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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to sort a meet out on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve only been on here for two weeks. Plus if I’m honest your profile wouldn’t inspire me to contact you

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its not if your a decent guy with a decent profile that sends out proper decent messages

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There are many, many more guys than any other demographic. You really need to stand out. And even then, it's hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been on here before and never managed to meet anyone speak to some but never met anyone. Wud love to find someone as naughty as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to sort a meet out on here "

Its easy peasy watch people interact and learn also improve your profile and have a sence of humour dont say things like for example i just shit myself and it ran down my leg and u will be fine just have patience and be willing to learn it cant hurt

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By *verageguy123Man
over a year ago

Selby

It’s down to your approach and attitude, that and lucky timing. When you log on search to see how many ladies want to meet men in your area, then change your search to men wanting to meet ladies and I think the quantity difference will give you your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you put as much effort into your profile as you did into your forum posts you might do a lot better.... maybe

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"if you put as much effort into your profile as you did into your forum posts you might do a lot better.... maybe "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really isn't that hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One simple thing could change your luck get verified and also fyi not all meets have to be about sex attend some organised social events that helps with the verifications and also be abit more detailed in your intro sell yourself to the fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it?

You’ve only been on here two weeks. Give your profile a revamp, some pics, join in on the forums and socialise. Hit the chat rooms and get a cam verification, go to clubs and socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it?

You’ve only been on here two weeks. Give your profile a revamp, some pics, join in on the forums and socialise. Hit the chat rooms and get a cam verification, go to clubs and socials "

As helpful as ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it?

You’ve only been on here two weeks. Give your profile a revamp, some pics, join in on the forums and socialise. Hit the chat rooms and get a cam verification, go to clubs and socials "

Actually - you have a fair few pics already, well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it?

You’ve only been on here two weeks. Give your profile a revamp, some pics, join in on the forums and socialise. Hit the chat rooms and get a cam verification, go to clubs and socials

As helpful as ever "

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it?

You’ve only been on here two weeks. Give your profile a revamp, some pics, join in on the forums and socialise. Hit the chat rooms and get a cam verification, go to clubs and socials

As helpful as ever

Thanks! "

Most welcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything worthwhile takes effort. A 'meet' has a person at the other end of it. People are complicated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was verified from cam on my last profile but cudnt get a meet with anyone. Think il have to up date my profile a bit then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything worthwhile takes effort. A 'meet' has a person at the other end of it. People are complicated. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was verified from cam on my last profile but cudnt get a meet with anyone. Think il have to up date my profile a bit then "

Think it may take rather more than rearranging words on a profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was verified from cam on my last profile but cudnt get a meet with anyone. Think il have to up date my profile a bit then

Think it may take rather more than rearranging words on a profile..."

It usually does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I will see what happens just be nice to get some meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will see what happens just be nice to get some meets "

Well the best of British luck with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will see what happens just be nice to get some meets "

So just gonna ignore the adveice then so what was the point of doing a thread then?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I’ve been on here before and never managed to meet anyone speak to some but never met anyone. Wud love to find someone as naughty as me "

naughty as me?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's as hard as you want to make it for yourself OP - it's entirely within your control to improve your chances of a meet even though you can't guarantee one - there's numerous ways you an do that most of which have been covered here - your choice whether to follow the advice or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covey some of your personality into your text on your profile.

Your pics are your shop window but your text is what will invite people in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats me, buddy, two in 2 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's as hard as you want to make it for yourself OP - it's entirely within your control to improve your chances of a meet even though you can't guarantee one - there's numerous ways you an do that most of which have been covered here - your choice whether to follow the advice or not "

As cryptically challenging as ever

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It's as hard as you want to make it for yourself OP - it's entirely within your control to improve your chances of a meet even though you can't guarantee one - there's numerous ways you an do that most of which have been covered here - your choice whether to follow the advice or not

As cryptically challenging as ever "

You want it on a plate?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Why is it so hard to sort a meet out on here "

It isn’t that difficult, you just have to find the people who want to meet you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Be sociable and in it for the long haul. It's not a market where every man can pull meets every day and some will come off better than the others who are out competed. Learn, adapt and explore. Meet many of us at swingers clubs - most of us will chat, have a drink etc, if there's not pushy pressure to shag.

If you get more and better sex when you have not used your multiple fab accounts, maybe you are not going to do as well here.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. I would've thought you might have had benefit of having veen here before, to assist you this time?

You've only been here 2-3 weeks. It isn't Instant Shag!

You have to "sell yourself" to make you stand out from the 100's of other guys.

That means a profile of longer than the 1 liner one you have now!

Get to Socials, Clubs and so on of which there are plenty in the W Mids.

It takes Patience and Perseverance and lots of it. Good Luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry, have patience.

Start to pay attention when does ladies in your area go online the most. Pick that time such as 6pm-10pm on weekdays.

Dump out as many eye catching messages as you can, don’t expect them to reply.

Start off by enjoying more viewers, then replies.

Small steps

Keeping up a conversation isn’t the easiest, sometimes one message could put them off for whatever their reason is.

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