FabSwingers.com forum: First meet won’t get a verification ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I couldn’t believe my luck. I finally got a meet on here. Lovely woman and I guess a guys dream as we met she said “ you do know we are going to be fuc%#^g”. But then me and my big mouth. As I reached for the condom she said “ you don’t need that I can’t get pregnant”

I said “ but what about health issues STI’s and STD’s?” She looked at me as if I had just shit in her dinner and told me I was a time waster and freak and I had to ferk off. Oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you went full Neo and dodged a bullet there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah well...

Strange dream

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

This is why I don’t agree to meet men who haven’t read my profile

Yeah it’s a shitty situation but you should have read it

Ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

I retract my previous statement. You're an idiot for not reading her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So calling you a timewaster isn't that bad really, You had wasted her time if that is on her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

And there is the reason its so important to read a profile

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By *bmarley77Man
over a year ago

Nr Derby

"I couldn’t believe my luck. I finally got a meet on here. Lovely woman and I guess a guys dream as we met she said “ you do know we are going to be fuc%#^g”. But then me and my big mouth. As I reached for the condom she said “ you don’t need that I can’t get pregnant”

I said “ but what about health issues STI’s and STD’s?” She looked at me as if I had just shit in her dinner and told me I was a time waster and freak and I had to ferk off. Oops. "

Taxi for one - home James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

That'll teach you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It highlights the importance of reading profiles, good communication as well as patience. Veris aren't solely from people who have had sex though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It will teach me I’m sure. I thought today in the world we live in people should take care of themselves.

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

You should maybe get yourself checked out just in case.... Specsavers will be very sympathetic

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

Lesson learned then, the only redeeming part is that you didn’t throw the condom away and have sex with her.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

What?? So, you actually met a girl from here, but, didn't read her profile?

Sorry, but, that beggars belief, in my book. It's the first thing I'd do after seeing photos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should maybe get yourself checked out just in case.... Specsavers will be very sympathetic "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time.

What?? So, you actually met a girl from here, but, didn't read her profile?

No photos. She had joined about two days before the meet. I messaged asked if she fancied a social that was that. (She’s got a profile pic)

Sorry, but, that beggars belief, in my book. It's the first thing I'd do after seeing photos. "

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

well just points to that you never read the profile properly in the first place.

however on the condom note you choose to have one, than to have unprotected sex.

however not a time waster at least you met up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No photos. She had joined about two days before the meet. I messaged asked if she fancied a social that was that. (She’s got a profile pic)

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well we live and learn don't we.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you actually met a woman, yet did not once read her profile? Oh for Christ sake!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection."

It is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So you actually met a woman, yet did not once read her profile? Oh for Christ sake!

Gullible and guilty. Thing is I normally do read profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So you actually met a woman, yet did not once read her profile? Oh for Christ sake!

Gullible and guilty. Thing is I normally do read profiles. "

It probably wasn't the best time to deviate from that normality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always read the contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lesson in there if you look carefully...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh daaaaang it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s a lesson in there if you look carefully..."

I’ve learned.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?"

I’m getting grief because she reckons I said she had clap!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Should have gone for the bj first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?

I’m getting grief because she reckons I said she had clap!"

Haven't you blocked her already?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection.

It is"

So neither of you read each other's profile then?! Well you're both as daft as each other I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?

I’m getting grief because she reckons I said she had clap!"

Oh, you left her a veri then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?"

I think he has more to worry than the lady being pregnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

Why I read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?

I’m getting grief because she reckons I said she had clap!"

Block move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection.

It is

So neither of you read each other's profile then?! Well you're both as daft as each other I'd say."

Its a little funny, when you think about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

run away with the circus ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection.

It is

So neither of you read each other's profile then?! Well you're both as daft as each other I'd say.

Its a little funny, when you think about it

It is,it's normally the other way around as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’m meeting someone, I usually read their profile numerous times...to make sure we are compatible and also to get excited about us meeting...

...would have thought most people would do that.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

This is hilarious

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"When I’m meeting someone, I usually read their profile numerous times...to make sure we are compatible and also to get excited about us meeting...

...would have thought most people would do that. "

Exactly. I'm the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications can be more trouble than there worth OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

Seriously, why didn't you discuss this before you had sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I’m meeting someone, I usually read their profile numerous times...to make sure we are compatible and also to get excited about us meeting...

...would have thought most people would do that. "

And make footnotes?

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"This is hilarious

Isn't it, just

Hello again, by the way

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Couldnt you have just said after the STI thing "just kidding with you" smile at her and toss the condom away and carry on with doing the deed.

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I said “ but what about health issues STI’s and STD’s?” She looked at me as if I had just shit in her dinner and told me I was a time waster and freak and I had to ferk off. Oops. "

You don't say what age she is.

The post reminded me of a lady I heard interviewed on BBC Radio Scotland a few years ago.

She had been widowed for a few years, had never been with another man, and was persuaded by friends to go on holiday to Spain.

She met a man there and had unprotected sex.

In her mind, protection was all about unwanted pregnancy. She was through the menopause and therefore did not consider protection necessary.

Some while later, she was diagnosed with HIV.

She agreed to be interviewed as part of an NHS campaign to raise awareness among older generations about the need for protection from STDs. She seemed quite sanguine about it.

I wonder how many more there are like that lady?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"This is hilarious

Isn't it, just

Hello again, by the way

Bonjour encore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should of said to your penis. "Looks like it's your lucky day." And chucked away the condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I’m meeting someone, I usually read their profile numerous times...to make sure we are compatible and also to get excited about us meeting...

...would have thought most people would do that.

And make footnotes?"

And notes about other parts of their body too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection."

And add that you don't read profiles.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "
are you for real? You hadnt even bothered reading her profile. Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Try your luck and ask her for a verification, what's the worst she can say...."I'm pregnant"?

I’m getting grief because she reckons I said she had clap!

Block move on"

Did and have done.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Maybe stick it on your profile you always use protection.

It is

So neither of you read each other's profile then?! Well you're both as daft as each other I'd say."
ive got tears streaming down my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think the only thing that would have been funnier was if she had stayed clearly in her profile that she was a pre op tv

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Should of said to your penis. "Looks like it's your lucky day." And chucked away the condom."

No no no you bad boy, that’s not the way it’s done round these parts

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

You really couldn't make it up!!

Even putting aside that it was in the profile, one thing I'm always careful to discuss with anyone I'm meeting is boundaries, both mine and theirs and that would include the use of condoms - in fact I normally check any allergies to latex too so I can make sure I have the right type!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!"

Why not? He did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

She could’ve lied about not being able to get pregnant. What proof did she have? I always carry condoms. It’s surprising the number of guys who don’t have any.

I had the coil and now on the pill and being 50 the last thing I want is to get pregnant. I still use a condom. Better safe than sorry.

I admire anyone who stands by their principles. I’ve turned guys down if they didn’t have a condom.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Well what a silly lady she is ... and what a sensible chap you are ..... you gotta look after your pecker .... you dont want cock rot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!"

Ironically I had a meet only the other day and didn't get a veri from it. So it does happen. But the rest of this story... two people meeting without ever having read each other's profiles... yeah right. My money's on this being an attempt to do a "look at me" and "aren't I a good boy" thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

Haha, that did cross my mind because if I'd fucked up like that I wouldn't come on here and admit it!!

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By *igh Tower69Man
over a year ago

Luton

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time.

What?? So, you actually met a girl from here, but, didn't read her profile?

Sorry, but, that beggars belief, in my book. It's the first thing I'd do after seeing photos. "

Agreed. How you got her to meet you is shocking if you didn't even read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should of said to your penis. "Looks like it's your lucky day." And chucked away the condom.

No no no you bad boy, that’s not the way it’s done round these parts

Im only joking. Always carry protection. But I am a bad boy and need to be spanked

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over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I said “ but what about health issues STI’s and STD’s?” She looked at me as if I had just shit in her dinner and told me I was a time waster and freak and I had to ferk off. Oops.

Escaped a bullet there matey!

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in what way.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Ah well...

Strange dream

Obviously I’m not going to say who she is but in her profile ( I should have read) says bare back every time. "

She wasn’t in a van was she?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"but in her profile ( I should have read)"

And therein lies the issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

Haha, that did cross my mind because if I'd fucked up like that I wouldn't come on here and admit it!!"

New to the site I thought people may be honest. I do read profiles this one I didn’t. Still finding my way around on here thanks for the comments.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

Haha, that did cross my mind because if I'd fucked up like that I wouldn't come on here and admit it!!

New to the site I thought people may be honest. I do read profiles this one I didn’t. Still finding my way around on here thanks for the comments. "
but she was honest if you had read her profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand why men do not like to wear a Condom.. it does take away the feeling..but I can never understand why a woman does not want a men to wear one.. apart for spunk up your fanny does effect the way the sex feels ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

Haha, that did cross my mind because if I'd fucked up like that I wouldn't come on here and admit it!!

New to the site I thought people may be honest. I do read profiles this one I didn’t. Still finding my way around on here thanks for the comments. but she was honest if you had read her profile"

And that’s true.

The reason I posted this was maybe a little advice not for ppl to “ look at me” etc like it’s already been mentioned by others. I appreciate the comments and I’ve learned what not to share.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

Haha, that did cross my mind because if I'd fucked up like that I wouldn't come on here and admit it!!

New to the site I thought people may be honest. I do read profiles this one I didn’t. Still finding my way around on here thanks for the comments. but she was honest if you had read her profile

And that’s true.

The reason I posted this was maybe a little advice not for ppl to “ look at me” etc like it’s already been mentioned by others. I appreciate the comments and I’ve learned what not to share. "
what advice where you looking for. Unfortunatly you learnt your lesson the hard way. Always read profiles and always discuss bounderies and dont arrange meets when your feeling horny you need to think with your brain. However, i dont think you should take full responsibility she was just as bad for not reading your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You couldn't make this shit up could you???!

Why not? He did

Yeah, if there's no veri it didn't happen!

Typical case of thinking with your cock not your head!!

Haha, that did cross my mind because if I'd fucked up like that I wouldn't come on here and admit it!!

New to the site I thought people may be honest. I do read profiles this one I didn’t. Still finding my way around on here thanks for the comments. but she was honest if you had read her profile

And that’s true.

The reason I posted this was maybe a little advice not for ppl to “ look at me” etc like it’s already been mentioned by others. I appreciate the comments and I’ve learned what not to share. what advice where you looking for. Unfortunatly you learnt your lesson the hard way. Always read profiles and always discuss bounderies and dont arrange meets when your feeling horny you need to think with your brain. However, i dont think you should take full responsibility she was just as bad for not reading your profile"

I got the advice read profiles. This was a social not a defo sex meet. Foolishly I took advice from another post saying turn on the location who’s near. We hit it off then the rest happened. I reckon it’s because I’ve only got an inch and a wrinkle

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