monologue.

Because I'm clearly so cool and sophisticated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes this has most likely been asked but I haven't spent a decade on here like many of you dinosaurs lol

I am interested to know

I don’t approach men who I think are out of my league. I know my level. But if they approach me , depends what’s said.

There’s lots more body shaming on here. Maybe as bodies are more visible.

An many posts about women here should be grateful for any offer they get.

That said you can never judge a book by its cover. As I’ve met some lovely hotties. Hot doesn’t always equal arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife- I always feel on edge if a really good looking man notices our profile, I wonder what on earth would you want with me kind of thing! X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

And no, I don't reject because he's 'too hot'. If he turned out to be a twunt, then yes I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not intimidated.

But I do get the sort of giddy - 'Ah fuck, he noticed me? Me?! But he's so hot! Really? Yay!' internal monologue.

Because I'm clearly so cool and sophisticated.

You know why I'm laughing at that statement!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not intimidated.

But I do get the sort of giddy - 'Ah fuck, he noticed me? Me?! But he's so hot! Really? Yay!' internal monologue.

Because I'm clearly so cool and sophisticated.

You and me both

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No never intimidated. I read profiles and know I'm not what people are looking for. That doesn't make me out of anybody's league.

I've seen loads of threads telling me looks don't matter anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not intimidated as such but I am wary, usually followed by a face pic swap and a “you ain’t fat you’re fit” which then settles my suspicion that they’re perhaps not into bbws, I said I was fat not ugly

and it’s a polite no and good luck from me x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Not intimidated.

But I do get the sort of giddy - 'Ah fuck, he noticed me? Me?! But he's so hot! Really? Yay!' internal monologue.

Because I'm clearly so cool and sophisticated.

You know why I'm laughing at that statement! "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not intimidated as such but I am wary, usually followed by a face pic swap and a “you ain’t fat you’re fit” which then settles my suspicion that they’re perhaps not into bbws, I said I was fat not ugly

and it’s a polite no and good luck from me x"

Yeah, I sometimes get told I'm slim and look after my health. Umm, the latter might be true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not intimidated.

But I do get the sort of giddy - 'Ah fuck, he noticed me? Me?! But he's so hot! Really? Yay!' internal monologue.

Because I'm clearly so cool and sophisticated.

You know why I'm laughing at that statement!

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I think a few years ago I definitely would have but that was down to being very insecure. Having worked on it, and having lots of support from my husband,I can now put my insecurities into perspective much better and so don't get intimidated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm never intimidated by hot guys or previous veris. I reject guys (politely) who I don't find attractive or who don't fit what I'm looking for, but not for being too good looking

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I always look at veries for the body types /ages they meet too,so if someone really attractive messaged me and they'd met younger ,slim women.Id be wondering why they were messaging me tbh. "

I used to do this - until I made an incredibly good, beautiful friend with short pink hair! Miss pink hair and I look absolutely nothing like each other, either facially or body type - but our personalities are very similar!

You’d be amazed (or maybe not) at the number of guys who are attracted to us both - and we’ve played with a few of the same guys!

I guess what I’m saying is - a lot of guys genuinely do have very diverse tastes when it comes to women’s looks etc - often I think they’re just looking for people they can have hellishly good fun with!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

'OUT OF MY LEAGUE' = A phrase used by those who find it unbelievable that anyone could reject them so they have to say they got rejected cos they are so fucking hot they must have frightened the person.

Laughable.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I don't get intimidated by someone that contacted me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'OUT OF MY LEAGUE' = A phrase used by those who find it unbelievable that anyone could reject them so they have to say they got rejected cos they are so fucking hot they must have frightened the person.

Laughable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always look at veries for the body types /ages they meet too,so if someone really attractive messaged me and they'd met younger ,slim women.Id be wondering why they were messaging me tbh.

You’d be amazed (or maybe not) at the number of guys who are attracted to us both - and we’ve played with a few of the same guys!

I used to meet up with a guy who is a successful music producer. He used to be a model. He dates beautiful model types but he still messages me as he loves my curves and big boobs. I don’t feel intimidated by the girls he dates. Men love women for all kinds of things. I’ve turned him down so many times now as it’s not what I want anymore. He told me I was the first to say no. Ha. It’s not all about looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all blokes go for the super model look, you know they’re mostly going to be pretty dull and boring. I prefer a few fine lines and curves on the body and a wisdom in there eyes.

Ladies

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging."
yes last veri I gave ' she's a keeper'....... Mind she did work in a zoo

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging.yes last veri I gave ' she's a keeper'....... Mind she did work in a zoo"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging.yes last veri I gave ' she's a keeper'....... Mind she did work in a zoo"

ooer ...... I smiled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging.yes last veri I gave ' she's a keeper'....... Mind she did work in a zoo

ooer ...... I smiled"
omg I've died and gone to heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging.yes last veri I gave ' she's a keeper'....... Mind she did work in a zoo

ooer ...... I smiledomg I've died and gone to heaven"

Who killed ya il find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not forgetting that any hole is a goal and there is a huge difference between a keeper and one for shagging.yes last veri I gave ' she's a keeper'....... Mind she did work in a zoo

ooer ...... I smiledomg I've died and gone to heaven

Who killed ya il find them"
I'll help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx"

There are no leagues!

There are just people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx

There are no leagues!

There are just people."

Premier league perhaps?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Laughable.

So true. "I wouldn't have sagged you anyway!" OK, fine, why did you message me then? /jog on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx

There are no leagues!

There are just people."

I don't know what people want. One minute everyone's insisting that looks don't matter. The next its being suggested that we can all be placed in leagues according to how we look.

I think self esteem comes in to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx

There are no leagues!

There are just people.

I don't know what people want. One minute everyone's insisting that looks don't matter. The next its being suggested that we can all be placed in leagues according to how we look.

I think self esteem comes in to this."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx

There are no leagues!

There are just people.

I don't know what people want. One minute everyone's insisting that looks don't matter. The next its being suggested that we can all be placed in leagues according to how we look.

I think self esteem comes in to this."
yes beautiful people to the bottom as they are in short supply

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes I know there are men that is way out of my league and I would feel uncomfortable with them as I would feel self conscious about myself in the bedroom. But I can accept I'm not everyone's type xx

There are no leagues!

There are just people.

I don't know what people want. One minute everyone's insisting that looks don't matter. The next its being suggested that we can all be placed in leagues according to how we look.

I think self esteem comes in to this.yes beautiful people to the bottom as they are in short supply "

Is that beautiful on the inside or the outside? Only I'm getting confused

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