FabSwingers.com forum: Getting a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seriously how hard is it to get a meet on this site????

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

Very hard with genuine couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harder than becoming a doctor but easier than becoming an astronaut.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a scale of 1-10 and 10 being the highest level of difficulty, its definitely a 9.

Meets are by no means impossible but you have to be thick skinned and extremely patient

Good luck op

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Not very x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It can be tricky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Really hard, you were on for years you say so you'd know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive posting in the forums helps. Bet you have noticed an increase of viewing your profile already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harder than becoming a doctor but easier than becoming an astronaut.

Hope that helps.

You've obviously had it easy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people actually meet on this site? I thought it was a piss take

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By *ecky2000Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Really hard to find genuine couples ! This site is getting worse x

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By *ynergy69Man
over a year ago

Hard as a single male and you have to be very thicker skinned. Be prepared to get blocked for no reason too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very hard..for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it depends how you look at it... you can spend hours chatting to someone not knowing if they are really who they say they are... pestering with messages that get completely ignored... personally even before I was hosting events I went to clubs and socials... even if no play you can make connections and friends and go from there xxx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Be prepared to get blocked for no reason too

There is always a reason, it may just not be obvious to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared to get blocked for no reason too

There is always a reason, it may just not be obvious to you

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Seriously how hard is it to get a meet on this site????"

Very ! Unless you go to the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be hard. I was in Leeds three weeks ago for the night and getting just a social with a nice guy was like pulling teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that hard really

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By *ynergy69Man
over a year ago

"Be prepared to get blocked for no reason too

There is always a reason, it may just not be obvious to you

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on who you are and what you are looking for

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Depends "

Don’t believe the hype. It’s not so hard, but don’t expect to be able to pick where and when. Sadly, being horny won’t guarantee you a meet. Some of mine have been couples out of the blue wanting to meet the same or next day. Others take a bit of work, fab’s a game and if you play it right you can win some really good prizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very hard..for me "

No fence but the guys would shag anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Not very hard..for me "

Bragger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a meet? Very easy. Getting a quality meet? A tad more difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very hard..for me

No fence but the guys would shag anything

That's an endearing attitude...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Getting a meet? Very easy. Getting a quality meet? A tad more difficult

Yep this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Getting a meet? Very easy. Getting a quality meet? A tad more difficult

Yep!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Not that hard to be honest once you get the hang of it.

Shock horror I even get messages myself now I have built up a little network.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Harder than becoming a doctor but easier than becoming an astronaut.

Hope that helps.

You've obviously had it easy!

You are right.

I should have said Surgical Consultant.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Getting a meet? Very easy. Getting a quality meet? A tad more difficult

Ohh this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier if you are a women compared to a man, quality or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get mixed reports from male friends on here.

It is definitely not as easy as it used to be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simples

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By *tix9Man
over a year ago

St Leonards on Sea

I agree...going to a local social can really help you to make some connections and start to gain a bit of a positive reputation and someone genuine.

"well it depends how you look at it... you can spend hours chatting to someone not knowing if they are really who they say they are... pestering with messages that get completely ignored... personally even before I was hosting events I went to clubs and socials... even if no play you can make connections and friends and go from there xxx"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Seriously how hard is it to get a meet on this site????"

You've had a meet, so it can't be that hard x

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Seriously how hard is it to get a meet on this site????"

Well, I'm not saying it's hard or anything but rumour has it that that old Methuselah fella from the bible was on Fab for most of his adult life and only ever got himself four meets...and three of them cancelled at the last minute when they found out he'd lied about his age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very hard..for me

No fence but the guys would shag anything

good job I'm more discerning then...

and why is it when people say 'no [of]fence they do just the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried the Brenizer method when approaching someone on fab op?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty, with the right attitude and approach to the site, correctly set expectations and a half-decent profile and pics it's not as hard as some would have you believe - yes it might take time to find the right person, and then to build a rapport etc - but I'm a firm believer in approach with a positive attitude and you'll have a positive experience of the site (although there are of course no guaranteed meets) - however approach it negatively....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a meet is easy, whether it’s someone I really want to meet is an entirely different question...

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By *uestar71Man
over a year ago

London

It is definitely possible to get meets on here and I have met some charming people, but it takes time, effort and patience. See it as a long spiritual journey with the odd sexual encounter along the way and then you will feel more fulfilled...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Getting a meet is easy, whether it’s someone I really want to meet is an entirely different question...

All you've got to do is ask

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Really hard......unless you ask for just that.

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