FabSwingers.com forum: First contact

By *ynergy69 OP Man
over a year ago

Quick one, what is your preferred method of first contact ?

Polite and friendly or down right dirty ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite, dirty in the first message will get you deleted /ignored/blocked in the majority of cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite, dirty in the first message will get you deleted /ignored/blocked in the majority of cases"

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite, dirty in the first message will get you deleted /ignored/blocked in the majority of cases

Seconded "

Thirded

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Polite, friendly maybe a little flirty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite, dirty in the first message will get you deleted /ignored/blocked in the majority of cases

Seconded

Thirded

Fourthed

(I don't care its not a real word)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Fifth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something a bit funny or off the wall. Dirty just gets a

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Yep, polite, friendly and if possible a little humour triggered by something written on their profile or status.

The block usually comes once they’ve seen a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite and show them my face ... got nothing else going for me you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite, dirty in the first message will get you deleted /ignored/blocked in the majority of cases"

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Just WHO thinks "down right dirty" is a good first message approach...just beggars belief sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them smile!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I just delete first messages that get sexual tbh.

It just makes me think that he thinks with his cock and they aren't the sort of guys I find appealing.

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By *ynergy69 OP Man
over a year ago

"Yep, polite, friendly and if possible a little humour triggered by something written on their profile or status.

The block usually comes once they’ve seen a face pic

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that tells me what kind of human they are.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Friendly, chatty and positive for us... We will always reply regardless of the content, though quite how we reply depends on how much effort they've put into both their profile and initial message.

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By *ynergy69 OP Man
over a year ago

"Just WHO thinks "down right dirty" is a good first message approach...just beggars belief sometimes.

I agree but thought I’d open the question to all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite. But, if I send a face picture I’m sure they’re in for a shock of their life. They don’t expect a face like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Polite. But, if I send a face picture I’m sure they’re in for a shock of their life. They don’t expect a face like that

You’ve got a cute face

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

First contact should be with the Vulcans after Zephram Cochrane breaks light speed for the first time on April 5 2063

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit I am sick of the shit first messages about expecting to meet that night, it not as if my profile isn't clear enough, it fucks me right off actually meeting anyone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a polite, friendly and funny message. If they start telling me what they want to do to me, I always delete, no matter how hot, it puts me off big time.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Was discussing this earlier and I honestly couldn't do downright dirty and sexual in a first message or any messages without invitation from the other person - just makes me cringe to even think to do so.

Yet there are some out there that do think it's perfectly acceptable and probably wonder why they don't get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something that makes me laugh is always a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Star trek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Star trek?

Get some rest shagmuffin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do first contact....

Sometimes I talk with people

Sometimes they talk with me

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik? "

I'll Just cut and paste that

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

If everything’s ready on the dark side of the moon play the five tones .

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik! "

You said you were keeping the egg stained one especially for me!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Something a bit funny or off the wall. Dirty just gets a

Yup this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like to be told I'm pretty

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik!

You said you were keeping the egg stained one especially for me!!

And I have. I haven't washed it.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I just like to be told I'm pretty "

I feel pretty

Oh, so pretty

I feel pretty and witty and bright!

And I pity

Any girl who isn't me tonight

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik!

You said you were keeping the egg stained one especially for me!!

And I have. I haven't washed it.

Oh goody shall look forward to having a sniff!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just like to be told I'm pretty

I feel pretty

Oh, so pretty

I feel pretty and witty and bright!

And I pity

Any girl who isn't me tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik!

You said you were keeping the egg stained one especially for me!!

Oi I cut and pasted first

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik!

You said you were keeping the egg stained one especially for me!!

Oi I cut and pasted first

Tell you what you can have the ketchup stained one instead - deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you wearing? What you doing? Always does it for me.

You got Kik?

I'll Just cut and paste that

Last night's tee shirt with egg stains down the front.

I'm translating the works of Tolkien into grime...

I can't work the one that gives you cute rabbit ears let alone Kik!

You said you were keeping the egg stained one especially for me!!

Oi I cut and pasted first

Tell you what you can have the ketchup stained one instead - deal?

Not got one with brown sauce? Ok done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick one, what is your preferred method of first contact ?

Polite and friendly or down right dirty ?"

I'd rather they simply descended from the skies and gave us a pretty light show accompanied by simple melodies devised to try and communicate a message of universal peace.

If they land all hot and horny and ready to get down right dirty I'd say we're fucked

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Quick one, what is your preferred method of first contact ?

Polite and friendly or down right dirty ?

I'd rather they simply descended from the skies and gave us a pretty light show accompanied by simple melodies devised to try and communicate a message of universal peace.

If they land all hot and horny and ready to get down right dirty I'd say we're fucked

I want what he's got!

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Quick one, what is your preferred method of first contact ?

Polite and friendly or down right dirty ?

I'd rather they simply descended from the skies and gave us a pretty light show accompanied by simple melodies devised to try and communicate a message of universal peace.

If they land all hot and horny and ready to get down right dirty I'd say we're fucked

I want what he's got! "

*want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick one, what is your preferred method of first contact ?

Polite and friendly or down right dirty ?

I'd rather they simply descended from the skies and gave us a pretty light show accompanied by simple melodies devised to try and communicate a message of universal peace.

If they land all hot and horny and ready to get down right dirty I'd say we're fucked

I want what he's got!

*want "

Any time you want it babe

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