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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always believed there is a rule that if someone declines to reply to a message you should respectfully leave them alone and take it as a no thank you. Am I right? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Yep but mardy arses don't like it. Fuck em

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Yes

No reply means "no thanks, move along"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always believed there is a rule that if someone declines to reply to a message you should respectfully leave them alone and take it as a no thank you. Am I right? X"

People don't reply to messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allegedly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mardy arses don't like it if you reply and say no thankyou politely , you can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on whether they block delete or received so many messages you are near the bottom of an ever increasing list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules are meant to be broken, apparently.

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By *ancgent74Man
over a year ago

Denton, Manchester

I'd much prefer a quick "no thank you" if not interested. Its never a problem to know, after all not everyone is for everyone And at least everyone knows (why can't fab have a quick "sorry not interested" button on messages?)

Thankfully most do reply but I also know the massive amount of messages ladies get here (wifey has a single account too as well as our couples account). So a no reply could potentially mean overwhelmed and can't reply to everyone I may like.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Not always. Usually if I message somebody and they don't reply I don't bother again. There have been cases where another try was successful but I generally won't try again for a while if I do.

Sometimes women don't mean to not reply. Sometimes you just catch them at a bad time and/or they don't see your message or whatever.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Alas some of the ones you respond to with a 'no thanks' demand to know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, no reply is the less offensive way of saying no. No one likes rejection and rejecting isn't very pleasant either. The simple way around this is to politely stay silent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alas some of the ones you respond to with a 'no thanks' demand to know why "

The temerity of messaging someone twice. What a bunch of cunts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep but mardy arses don't like it. Fuck em "

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when I’ve politely declined it seems to be a green light to then be verbally abused for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alas some of the ones you respond to with a 'no thanks' demand to know why "

If they 'demand' to know why that's just wrong, I agree.

I see no harm in them asking why. The reason may be fixable. Too far away- he might be happy to travel. No face pic- he could send one. Can't accommodate - he could further explain why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always believed there is a rule that if someone declines to reply to a message you should respectfully leave them alone and take it as a no thank you. Am I right? X"
no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not always. Usually if I message somebody and they don't reply I don't bother again. There have been cases where another try was successful but I generally won't try again for a while if I do.

Sometimes women don't mean to not reply. Sometimes you just catch them at a bad time and/or they don't see your message or whatever.

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