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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey fabbers

What’s the etiquette if your sent message remains unread? I know couples and especially women will get loads of messages and it would be hard to read them all.

So, do you send another message the next time you see them online with the hope they’ll see yours and read it? Or do you wink to get their attention? Or just move in?

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you like. It really doesn't matter because If I've ignored your first message I'm unlikely to take any notice of any other attempt to get my attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother checking if its been read or not? The only ones that should matter are the ones that reply surely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always stop at one..

Unless you want your ego to get doubly bruised

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Ah the 'they are online I will message them' mentality. Instant block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for the replies. I won’t be persistent then and know it was their loss. Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the hint OP and move on. Let them come to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sending multiple messages comes across as a little desperate. If I get to someone's message and it turns out they've sent me a few because I didn't respond quick enough for their liking that's an instant block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey fabbers

What’s the etiquette if your sent message remains unread? I know couples and especially women will get loads of messages and it would be hard to read them all.

So, do you send another message the next time you see them online with the hope they’ll see yours and read it? Or do you wink to get their attention? Or just move in?

Happy fabbing"
it really depends who you're messaging if they are popular then theirs a good chance they havnt seen it if they aren't then maybe they're not interested, you can’t always tell so nothing ventured nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it usually means that they popped round Morisson to buy some bread and some fruits. But it could mean that they also went to the cinema to watch a Disney.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it usually means that they popped round Morisson to buy some bread and some fruits. But it could mean that they also went to the cinema to watch a Disney. "

Suprised to hear that Morrisey is now the UKs 4th largest supermarket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why bother checking if its been read or not? The only ones that should matter are the ones that reply surely.. "

The logic is strong today!

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