FabSwingers.com forum: Instant attraction

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! I didn't act on it though

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have, though most of them are unrequited

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Oh most definitely on quite a few occasions in fact. Animal magnetism perhaps - some people seem to instantly click like two exact pieces of a jigsaw puzzle being put together

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

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"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

We ended up naked ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes. Not very often though. Maybe 3 times in my life so far.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes, I've experienced it. Plus attraction to someone's personality through messaging too x

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Absolutely! I didn't act on it though "

Why not? What was the situation?

I sometimes feel a pull towards men based on nothing more than vicinity. I say it's pheromones but that gets disputed.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, nice when you can see it on the other persons face and they feel it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it usually happens on trains. I always fall in lust on trains. I don't know why.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sure. Ive looked into someones eyes and its been lust

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have, though most of them are unrequited "

So are most of mine but the thrill of that moment...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times but mainly in vanilla lifestyle so done nothing about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Happened a couple of times, but fizzled out quite quickly

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have on a couple of socials. I've walked over to them and though 'yep', doesn't happen very often though.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh most definitely on quite a few occasions in fact. Animal magnetism perhaps - some people seem to instantly click like two exact pieces of a jigsaw puzzle being put together

That's how it was with the OP example. Isn't it lovely to know your jig fits so many saws?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

We ended up naked ????

I stripped you bare... with my eyes. You were knocked out by my knockers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes...on more than one occasion too

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh yes. Not very often though. Maybe 3 times in my life so far."

That doesn't seem enough instant lust for a lusty woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Very similar, it was more of a hoped we'd end up naked, that part is still yet to be discovered

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

We ended up naked ????

I stripped you bare... with my eyes. You were knocked out by my knockers.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, I've experienced it. Plus attraction to someone's personality through messaging too x"

That last one takes a bit longer. Before messaging (it was the '80s), I fell for someone just on his telephone voice and the flirty conversations we had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than “I want to rip your clothes off” oozing out your eyeballs due to an instant attraction

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Yes, it usually happens on trains. I always fall in lust on trains. I don't know why. "

Amen brother! - I regularly experience this curious phenomenon also.

Is it something to do with the train motion, lulling us into a sexually receptive state or else is it possibly that we can see our object of fascination seated, looking relaxed and thus more attractive in some way?

Answers on a post card please anyone?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, nice when you can see it on the other persons face and they feel it too."

Absolutely! All the fizzy feelings bubble away.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, it usually happens on trains. I always fall in lust on trains. I don't know why. "

It's the old romantic in you, watching too many old films and reading Mills and Boon.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sure. Ive looked into someones eyes and its been lust"

Is it the eyes that clinch it?

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

A couple of times. Once or twice I've wished I hadn't acted on it as it didn't work out how I would have liked. Fun at the time tho

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never not shagged someone ive fallen in lust with

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"A few times but mainly in vanilla lifestyle so done nothing about it "

What have you got to lose? Get your flirt on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it usually happens on trains. I always fall in lust on trains. I don't know why.

Amen brother! - I regularly experience this curious phenomenon also.

Answers on a post card please anyone? "

For me, it's more that I know I wouldn't make an approach on a train, so my guard is down a bit and then these women come along looking all pretty.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Yep just once about 10yrs ago. If things were different then not sure where we would of ended up. But to this day we are very close and speak everyday.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Happened a couple of times, but fizzled out quite quickly"

Lust like that can burn bright but briefly. There's a place for every type of flame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes loads

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Sure. Ive looked into someones eyes and its been lust

Is it the eyes that clinch it?

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yes when you look into each others eyes and just know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it usually happens on trains. I always fall in lust on trains. I don't know why.

It's the old romantic in you, watching too many old films and reading Mills and Boon.

Less of the 'old' romantic

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Instant attraction is a lovely thing when reciprocated

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have on a couple of socials. I've walked over to them and though 'yep', doesn't happen very often though."

I think the rare nature of it makes it special. I've never had it reciprocated again at a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times

But the one I lust after most doesn't want me

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes."

Brief. Enigmatic. Intriguing.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Very similar, it was more of a hoped we'd end up naked, that part is still yet to be discovered

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Good luck! Alas, I know it's not me.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Yes, the urge to kiss the other person was very strong but given the 4 of us had just met it was a case of curb one's desire..

Also had it many years ago when just one shared look was enough, knew we would sleep with each other and it was to be honest a strange but totally captivating moment..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ....

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Nothing better than “I want to rip your clothes off” oozing out your eyeballs due to an instant attraction "

Maybe we should write it on our eyelids, a la Indiana Jones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! I didn't act on it though

Why not? What was the situation?

I sometimes feel a pull towards men based on nothing more than vicinity. I say it's pheromones but that gets disputed.

Once on a long weekend a friend had organised abroad that me and my ex went on. The instant one of the couples turned up myself and the guys wife were completely hypnotised by each other. I'd never felt such extreme chemistry before. It was clear both of us wanted to grab each other and fuck right there and then. The whole weekend was torture for both of us.

The other time was at a friend's children's party. In walked the parents of one of the kids and exactly the same thing happened with the woman and me. Just bizarre sitting in amongst kids and trying not to look at each other like we want to tear each other's clothes off.

A weird and totally intoxicating experience. I'm hoping I find it again now I'm single

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, it usually happens on trains. I always fall in lust on trains. I don't know why.

Amen brother! - I regularly experience this curious phenomenon also.

Answers on a post card please anyone? "

I think it's a bit of both with a dash of time to allow your fantasies to develop.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"A couple of times. Once or twice I've wished I hadn't acted on it as it didn't work out how I would have liked. Fun at the time tho "

What were your expectations? Remember the fun bits and learn from the rest.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yep. Never believed in it before but I knew in that instant, before he even turned around, that I had to have him. And I did. Many times *laughs*

Still do, in fact

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ive never not shagged someone ive fallen in lust with"

That surprises me. What has stopped you?

You have and have had a more colourful and adventurous sex life than I have so I would have thought acting on lust would be something you would do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wow, electricity thing ... twice.

Once in the local library, I did nothing. Huge regret.

The second time in a pub/club, which I did act on, just about the only time I've done that. She had a boyfriend and lived 150 miles away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only once has it happened in an entitrely inappropriate setting (work meeting) I left not sure how I’d held it together feeling like I’d been hit by a truck but our paths crossed again sometime later and my patience was rewarded

I’d love to find that feeling again

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes to the attraction, not always to the naked

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yep just once about 10yrs ago. If things were different then not sure where we would of ended up. But to this day we are very close and speak everyday. "

That sounds like a win to me.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ive never not shagged someone ive fallen in lust with

That surprises me. What has stopped you?

You have and have had a more colourful and adventurous sex life than I have so I would have thought acting on lust would be something you would do.

Double negative, ‘splits, they’ve always shagged someone they’ve fallen in lust with.

As you should

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes loads"

More than 10?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes a few times

But the one I lust after most doesn't want me

You have my sympathy and empathy.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, the urge to kiss the other person was very strong but given the 4 of us had just met it was a case of curb one's desire..

Also had it many years ago when just one shared look was enough, knew we would sleep with each other and it was to be honest a strange but totally captivating moment.. "

Captivating is exactly the right word for this.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Oh yes. It was brilliant both our colleagues noticed it and played matchmaker. Didn’t last long but was totally worth it.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes .... "

It's all in the ellipsis.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Absolutely! I didn't act on it though

Why not? What was the situation?

I sometimes feel a pull towards men based on nothing more than vicinity. I say it's pheromones but that gets disputed.

A weird and totally intoxicating experience. I'm hoping I find it again now I'm single "

Intoxicating torture... I like it.

I really don't know why you're single.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Ive never not shagged someone ive fallen in lust with

That surprises me. What has stopped you?

You have and have had a more colourful and adventurous sex life than I have so I would have thought acting on lust would be something you would do.

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have all ways shagged them not have not

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yep. Never believed in it before but I knew in that instant, before he even turned around, that I had to have him. And I did. Many times *laughs*

Still do, in fact

Lucky you! Keep it up.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The wow, electricity thing ... twice.

Once in the local library, I did nothing. Huge regret.

The second time in a pub/club, which I did act on, just about the only time I've done that. She had a boyfriend and lived 150 miles away."

I think they might have cut up your library card if you'd acted on it in the library.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ive never not shagged someone ive fallen in lust with

That surprises me. What has stopped you?

You have and have had a more colourful and adventurous sex life than I have so I would have thought acting on lust would be something you would do.

Double negative, ‘splits, they’ve always shagged someone they’ve fallen in lust with.

As you should

I missed the not! Doh!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ive never not shagged someone ive fallen in lust with

That surprises me. What has stopped you?

You have and have had a more colourful and adventurous sex life than I have so I would have thought acting on lust would be something you would do.

have all ways shagged them not have not"

Reading and typing too fast.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh yes. It was brilliant both our colleagues noticed it and played matchmaker. Didn’t last long but was totally worth it. "

I have done that with people, in the past. I wouldn't do it now as I got the blame when it didn't work out.

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

Instant attraction? Yes innumerable times.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Instant attraction? Yes innumerable times. "

Hyperbole or really so many that it's impossible to count? How do you get through the day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! I didn't act on it though

Why not? What was the situation?

I sometimes feel a pull towards men based on nothing more than vicinity. I say it's pheromones but that gets disputed.

A weird and totally intoxicating experience. I'm hoping I find it again now I'm single

Intoxicating torture... I like it.

I really don't know why you're single.

That's very sweet of you op. Flattery will get you everywhere. And on a site like this you know that, by "everywhere", I mean EVERYWHERE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a few times. I remember meeting my mr and that moment I looked into his eyes I wanted him. X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, quite a few times. That frisson of heady lust combined with the feeling of need is such a thrill. And *that* look where you feel both incredibly desirable and desired. If all upcoming meets have it, I'll be bloody chuffed.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes.... with the ones I see.... that’s why I meet them.... instant attraction

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Absolutely! I didn't act on it though

Why not? What was the situation?

I sometimes feel a pull towards men based on nothing more than vicinity. I say it's pheromones but that gets disputed.

A weird and totally intoxicating experience. I'm hoping I find it again now I'm single

Intoxicating torture... I like it.

I really don't know why you're single.

That's very sweet of you op. Flattery will get you everywhere. And on a site like this you know that, by "everywhere", I mean EVERYWHERE

It gets *me* very little. I've been begging for a meet.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, a few times. I remember meeting my mr and that moment I looked into his eyes I wanted him. X "

Another one for the eyes. I'm glad you got him.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, quite a few times. That frisson of heady lust combined with the feeling of need is such a thrill. And *that* look where you feel both incredibly desirable and desired. If all upcoming meets have it, I'll be bloody chuffed."

I suspect you'll be more than chuffed. Get your chuffer ready... incoming!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On several occasions but was always attached when it happened

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes.... with the ones I see.... that’s why I meet them.... instant attraction

I think it's a tad trickier with the ones one doesn't see.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"On several occasions but was always attached when it happened

Did you enjoy the thrill of the feeling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yeah happened x

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yeah happened x"

Nakedness and all?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Yes. That instant oomph. The spark. Wonderful on the rare occasions it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy I was meeting November to January. First meet was supposed to be a social in Starbucks but as soon as I got in his car and saw him in the flesh I wanted to leap on him. Sacked off Starbucks and went to straight to my house, put the 80's music channel on the telly and had him on his knees eating me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guy I was meeting November to January. First meet was supposed to be a social in Starbucks but as soon as I got in his car and saw him in the flesh I wanted to leap on him. Sacked off Starbucks and went to straight to my house, put the 80's music channel on the telly and had him on his knees eating me out. "

#truelove

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Yes, the urge to kiss the other person was very strong but given the 4 of us had just met it was a case of curb one's desire..

Also had it many years ago when just one shared look was enough, knew we would sleep with each other and it was to be honest a strange but totally captivating moment..

Captivating is exactly the right word for this.

It's like no other feeling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course!,and more than once..met one lady a couple of years ago for a chat,she assured me nothing would happen!...but we ended up naked,and still see each other once a month(down to geography),and there is no sign of the attraction waning!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yes, I have.

The pure sexual attraction was palpable, I've never felt anything like it.

Everyone around us could sense it too.

Alas I was too timid/stupid to realise what was going on and never acted on the desire.

I've never felt that heat since.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Yes absolutely

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I dont think Ive ever met someone and thought I have to have you. Ive had instant attraction but walked away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#truelove

We cuddled and kissed a lot too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it was my first fan meet, but it was carefully picked and took a while to come upon the right person.

*no pun intended*

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes. That instant oomph. The spark. Wonderful on the rare occasions it happens. "

They stick in the memory, don't they?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

And no fast food either.

I hope the slow burn is going well.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Of course!,and more than once..met one lady a couple of years ago for a chat,she assured me nothing would happen!...but we ended up naked,and still see each other once a month(down to geography),and there is no sign of the attraction waning!

Rocking each others' boats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. When you look into each other's eyes and you just know, then when you find out it's a mutual feeling, fantastic.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yes, I have.

The pure sexual attraction was palpable, I've never felt anything like it.

Everyone around us could sense it too.

Alas I was too timid/stupid to realise what was going on and never acted on the desire.

I've never felt that heat since."

Hopefully, you'll recognise palpable again.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes absolutely

That sounds like there was follow-through.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I dont think Ive ever met someone and thought I have to have you. Ive had instant attraction but walked away

Was there no pull?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, it was my first fan meet, but it was carefully picked and took a while to come upon the right person.

*no pun intended*

Were you the fan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I was instantly attracted to someone just from chatting to her and speaking to her on the phone

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Absolutely. When you look into each other's eyes and you just know, then when you find out it's a mutual feeling, fantastic."

I think it must be there to ensure we continue the species.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yep I was instantly attracted to someone just from chatting to her and speaking to her on the phone

It's as good as any other way.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Was in a night spot at the top of my street and a guy came behind me and whispered in my ear "be gentle with me"

I turned round and bang we where shagging within 3 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally.. met a lad from here in the airport and the eye contact alone had me wanting to strip him down then and there

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I dont think Ive ever met someone and thought I have to have you. Ive had instant attraction but walked away

Was there no pull?

Couldnt of been. But there has been occasions when mths/years later Ive thought to myself why didnt I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s been a couple of occasions where I’ve had that instant attraction. And, I’ve always taken the opportunity to let them know. Either by a good snog or you just have to give that look.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Was in a night spot at the top of my street and a guy came behind me and whispered in my ear "be gentle with me"

I turned round and bang we where shagging within 3 minutes

That is fast! I hope they put up a plaque.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Totally.. met a lad from here in the airport and the eye contact alone had me wanting to strip him down then and there

Security full body search?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think Ive ever met someone and thought I have to have you. Ive had instant attraction but walked away

Was there no pull?

Couldnt of been. But there has been occasions when mths/years later Ive thought to myself why didnt I.

Certainly in my own experience the thing we're talking about here is like a tractor beam sucking you in. In both situations I described it took a lot of effort for me not to act on it

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"There’s been a couple of occasions where I’ve had that instant attraction. And, I’ve always taken the opportunity to let them know. Either by a good snog or you just have to give that look.

Welcome back!

You have very dreamy eyes so I'm sure that look works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have but it’s a very rare thing with me. I need a slow build up to attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rocking each others' boats.

"
....floated my boat,haven't seen dry land since!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant attractions or instant lust x

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Yes absolutely

That sounds like there was follow-through.

Haha yes there was... and it was good!!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have but it’s a very rare thing with me. I need a slow build up to attraction. "

Do you think you tune out the 'instant messaging' of attraction?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Instant attractions or instant lust x"

Can you lust without attraction?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

This thread is bringing back some great memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have but it’s a very rare thing with me. I need a slow build up to attraction.

Do you think you tune out the 'instant messaging' of attraction?

I can’t be into someone just by the way they look. I can fancy someone to look at but I need much more to feel a deeper attraction.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Yes..

A strong connection which was totally unexpected but felt so right and natural

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

"Instant attraction? Yes innumerable times.

Hyperbole or really so many that it's impossible to count? How do you get through the day?

Innumerable in the sense that I haven't kept count

but attraction is nothing special is it? Or desire, presumably what drives a lot of swingers to be just that. Love at first sight, just once, and I expect that to remain just once. But list at first sight, or attraction or desire, a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant attraction....yes, often.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Yep I was instantly attracted to someone just from chatting to her and speaking to her on the phone

Yes I get this absolutely

with phase 2 be just the same

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have felt an instant attraction and connection with somebody a few times in my life.

To me it's based on more than just how they look for me it's kind of almost their aura, if that is a way to describe it.

I have on occasion gone with it, with a very positive outcome.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"This thread is bringing back some great memories"

Glad to be of service.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have but it’s a very rare thing with me. I need a slow build up to attraction.

Do you think you tune out the 'instant messaging' of attraction?

I can’t be into someone just by the way they look. I can fancy someone to look at but I need much more to feel a deeper attraction. "

I'm not sure it's about being into the person or even how they look. I have felt that pull to people I would not necessarily think of as fanciable. Except on them I want to touch and rub my bits against them.

The same features on someone else might leave me cold and I might not even like them as people. Which is why I think it's pheromones.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes..

A strong connection which was totally unexpected but felt so right and natural

Natural. Another good word for this. I'll have a whole lexicon soon.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have felt an instant attraction and connection with somebody a few times in my life.

To me it's based on more than just how they look for me it's kind of almost their aura, if that is a way to describe it.

I have on occasion gone with it, with a very positive outcome."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recal the moment I opened a message from a man (who I was admiring from afar in the forums) and felt an instant rush of lusty adrenaline just from staring at the twinkly eyes & cheeky smile that was grinning back up at me...

Luckily for me it was recieprocal, we seized an opportunity and 4 years later I still class him as my bestest male fab friend, whether we’re on here or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ! Instant crush #youknowwhoyouare

#daftpunk feat #casablanca

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

Yes twice, married both of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened twice from fab.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I recal the moment I opened a message from a man (who I was admiring from afar in the forums) and felt an instant rush of lusty adrenaline just from staring at the twinkly eyes & cheeky smile that was grinning back up at me...

Luckily for me it was recieprocal, we seized an opportunity and 4 years later I still class him as my bestest male fab friend, whether we’re on here or not.

I'd hazard a guess.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

Yes twice, married both of them

You'd better stop looking at people then.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's happened twice from fab. "

That's good going. Enjoy the memories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The wow, electricity thing ... twice.

Once in the local library, I did nothing. Huge regret.

The second time in a pub/club, which I did act on, just about the only time I've done that. She had a boyfriend and lived 150 miles away.

I think they might have cut up your library card if you'd acted on it in the library.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have but it’s a very rare thing with me. I need a slow build up to attraction.

Do you think you tune out the 'instant messaging' of attraction?

I can’t be into someone just by the way they look. I can fancy someone to look at but I need much more to feel a deeper attraction.

The same features on someone else might leave me cold and I might not even like them as people. Which is why I think it's pheromones.

I’ve felt it once with a guy on fab. Chatting to him I was instantly hooked. I went gooey the moment we met. I was shy and girly. Like I said, I rarely feel it with anyone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yes. Definitely lust tho and once in my lifetime only.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Yes ! Instant crush #youknowwhoyouare

#daftpunk feat #casablanca "

Right. I have to ask. Is it me ? Eh ? Is it ?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have but it’s a very rare thing with me. I need a slow build up to attraction.

Do you think you tune out the 'instant messaging' of attraction?

I can’t be into someone just by the way they look. I can fancy someone to look at but I need much more to feel a deeper attraction.

The same features on someone else might leave me cold and I might not even like them as people. Which is why I think it's pheromones.

I’ve felt it once with a guy on fab. Chatting to him I was instantly hooked. I went gooey the moment we met. I was shy and girly. Like I said, I rarely feel it with anyone."

I'm adding hooked and gooey to the lexicon on this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ! Instant crush #youknowwhoyouare

#daftpunk feat #casablanca

Right. I have to ask. Is it me ? Eh ? Is it ?"

Pm me with a picture of your car and I'll tell you

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yes. Definitely lust tho and once in my lifetime only. "

Once is better than non-ce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it was my first fan meet, but it was carefully picked and took a while to come upon the right person.

*no pun intended*

Were you the fan?

Haha fab! damn thumbs

I was a fan though

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Yep I was instantly attracted to someone just from chatting to her and speaking to her on the phone

Yes I get this absolutely

will phase 2 be just the same

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Yep I was instantly attracted to someone just from chatting to her and speaking to her on the phone

I've had that too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep I was instantly attracted to someone just from chatting to her and speaking to her on the phone

I've had that too...

It must be like yawning... Me too!!

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By *milyjoWoman
over a year ago

newcastle

Yep sure have !!

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By *ERRYA1Man
over a year ago

Bicester

Absolutely. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many times.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Too many times...

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

Definitely. The moment you get that eye contact is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many times... "

Too many times!! Hey wait a minute! And there was me thinking we had something special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I can remember. I see faces and think Mmmm he s sexy, but I need verbals to get my juices flowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that I can remember. I see faces and think Mmmm he s sexy, but I need verbals to get my juices flowing."

I just need some sexy toes (Whoarrrr))

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Alas yes. We met, was instant chemistry. Ended up having an affair as the other woman for two and a half years (guilt ate me up, won't see cheaters now).

When my mates from that time have the occasional reunion, I look at him and think 'what was I thinking?' but that indescribable spark is still there.

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By *..TheCurvyPetrolHead...Woman
over a year ago

St Helens

I did experience it a Party Club Night from Fab. I was dancing and a bloke approached the dance floor. He was hot and he was looking at me. Checked to see if other females were around. Nope. So he was looking at me. Instant attraction. I must admit my mind was elsewhere that night and I did not act it on there. Should have done but didn't.

I left later that night and got in car. Then thought "pull yourself together; go back in and get his fab name or number". So I did. Then we met two days later for a play meet. Was quite hot.

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Happened when I was at a dinner party. She was coming out of the bathroom we looked at each, I pulled her towards me and we started kissing. It was pure animal magnetism and if we weren’t going to be missed we would have ripped each other’s clothes of there and then and almost did. It probably started at the table when we were introduced and she new I’d follow when she went to the bathroom, especially when she look at me with those, I want you to fuck me eyes. The rest of the night was torture, as we weren’t able to continue but more than made up for it on the following nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we met a gorgeous lady last year and it was very clear all three of us were instantly in lust.

The nakedness that followed was a thing of beauty

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Have you ever experienced instant attraction?

I was thinking about how I met a lovely Fab friend at a social many years ago and before we even said hello I knew we would end up naked.

Diamondsmiles's thread about love reminded me of the lusts I fallen into.

Yes, I have.

The pure sexual attraction was palpable, I've never felt anything like it.

Everyone around us could sense it too.

Alas I was too timid/stupid to realise what was going on and never acted on the desire.

I've never felt that heat since.

Hopefully, you'll recognise palpable again.

I live in hope......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes ! Instant crush #youknowwhoyouare

#daftpunk feat #casablanca

Right. I have to ask. Is it me ? Eh ? Is it ?

Pm me with a picture of your car and I'll tell you "

Never got it

I wanted confirmation that you were the type of woman to drive a white DS5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesssss, I first met him 3 years ago and Im still into him. Admittadly he has the smallest cock I know but he has taught me that size really doesn't matter as soon as I see him I go gooey eyed. It's purely sex based as he annoys me any other time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instant attractions or instant lust x

Can you lust without attraction?

If I am horny enough yes x

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Three really memorable times that I will cherish and remember forever:-

One in Italy that led to an 18 month lover affair.

A bar in Paris - 6 months of bliss.

An English girl in Puerto Banus- a two year live affair.

Fond memories and I miss them all.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yesssss, I first met him 3 years ago and Im still into him. Admittadly he has the smallest cock I know but he has taught me that size really doesn't matter as soon as I see him I go gooey eyed. It's purely sex based as he annoys me any other time.

That sounds pretty awesome. One of the things I like about the instant attraction thing is that it can work out even when they are what you would normally reject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. It has to be instant for me or I'm not getting naked with someone.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes!

Although we'd chatted for a very long time before meeting.

I knew we'd get on, but I wasn't prepared for the actual physical effect meeting him the very first time would have on me... And still does.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes!

Although we'd chatted for a very long time before meeting.

I knew we'd get on, but I wasn't prepared for the actual physical effect meeting him the very first time would have on me... And still does.

Do you think the very long chats primed you? Although, I suppose that could also work the other way and you could be profoundly disappointed.

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By *ercymallowMan
over a year ago

Belfast / Dublin

Only ever once... where I had to do anything I could possibly do.

Ofcourse... got shattered to pieces and danced on like a piece of bubble wrap.

.... never even got to kiss her

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Yes.... with the ones I see.... that’s why I meet them.... instant attraction

I think it's a tad trickier with the ones one doesn't see.

Lol true!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Only ever once... where I had to do anything I could possibly do.

Ofcourse... got shattered to pieces and danced on like a piece of bubble wrap.

.... never even got to kiss her

It's not always a happy end. No regrets.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Yes!

Although we'd chatted for a very long time before meeting.

I knew we'd get on, but I wasn't prepared for the actual physical effect meeting him the very first time would have on me... And still does.

Do you think the very long chats primed you? Although, I suppose that could also work the other way and you could be profoundly disappointed.

That's always the worry.

Yes, we'd established a great friendship, and I knew there was an attraction.

But then it could all be a complete let down, the person turns out nothing like you'd mentally built them upto be. I have also experienced that, met someone, looked at them, and blank... Nothing!

Meeting someone who, literally takes your breath away, makes your heart race and head spin instantly... It's a rare thing!

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

It's happened a couple of times. Hasn't always ended well but fun while it lasted

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes!

Although we'd chatted for a very long time before meeting.

I knew we'd get on, but I wasn't prepared for the actual physical effect meeting him the very first time would have on me... And still does.

Do you think the very long chats primed you? Although, I suppose that could also work the other way and you could be profoundly disappointed.

That's always the worry.

Yes, we'd established a great friendship, and I knew there was an attraction.

But then it could all be a complete let down, the person turns out nothing like you'd mentally built them upto be. I have also experienced that, met someone, looked at them, and blank... Nothing!

Meeting someone who, literally takes your breath away, makes your heart race and head spin instantly... It's a rare thing!

I'll say it again, pheromones.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It's happened a couple of times. Hasn't always ended well but fun while it lasted"

Nothing ventured...

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By *wizzlenipsMan
over a year ago

Newport

"It's happened a couple of times. Hasn't always ended well but fun while it lasted

Nothing ventured..."

Absolutely! Might have regrets at how it ended up but none at giving it a go.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Yes, Mrs FGoS, had my loins stirring before even speaking to her. Mores the point, knew she was the one for me, 33 years ago

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes, Mrs FGoS, had my loins stirring before even speaking to her. Mores the point, knew she was the one for me, 33 years ago

And still going strong!

A perfect way to end the thread. Thank you.

And thank you all. I've had a lovely vicarious pleasure in your stories.

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