FabSwingers.com forum: A question

By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

For those that have been in love more than once how long does it take you to fall in love

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s been different every time.

From days to months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It can take minutes, or sometimes an eternity.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Been different each time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I question now whether I actually loved my ex husband

Saying that , I’ve been in love twice - one took only a couple of days , the other took a couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those that have been in love more than once how long does it take you to fall in love"

On the 2nd weekend I spent with someone was the last time

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By *iamondsmiles. OP Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I question now whether I actually loved my ex husband

Saying that , I’ve been in love twice - one took only a couple of days , the other took a couple of months "
i didnt love mine. I was very fond of him

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

About a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I question now whether I actually loved my ex husband

Saying that , I’ve been in love twice - one took only a couple of days , the other took a couple of months "

I question whether my ex was ever in love with me. I was in love with her. But always kinda knew she'd leave.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

With one person it took years before we realised we loved each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No set time it can take minutes hours days or months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those that have been in love more than once how long does it take you to fall in love"

It's 6mins 52 seconds.

6mins 51 if she has the girls on show.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"For those that have been in love more than once how long does it take you to fall in love

It's 6mins 52 seconds.

6mins 51 if she has the girls on show. "

I have definitely fallen in lust faster than that, and he didn't even have to wave his cock around.

I'll start another thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust a few times

Love 3 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have definitely fallen in lust faster than that, and he didn't even have to wave his cock around.

I'll start another thread."

Didn't have too...

But he did anyways?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two months for my first ever boyfriend (and longest relationship).

My last (and second longest relationship) a fair bit longer.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It varies for me depending upon who I’ve presently been with.

Sometimes it grows from a tiny ember whilst other times it ignites suddenly like an explosion.

Ooooo I’m all poetic tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 2 were instant. Before that it took a while, but whether it's actual love so early is another question. In love maybe, but actual love, who knows.

I think deep seated love takes time and it never leaves you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a slow burn

Once the thunderclap. Instant. Heartstopping. Body shivering. Brain melting. Speechless, a mumbling wreck. Stomach tumbling. Nerve ends tingling.

But they don't feel the same...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love in an instant when I touched my neighbour's wife's hand while taking coffee out to friends. She felt the same and she became my 2nd wife.

I still love her totally despite being divorced for 20 years and we never speak.

Thankfully I am still friends with my 1st wife as we realised we met too young and were best mates not lovers.

So I guess I am saying I think we only ever love one person despite maybe marrying others.

Not sure I have answered the OP's question though ...

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

From the first eye contact to a few months, it’s never the same and never feels the same either

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

Keep love in your heart, a life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.

Oscar Wilde.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I question now whether I actually loved my ex husband

Saying that , I’ve been in love twice - one took only a couple of days , the other took a couple of months

I question whether my ex was ever in love with me. I was in love with her. But always kinda knew she'd leave. "

Ah welcome back handsome

Gut instinct x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The last 2 were instant. Before that it took a while, but whether it's actual love so early is another question. In love maybe, but actual love, who knows.

I think deep seated love takes time and it never leaves you"

I still love everyone I have ever truly loved, but as they were then. I don't like some of them now but my love for them means I would still be there if they really needed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still not sure I was in love with my husband.

I might be in love with my LTP, but I don't know for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The last 2 were instant. Before that it took a while, but whether it's actual love so early is another question. In love maybe, but actual love, who knows.

I think deep seated love takes time and it never leaves you

I still love everyone I have ever truly loved, but as they were then. I don't like some of them now but my love for them means I would still be there if they really needed me.

I agree totally

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I tend to feel like I could fall in love but then get over it quickly

I would like to know what it really feels like to be in love with someone

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

What is love?

surely love will have a different definition to each individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I fell in love, it took about 15 minutes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends what you mean by love. Romantic love is easy to fall in.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

As the Human League sang, It took seconds.

The first and only love Mrs FGoS happened when I set eyes on her, she still melts my heart when I see her and her smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 minutes if her pheromones makes my mouth watering

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I fall in love pretty fast if it's all systems go - I remember once for instance it was the third time of meeting. Once I was pretty sure before we even met!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Pretty quickly. First time a week, second time two weeks.

Big soft git really

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

The one girl I really fell deeply in love with all it took was that first kiss, we'd met a couple of weeks before Christmas 2007 through friends and everytime we'd been around each other I could just feel this burning chemistry between us, it was just in the air and every glance at each other gave me butterflies. Then on Christmas eve we were out with friends in a nightclub and at midnight when they did the countdown I just decided to be brave and strode up, pulled her close to me and kissed her, it was probably the most romantic moment of my life and I fell in love with her scarily hard instantly! I'm not sure I'll ever get to feel like that again, it took a long time to get over her when life/work circumstances broke us up 6 months later

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The one girl I really fell deeply in love with all it took was that first kiss, we'd met a couple of weeks before Christmas 2007 through friends and everytime we'd been around each other I could just feel this burning chemistry between us, it was just in the air and every glance at each other gave me butterflies. Then on Christmas eve we were out with friends in a nightclub and at midnight when they did the countdown I just decided to be brave and strode up, pulled her close to me and kissed her, it was probably the most romantic moment of my life and I fell in love with her scarily hard instantly! I'm not sure I'll ever get to feel like that again, it took a long time to get over her when life/work circumstances broke us up 6 months later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is love?

surely love will have a different definition to each individual."

You'll know it when you feel it. And it's super clear. So if you're unsure if you've felt it you haven't... not yet. Fingers crossed you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For those that have been in love more than once how long does it take you to fall in love"

Love takes ages, lust takes a second

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I’ve only been in love 2.5 times... the first time it was over a month... the second time was 2 weeks... and I fell deeply and more then anything I’ve ever known... and the 0.5... well no comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve only been in love 2.5 times... the first time it was over a month... the second time was 2 weeks... and I fell deeply and more then anything I’ve ever known... and the 0.5... well no comment!

Want to go for the other 0.5?

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Want to go for the other 0.5?

Mr Hine.... it’s like a ladies weight or age you do not discuss that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to go for the other 0.5?

Mr Hine.... it’s like a ladies weight or age you do not discuss that

Can't just leave you half hanging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s taken different times, depending on if I wanted it to happen. Sometimes you just can’t stop it happening despite your best efforts not to let it x

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's taken me longer to work out whether it's love or lust...

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"It's taken me longer to work out whether it's love or lust... "

Definitely that, but it can be between a few hours, to 9 months if I am falling.

I can fall out of love quickly too though.

I do also know pretty quickly whether its likely I could possibly fall for a person, or 100% never fall for them.

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