FabSwingers.com forum: Privacy violation

By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

So Sunday milling around asda, got my groceries for the week. Home and popped it away. Checked my messages only to see a lad had followed me round asda.

Having taken pics of me and sent them to me via fab.......

Feeling a little violated. Rather he came and spoke than do that.

Anyone else had this happen to them?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, but your blue hair is quite distinctive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Sunday milling around asda, got my groceries for the week. Home and popped it away. Checked my messages only to see a lad had followed me round asda.

Having taken pics of me and sent them to me via fab.......

Feeling a little violated. Rather he came and spoke than do that.

Anyone else had this happen to them? "

No - and what has happened to you is outrageous, is he now reported on here?

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"No, but your blue hair is quite distinctive. "

Just because my hair is distinctive i dont feel it warrants pictures taken of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should report him really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What!!!!! I fucking hate low lifes like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's bang out of order and a little scary to be honest

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Fucking weirdo!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I once had a bloke send me ‘hope you enjoyed your kfc’ I felt like you, that I’d rather him just come say hello, turns out in my case he hadn’t been there, he had read a post in a Facebook group for my town. Was still weird though. The pics especially

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Shiiiiitttt.. I suddenly have the image of Norman Bates and knife noises going on...

That is not cool..

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Not illegal to take the photos in a public place but pushes the boundaries of privacy by actually contacting you on here with them, I would say that is more like stalking.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"No, but your blue hair is quite distinctive.

Just because my hair is distinctive i dont feel it warrants pictures taken of me"

It doesn’t. It’s probably why he recognised you.

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"You should report him really"

I did report to admin as soon as I saw it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not quite that bad but when I used to go to the pub alot I used to say if anyone wanted to come n say hi then that would be ok with me, but more often than not I would get messages once I was home, telling me they had seen me andI looked lovely. Wtf is that about?? If you aren't brave enough to speak to someone then how the hell would you deal with any more than that?!?

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"So Sunday milling around asda, got my groceries for the week. Home and popped it away. Checked my messages only to see a lad had followed me round asda.

Having taken pics of me and sent them to me via fab.......

Feeling a little violated. Rather he came and spoke than do that.

Anyone else had this happen to them? "

That is stalking and against the law.. a matter for the police!! Good luck sweetie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would report him as that is stalking and if he took the pictures with out your knowledge intentionally I think under the new stalking laws it may be considered a crime? It's worth checking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely unacceptable. What Moron!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

"No, but your blue hair is quite distinctive.

Just because my hair is distinctive i dont feel it warrants pictures taken of me"

Bang out of order that darlo stalker material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweet Jesus, that's shocking

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth

I've got someone who knows what car I drive and what street I live on and we've never met.

It's very disconcerting and worrying I have put it in the hands of the police to deal with.

FAB are good but they can only do so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s awful, when I first joined I was just chatting to one guy occasionally and he one day sent me a message saying he was sitting in his car at the top of my street as he’d passed me once and because I’d smiled at him he thought I wanted more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be more worried about the fact he could have followed me home and now knew where I lived. Freaky shit. I would tell the police

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

This kind of ties in with the showing your face on fab thread. What he did was creepy as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Sunday milling around asda, got my groceries for the week. Home and popped it away. Checked my messages only to see a lad had followed me round asda.

Having taken pics of me and sent them to me via fab.......

Feeling a little violated. Rather he came and spoke than do that.

Anyone else had this happen to them? "

Ive not had people take pictures but they have messaged me saying they have seen me out and about..

I would rather that than being appoached by a stranger in the street

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No but I text a girl I was talking to on pof asking her if she just drove past me in a car, and she replied saying she thought so.

We never talked again though, I assume she didnt like what she seen.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

How did he upload the pics onto fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So Sunday milling around asda, got my groceries for the week. Home and popped it away. Checked my messages only to see a lad had followed me round asda.

Having taken pics of me and sent them to me via fab.......

Feeling a little violated. Rather he came and spoke than do that.

Anyone else had this happen to them? "
yes I feel totally violated she was gorgeous mind

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"There was another lady i heard of that got followed home and beaten up last week after a fab meet.

Some weird folk on here "

This is all kinds of wrong and scary. No one deserves that.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"How did he upload the pics onto fab?"

Direct message

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

visiting Glasgow

That’s really creepy

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"How did he upload the pics onto fab?

Direct message "
i still don’t understand how?

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

visiting Glasgow

I would also contact the police and they will contact the supermarket - so that the cctv footage is retained and this incident recorded against the person

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"You should report him really

I did report to admin as soon as I saw it "

That's all you need to do.

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