FabSwingers.com forum: Do you HAVE to see a photo of someone's genitals before you meet them?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Going off TigerL!ly's thread...

I don't and I quite appreciate the element of surprise.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No i dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t.

But I don’t mind if I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off TigerL!ly's thread...

I don't and I quite appreciate the element of surprise. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No I don’t.

But I don’t mind if I do!"

I agree with you on that! I find a photo from someone I fancy and planning on meeting a lot more... interesting than splatterings of random cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it have to be the genitals of the person you're planning to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t, have had meets where it’s been a nice surprise x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it have to be the genitals of the person you're planning to meet?"

Erm. Yes?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No I don't however it can be nice to see what you'll be getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, there was one guy who commented he had a thick cock. I’m super super tight so I asked to see it - yep, it’s thick as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it have to be the genitals of the person you're planning to meet?

Erm. Yes?

So I can't check mine to make sure they're clean and well trimmed? I'll have to shower unsighted then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but some insist on sending them

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

no, and I prefer if guys didn't send a pic of their genitals in the first message too lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but some insist on sending them

Hey! That wasn't before meeting.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I don't think I ever had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have to..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

No it's not a necessity - in fact thinking about it of all the people I've met I think only one I saw their genitals beforehand

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

I might sometimes want to see just one as I'm a bit particular. Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but some insist on sending them

Hey! That wasn't before meeting. "

No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't HAVE to do anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but some insist on sending them

Hey! That wasn't before meeting.

No? "

Nooooo.

Aside from your birthday present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to inspect pussies before getting lost in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

Stop shouting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not send one, I’m very proud of him but I don’t feel he’s too photogenic and tend to depend on my devilish good looking face pics and great chat to secure the meet.

If a lady sent me a pic of her’s I’d be perturbed. I’m not sure what you’d say, apparently the normal reply to a bloke of telling them it’s massive isn’t appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

Oooh! Hello

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ewwww....no, I’d rather not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do x but only as i’m quite particular in what i like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but some insist on sending them

Hey! That wasn't before meeting.

No?

Nooooo.

Aside from your birthday present. "

Exactly

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By *anillaBiFatFemale40Woman
over a year ago

Best Western Hotel

For me, my PERSONAL preference is

Yes.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yes, because if they are too big it isn't going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No but some insist on sending them

Hey! That wasn't before meeting.

No?

Nooooo.

Aside from your birthday present.

Exactly "

Did you complain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

Stop shouting "

Correct but inflection is hard to get across by text without the use of bold or italics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

Oooh! Hello

Bonjour

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but some insist on sending them

Hey! That wasn't before meeting.

No?

Nooooo.

Aside from your birthday present.

Exactly

Did you complain? "

Not at all

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep i must be one of the few who likes to see cock pic before meet ...i don't want a surprise i want to know that ill be getting what i want...oh my i must be so shallow ..

and those that say a cock is a cock or once you've seen one you've seen them all

really ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

But

Sounds like something a woman would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

What kind of all male calls himself Cute

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

But

Sounds like something a woman would say

In your opinion

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

What kind of all male calls himself Cute

#potkettlebanana

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that after reading quite a few (understatement) couples and single womens profiles far more do than don't.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't *have* to - apart from a face pic (and even that's not a strict rule) there is nothing I have to do or see before meeting a person apart from talking to them a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

What kind of all male calls himself Cute

#potkettlebanana

Tea doesn’t go with Banana, are you mad or are you mad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

But

Sounds like something a woman would say

In your opinion"

I’m the only one that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. One or 2 are more than enough

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I do

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Does it have to be the genitals of the person you're planning to meet?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do"

Interesting

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I do

Interesting

Blimey it sounded like I was marrying someone then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do

Interesting

Blimey it sounded like I was marrying someone then

Yes

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By *anillaBiFatFemale40Woman
over a year ago

Best Western Hotel

"yep i must be one of the few who likes to see cock pic before meet ...i don't want a surprise i want to know that ill be getting what i want...oh my i must be so shallow ..

and those that say a cock is a cock or once you've seen one you've seen them all

really ??? "

Totally agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Just shows that men really do read profiles as C is def the male half

But sounds like something a woman would say

I can definitely vouch he's all male!

You big flirt

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nope. I'm not meeting their cock first, I'm meeting them so a face pic us suffice

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By *othianGuy41Man
over a year ago

Livingston

No but one girl sent me a picture of a cheese & ham toasty with mayonnaise, saying “does this remind you of anything?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No and tbh it's a nice suprise when you find profiles without them.

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By *ast_And_CuriousMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Not such a nice surprise for you women if the guy has a micropenis. A friend of mine learned that lesson dating a guy she thought was great til they went to bed and she was gutted at the size of his cock.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

If I'm meeting a man it's a YES.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get. Unless you get sent a preview pic. In which case you do.

Personally, it's not a stipulation or something that I'd ever request of anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. When I meet someone I leave as little to chance as possible. It's my fantasy fun time and I want to minimise disappointment. Surprises aren't always nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessary..x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d not send one, I’m very proud of him but I don’t feel he’s too photogenic and tend to depend on my devilish good looking face pics and great chat to secure the meet.

If a lady sent me a pic of her’s I’d be perturbed. I’m not sure what you’d say, apparently the normal reply to a bloke of telling them it’s massive isn’t appropriate. "

It might be a big hole lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but we don't mind seeing the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to send any. After all we know what they are and seen one seen them all lol

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Not essential.. I'd like an idea of what the ladies body is like though, clothed is fine, or better still in lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don't have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It's nice if they give me a heads up if they are well endowed though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the basis of an occasion where I didn’t see a pic and had the unexpected surprise of a micro penis yes I am happier if I have seen that there is one and it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good god no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m more about face and body shots tbh. If a cock pic is sent in the first msg or is the only pics on profile it’s a no go. Nice to see a sneak peak before a meet but just one is all that’s needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to ask for one but moving to a real world situation I'm slightly puppy eyes over a guy and have no idea what his penis is like!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't HAVE to see one before I meet someone but I prefer it tbh. I have asked before because like a few ladies have said I'd be really disappointed if he had a small cock, or a skinny cock, or a tapered cock....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

NO. I prefer the surprise. Plus, some photos are taken from flattering angles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't.

I have been asked by women though, blocked on a few occasions as I can only imagine it wasn't big enough, doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did see a guy's cock pic before a meet once and the meet was a disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don’t have to see a photo first.

Can generally get an idea from pics on profile, however, if there isn’t any that show or at least a suggestion of an outline then I’m always a little cautious when heading down below - just in case I need help locating it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have to, but i would prefer to see it than not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, it like knowing what you have already got for Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. Im happy to see before I meet them but also appreciate the element of surprise, like opening a present, slowly removing the wrapping

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I prefer to see it in advance, I don't have to, but given a straight choice of two guys with good profiles and chat, and one has an attractive dick pic and one hasn't... I'll go for the one with the dick pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't HAVE to do anything

I take it it’s the woman half’s opinion, women don’t do anything during sex

Then you are meeting the wrong women

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. No one likes a cone penis.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Yes. No one likes a cone penis. "

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"No I don't.

I have been asked by women though, blocked on a few occasions as I can only imagine it wasn't big enough, doesn't bother me."

I was blocked recently because she didn’t believe the pics I sent her were of my cock! I took that as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, although once, I coulda done with a bit of warning lol... He was fecking huge and I had no idea until he was naked in my room, I only met him once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally like to.x

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I've not had a cock pic for bloody ages... I'm having to resort to the Male Hotpics

No though, I don't need to see pre meet, I like a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off TigerL!ly's thread...

I don't and I quite appreciate the element of surprise. "

No why ruin the surprise about how sexy there naughty bits are

Obviously ladies ass and chest are on showish so something has to be kept

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

No. I prefer a surprise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I've always enjoyed window shopping before I make a purchase. So yes when it comes to cocks I like a good look ??

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By *anillaBiFatFemale40Woman
over a year ago

Best Western Hotel

Bigger, the better.

Nothing less than 7 inchs for me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No but it's helpful as I don't find all cocks attractive enough to be in my mouth for long periods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES I have to

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"No but some insist on sending them

In the post in a jiffy bag... Awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not important to us.

Seeing their smile is a dealbreaker though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I don’t ask to see before I meet them, I much prefer to see a face picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have to at all no. But I am quite a pervert and like to look if Im offered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have to at all no. But I am quite a pervert and like to look if Im offered.

Oh if it happens to appear in any of my mailboxes who am I to refuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't complain if I was inboxed pics etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going off TigerL!ly's thread...

I don't and I quite appreciate the element of surprise. "

No. That's the reward to working towards a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have to at all no. But I am quite a pervert and like to look if Im offered.

Oh if it happens to appear in any of my mailboxes who am I to refuse?

Quite. We're such polite ladies after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

It's a bit like seeing the presents before Christmas...

But who likes to wait till Christmas anyway

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

If I fancy having sex with them then knowing that they have a pleasing cock is important. I don’t have to see it right away but I’ll engineer a mutual video wank beforehand to get a good look.

This comes with experience. I’ve been ‘surprised’ with small ones, forever limp ones and very dodgy looking ones. One guy who I met had lots of white obvious but tiny lumps on his cock. I got down there and couldn’t hide my distaste. It was an awkward exit and I don’t blame him for never speaking to me again.

Terribly shallow but I’m not here to have shit sex.

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