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"Skipping breakfast really won't help you. Eating in the mornings is what kick starts your metabolism. One reason why i've always been overweight is because never eat breakfast and often only have one proper meal a day - the body goes into starvation mode. You can target areas to build muscle but you can't target fat removal. When you lose body fat it goes from everywhere. Crunches, sit ups etc will help muscle definition around the abs but to lose weight and body fat you need to watch your diet and do regular cardio sessions. Exercise can only do so much if you are eating shite. I lost over 6 stone through exercise alone but didn't lose another ounce because of my poor diet." I mean the breakfast thing is a myth. Making breakfast the most important meal of the day was a very good marketing scheme. If you want to lose fat quickly then look up keto. Some people can and some people can't do it. Otherwise you just need to eat less. Try downloading myfitnesspal and log what you eat. Take a week and eat normally and weigh yourself every morning before you eat. If you don't add on weight average your daily calories and take something like 500 off and you should lose weight. As for putting on muscle since you said you haven't done much you'll adapt quickly. If you only have machines and dumbbells then you can still make a program using them. If you can let me know what you have I could probably knock something together that should keep you going for a while. | |||
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"I did the skipping breakfast thing, because that seemed to be what that fasting thing is about.... eat reasonably from 2pm - 8pm... I’m trying to do that around twice a week. I’m hoping with just two meals and less snacking, my calorie intake should lower. Also, with the gym, I’ll be going from doing not much, or irregular exercise to something more regular, which should burn more calories than I usually do. " That's a good start. I think a good place to start with exercise is a bodyweight routine. Have a look online to find one. It's better than going to the gym mindlessly and without a plan. | |||
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"Skipping breakfast really won't help you. Eating in the mornings is what kick starts your metabolism. One reason why i've always been overweight is because never eat breakfast and often only have one proper meal a day - the body goes into starvation mode. You can target areas to build muscle but you can't target fat removal. When you lose body fat it goes from everywhere. Crunches, sit ups etc will help muscle definition around the abs but to lose weight and body fat you need to watch your diet and do regular cardio sessions. Exercise can only do so much if you are eating shite. I lost over 6 stone through exercise alone but didn't lose another ounce because of my poor diet. I mean the breakfast thing is a myth. Making breakfast the most important meal of the day was a very good marketing scheme. If you want to lose fat quickly then look up keto. Some people can and some people can't do it. Otherwise you just need to eat less. Try downloading myfitnesspal and log what you eat. Take a week and eat normally and weigh yourself every morning before you eat. If you don't add on weight average your daily calories and take something like 500 off and you should lose weight. As for putting on muscle since you said you haven't done much you'll adapt quickly. If you only have machines and dumbbells then you can still make a program using them. If you can let me know what you have I could probably knock something together that should keep you going for a while. " Thank you. That would be uber appreciated! There’s a treadmill, bike, stepper, dumbbells that go up to around 25kg, adducter machine, abducter machine, lat pull down thing, leg press and that’s about it. I’m here for about two weeks and then I should be moving to a compound. They’ve got one or two more things like a bench press, so I guess I can maybe use that to do deadlifts too, and theres that contraption where you pull some rope across your body.... Apologies for being rather ignorant! | |||
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"I did the skipping breakfast thing, because that seemed to be what that fasting thing is about.... eat reasonably from 2pm - 8pm... I’m trying to do that around twice a week. I’m hoping with just two meals and less snacking, my calorie intake should lower. Also, with the gym, I’ll be going from doing not much, or irregular exercise to something more regular, which should burn more calories than I usually do. That's a good start. I think a good place to start with exercise is a bodyweight routine. Have a look online to find one. It's better than going to the gym mindlessly and without a plan." Very true!! I’ve downloaded an app called You are your own gym which looks worth trying. | |||
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"I did the skipping breakfast thing, because that seemed to be what that fasting thing is about.... eat reasonably from 2pm - 8pm... I’m trying to do that around twice a week. I’m hoping with just two meals and less snacking, my calorie intake should lower. Also, with the gym, I’ll be going from doing not much, or irregular exercise to something more regular, which should burn more calories than I usually do. That's a good start. I think a good place to start with exercise is a bodyweight routine. Have a look online to find one. It's better than going to the gym mindlessly and without a plan. Very true!! I’ve downloaded an app called You are your own gym which looks worth trying. " How often would you be looking to go?? | |||
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"Weight training is great for burning calories, especially as your body carries on burning them for a while after while it is recovering. Just make sure you push yourself when training, you'll get the most out of it if you push it to that failure rep ![]() When I approach that failure rep, particularly on leg or shoulder exercises, I become wary I may perhaps injure myself | |||
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"I did the skipping breakfast thing, because that seemed to be what that fasting thing is about.... eat reasonably from 2pm - 8pm... I’m trying to do that around twice a week. I’m hoping with just two meals and less snacking, my calorie intake should lower. Also, with the gym, I’ll be going from doing not much, or irregular exercise to something more regular, which should burn more calories than I usually do. That's a good start. I think a good place to start with exercise is a bodyweight routine. Have a look online to find one. It's better than going to the gym mindlessly and without a plan. Very true!! I’ve downloaded an app called You are your own gym which looks worth trying. How often would you be looking to go??" While I’m at the hotel, I think I could go daily...even if it’s just to get in the treadmill for 20mins on the days I’m not going to lift any weights. | |||
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"So... I’ve moved away for work and I’ve currently got a bit of time on my hands... I weigh about 81kg, which is probably at least 6kg more than I should. Much of the softness is around my tummy... Anyway, long story short. I’d like to get rid of the tummy and back fat/love handles, get close to a six pack and get a bit more muscular. I’m currently skipping breakfast every few days... trying to eat better, which isn’t easy as I’m on a takeaway diet till get an apartment with a kitchen. There’s a little gym in my hotel. Some running machines, a stepper, exercise bike, a leg press and some other bits and pieces that you pull and push. No squat rack or anything that enables those compound exercises though. Ive never done the gym thing, so I’m not sure how to construct a series of gym sessions. Any tips for a man who wants to feel sexy enough at a swingers club ...or the beach...to strip down to his tightie whities..?" eat less bad stuff...eat more good stuff...drink plenty of water and exercise more | |||
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"Has anyone tried the 'fat freezing' treatment? In just the last year I have started developing the dreaded middle age spread and the start of a pot belly which I hate! My problem is I don't need to lose weight as I am actually under 8 stone but not sure what the best thing would be for me ![]() I'm exactly the same although I'm 8 stone. I've got my backside back to the gym now so that helps. I also started to do videos from Utube on my tv,ab work for beginners I found a pretty gentle one to do which is good. Some of them are still hard even though it says for beginners. I don't think I'll ever get rid of my middle aged spread,but I'm trying to eat better and exercise more. Let's see how long I keep it up for. | |||
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"Has anyone tried the 'fat freezing' treatment? In just the last year I have started developing the dreaded middle age spread and the start of a pot belly which I hate! My problem is I don't need to lose weight as I am actually under 8 stone but not sure what the best thing would be for me ![]() Interesting! Maybe a bit of exercise will help I used to rely on sex for that, but as I haven't had any for 16 months, that hasn't helped ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Has anyone tried the 'fat freezing' treatment? In just the last year I have started developing the dreaded middle age spread and the start of a pot belly which I hate! My problem is I don't need to lose weight as I am actually under 8 stone but not sure what the best thing would be for me ![]() ![]() ![]() I'll keep my fingers crossed you like what you see,my last one didn't quite go to plan hopefully yours goes a damn sight better. | |||
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"I stopped having biscuits so often that's my limit , some ladies love a dad bod ![]() They love the assured person behind the bod methinks.... | |||
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"If all the suggestions don't work.. come find me ! I love a dad bod ! " The guys giving them seem to be in pretty decent shape. Love is a strong emotion... what is it about a slightly podgy tummy that you like..? | |||
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"If all the suggestions don't work.. come find me ! I love a dad bod ! The guys giving them seem to be in pretty decent shape. Love is a strong emotion... what is it about a slightly podgy tummy that you like..?" I have been told that my cuddles are rather nice ...is that it..? | |||
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"So you can try this every other day just swapping the days. This is just weights obviously look to do some cardio as well. Hopefully there's a Swiss ball at your gym (big bouncy ball) Day 1: Do these back to back (one set of exercise one then one set of exercise two) Goblet squat or leg press 4 sets 8-15 reps. Stiff leg deadlift with dumbbells 4 sets 8-15 reps. ------- Press ups 4 sets as many reps as you can. Single arm dumbbell row 4 sets 8-15 reps. ------- Lateral raises 4 sets 8-15 reps Bicep curls 4 sets 8-15 reps Lat pulldowns 4 sets 8-15 reps ------- Planck's 5 sets 1 minute holds Russian Twist 5 sets 15 reps each side. Day 2 Bulgarian split squat 4 sets 8-15 reps Swiss ball hamstring curls 4 sets 8-15 reps This exercise is where you get a Swiss ball and lie on your back with your feet on top of the ball. Then squeeze your glutes so that the only points of contact are your upper back with the floor and your feet on the ball. Then bend your knees and bring your feet towards your bum. Then extend your legs. That's one rep. ------ Seated overhead Dumbbell press 4 sets 8-15 reps Pull ups/chin ups 4 sets as many as you can. ------ Flat Dumbbell press 4 sets 8-15 reps Chest supported row 4 sets 8-15 reps ------ Hanging knees to chest 4 sets as many as you can do. Side plank 4 sets 1 minute hold each side. If you want to blast some cardio at the end I'd recommend tabata. 20 seconds of work 10 seconds of rest 8 reps Choose Burpees, jump lunges, on a bike or rowing just off the top of my head. You work hard for the 20 seconds. If done right it's a killer. " Gonna google some of this..! Thanks dude! | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering" In particular there’s this part, just under my tummy which looks like small a c-section scar..... that needs to go....even if it gets me more girls than Ric Flair in the 80s...it has to go. | |||
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"I'd be so fucking happy with 81kg." If that’s genuinely true...then you can do it. | |||
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"So... I’ve moved away for work and I’ve currently got a bit of time on my hands... I weigh about 81kg, which is probably at least 6kg more than I should. Much of the softness is around my tummy... Anyway, long story short. I’d like to get rid of the tummy and back fat/love handles, get close to a six pack and get a bit more muscular. I’m currently skipping breakfast every few days... trying to eat better, which isn’t easy as I’m on a takeaway diet till get an apartment with a kitchen. There’s a little gym in my hotel. Some running machines, a stepper, exercise bike, a leg press and some other bits and pieces that you pull and push. No squat rack or anything that enables those compound exercises though. Ive never done the gym thing, so I’m not sure how to construct a series of gym sessions. Any tips for a man who wants to feel sexy enough at a swingers club ...or the beach...to strip down to his tightie whities..?" Skipping breakfast is a great task. It will help you even though people say it doesn't. Look into intermittent fasting and all of its benefits. Kinobody is amazing, look at his stuff on the net. I discovered him a few months ago and I've made progress every week since. It's an attractive lifestyle too, eating big meals and fun workouts that focus on getting a V-shape body like in the movies. | |||
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"If all the suggestions don't work.. come find me ! I love a dad bod ! " You really don't though | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering" Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity | |||
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"So... I’ve moved away for work and I’ve currently got a bit of time on my hands... I weigh about 81kg, which is probably at least 6kg more than I should. Much of the softness is around my tummy... Anyway, long story short. I’d like to get rid of the tummy and back fat/love handles, get close to a six pack and get a bit more muscular. I’m currently skipping breakfast every few days... trying to eat better, which isn’t easy as I’m on a takeaway diet till get an apartment with a kitchen. There’s a little gym in my hotel. Some running machines, a stepper, exercise bike, a leg press and some other bits and pieces that you pull and push. No squat rack or anything that enables those compound exercises though. Ive never done the gym thing, so I’m not sure how to construct a series of gym sessions. Any tips for a man who wants to feel sexy enough at a swingers club ...or the beach...to strip down to his tightie whities..? Skipping breakfast is a great task. It will help you even though people say it doesn't. Look into intermittent fasting and all of its benefits. Kinobody is amazing, look at his stuff on the net. I discovered him a few months ago and I've made progress every week since. It's an attractive lifestyle too, eating big meals and fun workouts that focus on getting a V-shape body like in the movies. " ![]() | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity " That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself. | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself." Replying to me or the person who said women like dad bods? | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself. Replying to me or the person who said women like dad bods?" You. | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself." Me too | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself. Replying to me or the person who said women like dad bods? You. Why do you think she was being truthful though? " *wasnt | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself. Replying to me or the person who said women like dad bods? You. Why do you think she was being truthful though? *wasnt" Well if you read what I typed in the first reply you'd know | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering" Because it has little to do with "what women love" and much to do with how you want to be. | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity That's a weird thing to say. I prefer an athletic body myself. Replying to me or the person who said women like dad bods? You. Why do you think she was being truthful though? *wasnt Well if you read what I typed in the first reply you'd know" Clear. As. Mud. Thanks. | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Because it has little to do with "what women love" and much to do with how you want to be. " Yup. | |||
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"Women love dad bods why go thru the pain and suffering Women like guys with dad bods because it reminds them how much better they are than the guy and it comforts their insecurity " I'm fat. I don't think the percentage of body fat I carry makes me better or worse than anyone. So no,someone else's body doesn't make me feel better or worse about my own. I don't have insecurities either. I assume if he's fucking me then he's physically attracted to me. | |||
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"If all the suggestions don't work.. come find me ! I love a dad bod ! The guys giving them seem to be in pretty decent shape. Love is a strong emotion... what is it about a slightly podgy tummy that you like..?" I like the heftyness (I think that's a word) of their tummy smacking into my arse during doggy style. I also like laying on my front and having a fairly heavy guy lie on top of me with his full body weight. I think the cuddles are better as well.. | |||
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"If all the suggestions don't work.. come find me ! I love a dad bod ! The guys giving them seem to be in pretty decent shape. Love is a strong emotion... what is it about a slightly podgy tummy that you like..? I like the heftyness (I think that's a word) of their tummy smacking into my arse during doggy style. I also like laying on my front and having a fairly heavy guy lie on top of me with his full body weight. I think the cuddles are better as well.." Think you’re right about the he cuddles... I like you’re reasoning x | |||
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