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TRURO MEET and BALANCE

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have messaged personally the organisers of the recent meet. Awaiting a response. The recent event is rather descriminatry against the single Male. I proposed that with couples that have met single males that wished to attend these couples would act as an assurance that they are sincere in there attendance and restore the balance that not all single males are inarticulate and those with some education or more are able to conduct themselves in a social environment. Moreover I would pay to attend let's say a tenner with proceeds going to a charity. As a single man there are also couples and single women that are also rather impolite too.I feel and I hope the administrators read this and stop discrimination and aim to liberalise rather than generalise with what is a fascist no tolerance . The next social should include single men attached to there sponsoring couple or single woman .. I expect a varied thank you for reading.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I saw the ad for the Truro social and it was for couples and women only.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Saying that, I’m not paying a bloody penny to attend and the organisers can organise it exactly how they want. If you’re so keen - organise your own.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Maybe it's nothing to do with people, regardless of gender, being impolite and they just wanted a couples and single female event.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You've misunderstood old chap! It's principle . Certainly not keen nor am I interested in organising .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"You've misunderstood old chap! It's principle . Certainly not keen nor am I interested in organising . "

Sorry! They can do what they want. Don’t sweat it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excuse me for being liberal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's worth playing devil's advocate here and see where this thread moves to..

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

The organisers of any event are free to choose whomever they want to invite. It is a private function and as such not open to just anyone.

If that doesn't include you then you are free to organise your own event or find a different one that you will be welcome to attend.

If you were hosting a party at your home would you allow just anyone to attend? Just because one couple/lady says a guy is OK doesn't mean everyone else there will think so.

Many clubs host evenings just for couples and single ladies because it is a very different vibe to when men are allowed too and their customers want them. I have heard of one club that only allows couples - no singles at all. Many couples don't want to meet single men and maybe this social event is specifically catering for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you ever want to go anywhere your not wanted OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But which single man would a couple choose if they had lots of favourites. How hurt would you be not to be the holy sponsored one. More petitions and angst mail would ensue. Easier not to think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love there to be a social down here where single men and couples can mix and socialise as that is my thing. The area very much lacks this sort of event.

However it is wrong to criticise or try to shame the organisers of the social in question over this subject. They organised the social they wanted and having talked to some couples who went It seemed it was very successful and appreciated by the people who went.

There is room for lots of different types of social. A club I go to has single men on Fridays and couples only on Saturdays as they cater to couples who want different things. A social is no different really.

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Hi, anyone meeting this weekend 18/8/18?

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By *icknsuck2Couple
over a year ago

Cornwall. St Ives Bay.

This post is a little silly,.

Why have ago about single males not being invite, if the couple arranging the social don't want single males there that up to them.

We moved from the midland to Cornwall and was lucky enough to have swinging clubs near by which we attended most weekends,

some of which only allowed couples and females to attend, As there is alot of couples that don't want single males there and wouldn't even go to a club night if single males are attending. So I'm sure you can imagine there clubs wouldn't be that busy.

We used to go to a mixed couple and 90% of the single males who attended just didn't know how to act in the club the expect it to be like in a porn movie and everybody wants there cock and it's a free for all.

So there is normally a club full on single males paying 50.00 to get in moan nobody does anything and couples don't chat.

So if I'm honest I'm in favour of social without single males you can't force yourself on getting an invite cus if you did you might just be sitting there getting ignored as your not wanted.

We are not having ago at single males just trying to explain why maybe they don't get an invite and don't be sour about it.

Maybe just set about sorting your own social out, you can then invite who you like.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Lots of single males invited me to attend the Truro social as a 'couple' with them. I get the same every month when they get tickets for secrets because they can't get in as a single male. Why would I do this with a random stranger?

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