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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here’s Our graham with a quick reminder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are they treating it like a dating site?

What are the rules of sex sites?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

People are entitled to use the site as they see fit within the bounds of the rules. Including wanting some basic rapport or compatability before meeting for sex (which is when I most often hear this complaint).

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

In what way is it a dating site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

It's actually a swingers site

And people can choose to use it however they wish

Namaste

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

It's a sex site?

I thought it was a messaging site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to date.

Don't like it? Don't meet me.

Toodles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"
coz we all want different things

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Maybe you're giving off the "looking to date" vibe

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

I thought this was eBay....... no wonder I’ve not sold anything.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you're giving off the "looking to date" vibe "
am I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it a meeting or dating site for swingers?

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Another one who thinks if he snaps his fingers woman's nickers will fall off good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another one who thinks if he snaps his fingers woman's nickers will fall off good luck"
Can I nick your virginity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Thought it was a Swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*meets*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not a sex site, it’s a swinging site. And that encompasses a whole world of different relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uh oh, you’ll ruffle the feathers of the ‘proper swingers’ referring to it as a sex site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I AM looking for more than just a casual shag.

At the end of the day this site is many things to many people

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

...because I want to find the love of my life to smoother in affection. I'm not getting anywhere on dating sites and would like to find someone a little more open minded.

I've done with just meeting people for sex on here that's out of my system,I want your soul as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

It’s a swingers site, it’s called fab swingers not fab sex

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects


"I thought this was eBay....... no wonder I’ve not sold anything.....

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No it’s against site rules to Pay, pal

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Oddly enough I like to be compatible with those I fuck.

If I just wanted sex I'd use my dildo, but I actually enjoy conversation too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a place to buy ice creams.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

It’s a swingers site, it’s called fab swingers not fab sex"

There's a bank in Manchester that serves coffee to its customers. The "it's a sex site" crowd make me imagine people walking into that branch for coffee and complaining about all the banking going on.

Want to use it as a sex site? Go ahead. But it's a bit baffling complaining about swingers on a swinging website.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Oddly enough I like to be compatible with those I fuck.

If I just wanted sex I'd use my dildo, but I actually enjoy conversation too.

"

Have you considered a talking dildo?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Oddly enough I like to be compatible with those I fuck.

If I just wanted sex I'd use my dildo, but I actually enjoy conversation too.

Have you considered a talking dildo? "

Tried it once but the convo was a little one sided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them."
hear here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

Feel free to try another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them."

This made me chuckle. This is exactly how it should be.

OP why are you so concerned with people looking to date? Is it because you think that those behaving this way are lessening your potential pool of people to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oddly enough I like to be compatible with those I fuck.

If I just wanted sex I'd use my dildo, but I actually enjoy conversation too.

Have you considered a talking dildo?

Tried it once but the convo was a little one sided "

Hey!!!!!!

It’s difficult to get a word in...

I thought we got on brilliantly

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

They are welcome to use this site as a dating site if that’s what works for them.

Why does it bother you so much?

People who use POF which is a dating site often use it just for sex... nothing wrong with that.

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I'm looking to maybe date and find long term partner..a vanilla relationship isn't my thing so I'm not likely find my ideal match on most other sites ....however I dont advertise the fact massively

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Another one who thinks if he snaps his fingers woman's nickers will fall off good luck"
not a toll Maybe asking a question people like to get so bitchy on here makes me laugh

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them."

Don't talk crazy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them.

This made me chuckle. This is exactly how it should be.

OP why are you so concerned with people looking to date? Is it because you think that those behaving this way are lessening your potential pool of people to meet? "
now to be honest I mainly put this up because I think the replays are funny you all get so funny when someone puts something up you don’t like if u don’t like what am asking move along instead of getting funny over it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site"
feel free to get off my thread

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them.

This made me chuckle. This is exactly how it should be.

OP why are you so concerned with people looking to date? Is it because you think that those behaving this way are lessening your potential pool of people to meet? now to be honest I mainly put this up because I think the replays are funny you all get so funny when someone puts something up you don’t like if u don’t like what am asking move along instead of getting funny over it "

It sounds like you're rationalising not getting the answer you want. Which I find enormously amusing.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them.

Don't talk crazy"

Great pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread "

why not stick to fabguys

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

I thought it was a site fir playground recreational apparatus.

I’ll have to be more careful in the future

But now I’m here I may as well stay lol x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them.

Don't talk crazy

Great pic."

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Its whatever you want it to be...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread

why not stick to fabguys "
why don’t you go away if u don’t like what you reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread

why not stick to fabguys why don’t you go away if u don’t like what you reading "

Easy tiger

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text."

Most of the guys on here are on pof etc anyhow work that one out

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text."

I get abuse for being online if I'm not prepared to meet anyone who asks at no notice. Apparently anything other than instant gratification without considering what I want is time wasting and I should be banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text.

Most of the guys on here are on pof etc anyhow work that one out "

Really? How ironic lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text."

Fancy a date?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread

why not stick to fabguys why don’t you go away if u don’t like what you reading

Well I put one thing up and get haw many people getting funny so eveyone shod take it easy insted of getting pissy

Easy tiger"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text.

Most of the guys on here are on pof etc anyhow work that one out "
thy want a fuck there worked it out for you lol ??

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By *urved HunnyWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I thought this was eBay....... no wonder I’ve not sold anything.....

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Its like saying POF is where you find a marriage partner. Until a minority of you guys understand that this is a site not primarily for fucking, the better this site will be.

I get abuse all the time saying I shouldn't be on here and that I should try a dating site. Hence my profile text.

Most of the guys on here are on pof etc anyhow work that one out thy want a fuck there worked it out for you lol ?? "

Well well aren't you the clever one

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Funnily enough the OP just sent me this pm “Sooooo funny aren’t you twat”

Think it says more about him than me....

and then you blocked me lol ?? go cry some where els mate called you twat becouse your replay was so funny wasn’t really had me going haw old are you Egan ??

Now now children, play nicely "

Don't tell them that,I'm in the mood for banging heads together.

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By *ools47Woman
over a year ago

Failsworth


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See now what I do, and yes, I know it's a bit radical, is do my thing and let others on here do theirs and look for people who sing from my song sheet, passing by the ones that don't. How people go about their business on here and what they seek is entirely up to them.

This made me chuckle. This is exactly how it should be.

OP why are you so concerned with people looking to date? Is it because you think that those behaving this way are lessening your potential pool of people to meet? now to be honest I mainly put this up because I think the replays are funny you all get so funny when someone puts something up you don’t like if u don’t like what am asking move along instead of getting funny over it

It sounds like you're rationalising not getting the answer you want. Which I find enormously amusing. "

I wondered this too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread

why not stick to fabguys why don’t you go away if u don’t like what you reading "

I'm quite enjoying it tbh…

I don't think it warrants popcorn though

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

If its a sex site then y am i not getting any sex ?

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread

why not stick to fabguys why don’t you go away if u don’t like what you reading

I'm quite enjoying it tbh…

I don't think it warrants popcorn though "

Salted for me please

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

Feel free to try another site feel free to get off my thread

why not stick to fabguys why don’t you go away if u don’t like what you reading

I'm quite enjoying it tbh…

I don't think it warrants popcorn though

Salted for me please "

Sweet for me.... thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

What ......

I’m trying to trace my ancestors, typed in the family name “ swinger “ No wonder I ain’t found any of them yet an I’ve been on here for months now....

Well I’m up for a date instead tho ......

Any offers???

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!

What ......

I’m trying to trace my ancestors, typed in the family name “ swinger “ No wonder I ain’t found any of them yet an I’ve been on here for months now....

Well I’m up for a date instead tho ......

Any offers???

"

Don’t let the OP catch you having a sense of humour.....

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"
this status and those that write stupid stuff like this .....

ok it’s a sex site and not a dating site ... does that mean none of us should have standards? ... that we drop our knickers for everyone who asks? ... I don’t honestly get where your going with the question OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like Facebook on here now.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's like Facebook on here now."

What are you having for your tea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people treat this like a dating site when it’s a sex site !!!!!!!!"

In what ways are you finding people to be treating it as a dating site?

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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners


"It's like Facebook on here now.

What are you having for your tea?"

And I’ve got some funny cat videos......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like Facebook on here now."

Datebook ....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's like Facebook on here now."

I'm certainly not seeing those kinds of pussies on mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I treat it the same as I do a dating site, is that a problem OP?

Shame really as I was going to ask you out on a date.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

For those who want to read the forum rules, it would save you getting a ban

To anyone else, sometimes it is best to back off rather than keep "bantering" when it isn't welcome

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