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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you someone you are attracted to but shouldn't be ?

For as long as I can remember I have been sexually attracted to my husband's best friend. We have all been friends since our collage days. He has from time to time past comments and made me feel like he feels the same. Now nothing had ever happened between us except a kiss a very long time ago. We were both d*unk. Just having him around gets me so wet and aroused. I've got myself off so many times imagining what it would be like to feel this body on mine. Problem is these days I feel like seeing could it go further but at the same time don't want to act on it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. A friend in our group told me that he's fancied me for over 10 years. I acknowledged that I have fancied him too. Nothing has or can happen.

It happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's the same fella who fixed your laptop you'll be in like Flynn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it's the same fella who fixed your laptop you'll be in like Flynn"

It is and as far as I know he has no idea about fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you not think that part of the sexual attraction at least is because he’s ‘forbidden fruit’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago I used to have a thing for one of my OH’s friends, we used to chat / flirt at parties and once had a d*unken kiss.

We both made a decision not to take it any further and I’m really glad we didn’t. Not only would the fallout have been hideous I don’t believe it would have gone anywhere between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and the feeling was mutual but I'm not sure if it is anymore. We need to stay away from each other.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Yes, this happened to me before. It didn’t end well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you someone you are attracted to but shouldn't be ?

For as long as I can remember I have been sexually attracted to my husband's best friend. We have all been friends since our collage days. He has from time to time past comments and made me feel like he feels the same. Now nothing had ever happened between us except a kiss a very long time ago. We were both d*unk. Just having him around gets me so wet and aroused. I've got myself off so many times imagining what it would be like to feel this body on mine. Problem is these days I feel like seeing could it go further but at the same time don't want to act on it. "
omg you're bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called adulting rather than adultery!

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

One of my ex bosses wife's made a pass, dam attractive, incredibly sexy...so could of but......

I value my legs and life....., nope never no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But it would never have been something I would have acted on. It would have caused a lot of hurt, if discovered. There are plenty of others for me to have sex with, without needing to cause damage to those I care deeply about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body would be crying yes but my brain would be saying no. Sometimes best kept as an almost ready to boil over delicious temptation than be dissapointed by the inevitable.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I suppose that this is likely the best and indeed, most appropriate place to admit my own guilt as inferred in this thread:

I am really attracted to my Dyson Vacuum cleaner.....

Eight cyclone suction power(!!!)

I’m getting an erection now.....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I suppose that this is likely the best and indeed, most appropriate place to admit my own guilt as inferred in this thread:

I am really attracted to my Dyson Vacuum cleaner.....

Eight cyclone suction power(!!!)

I’m getting an erection now.....

"

You'll regret it and never be able to look at it the same way again.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…


"I suppose that this is likely the best and indeed, most appropriate place to admit my own guilt as inferred in this thread:

I am really attracted to my Dyson Vacuum cleaner.....

Eight cyclone suction power(!!!)

I’m getting an erection now.....

You'll regret it and never be able to look at it the same way again.

"

You’re quite right of course. Dyson’s were never intended to be violated in such a wholly vulgar manner.

......I’ll just therefore stick to shagging my Hoover instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And I think about them often.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"My body would be crying yes but my brain would be saying no. Sometimes best kept as an almost ready to boil over delicious temptation than be dissapointed by the inevitable. "

I now like the fact that the friend and I know about each other but never will have to find out big belly or his odd looking cock. We can maintain our fantasy versions of each other.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I fell in total lust with a boyfriends brother once...lots of palpitations when he was around, but I never acted on it. I wish I'd contacted him after the relationship ended but didn't know how.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you not think that part of the sexual attraction at least is because he’s ‘forbidden fruit’?

"

This is very true and your probably right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sooooo many men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sooooo many men"

Good way to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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How do women walk in such high heels

Yes I was looking at the heels, promise

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

sexual attraction only becomes complicated if you act on it inappropriately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

How do women walk in such high heels

Yes I was looking at the heels, promise "

Prarice my dear

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There's a family member I'm very attracted to, he's not immediate family, but its completely inappropriate.

I will not act on it, and I hope he doesn't feel it too.

It will be left as it is.

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