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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Unread messages xx I have no idea how I am supposed to answer them all and not upset anyone xx

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Slowly lol I can see why so many

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Delete the lot and start again

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Delete the lot and start again"

This. With tighter filters.

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By *oncupiscentTonyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Should have waited 10 minutes before hitting the post button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete

Im sure messager number one has given up on a reply by now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It actually makes me panic a bit xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've got lots of filters on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Delete the lot and start again

This. With tighter filters. "

Or just filters

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Delete the lot and start again

This. With tighter filters. "

Agreed! If you're filtering with age range, no newbies, must have pics etc it will cut down on the mail you get and make it more likely to be from people you might be interested in.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Delete and use filters

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It actually makes me panic a bit xx"

You need to keep up with your messages then you wouldn't be in this tizz. Delete the lot it's no big deal,it's just people wanting sex that's all.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Delete the lot and start again

This. With tighter filters. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just just chatting with my special fab friend about my angst over how to reply to a solitary undesired message... you've made me realise my lovely fab was correct. I may have overthunked a bit on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10:58! ...I should be in bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got 10:58.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really have got all those filters on but thank you anyway xx it's making me want to leave

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I really have got all those filters on but thank you anyway xx it's making me want to leave "

I just checked and there's no "only" after the age range you're looking for - which means anyone outside that range can message you - that's one filter you missed

It's honestly not worth panicking about or considering leaving for though - perhaps scan through them for any from people you chat to regularly respond to those then do a bulk delete and if you're worried about appearing rude (which you shouldn't be it's perfectly acceptable) put up a status saying "mailbox got full - bulk deleted"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really have got all those filters on but thank you anyway xx it's making me want to leave "

Block single men.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I really have got all those filters on but thank you anyway xx it's making me want to leave "

Well unless they are all off couples which is what your after stop complaining and delete and start.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really have got all those filters on but thank you anyway xx it's making me want to leave

I just checked and there's no "only" after the age range you're looking for - which means anyone outside that range can message you - that's one filter you missed

It's honestly not worth panicking about or considering leaving for though - perhaps scan through them for any from people you chat to regularly respond to those then do a bulk delete and if you're worried about appearing rude (which you shouldn't be it's perfectly acceptable) put up a status saying "mailbox got full - bulk deleted" "

Thank you, I've changed it xx at least someone is helpful. No wonder I don't want to meet couples xx

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

Hope you get it sorted, I can't really offer any advice other than to delete all messages and start again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope you get it sorted, I can't really offer any advice other than to delete all messages and start again."

Thank you xx I've tightened some filters and will delete all the messages xx

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK


"Hope you get it sorted, I can't really offer any advice other than to delete all messages and start again.

Thank you xx I've tightened some filters and will delete all the messages xx "

I do admit with my strange humour when I first saw the title I thought of time and then the year. Apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have hid your profile when you got to bout 20 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you manage to find someone you want to meet from all those messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should have hid your profile when you got to bout 20 x"

I shut my inbox down to deal with messages when I get a page full.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you manage to find someone you want to meet from all those messages?"

I can't xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide your profile when you get 5 messages. Chat to them. If they don't suit open your profile and chat to another 5. Not hard doll x

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