FabSwingers.com forum: One for the men: a dilemma

By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

So, you're chatting to a woman in a club and it's all going well and you think its going to happen, when she suddenly starts coming out with opinions on politics, religion or whatever that you really disagree with and make you think she's a bit of an idiot.

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a man

Butttttt

I’m keen to know what the gents think

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By *ust for BeckyMan
over a year ago

Godalming

All of the above at some point in the past...

One was so sure of her nonsense that I had to put her right, no matter what the consequence.

We agreed to disagree after a night of heated discussion..

We still did it....

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By *ealmaxMan
over a year ago

South west

If it’s religion or politics probably A as everyone has different opinions on this which is healthy. But if they were racist views/opinions I would go with B and damn the consequences

Love a good debate but can’t abide ignorance

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By *inkyLondonpair OP Couple
over a year ago

London

"If it’s religion or politics probably A as everyone has different opinions on this which is healthy. But if they were racist views/opinions I would go with B and damn the consequences

Love a good debate but can’t abide ignorance "

Actually, I think you're right. Outright racism would stop me even if the person was incredibly hot. If it was something like. "I think brexit will make us all richer", it would probably be A...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A... but it would be a one night stand. I'll never see her again.

I've met a few ladies I disagree with politically or that I thought weren't the sharpest tool in the box. But sex is a wonderful thing and I can hold my tongue (no pun intended) for one night of passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, you're chatting to a woman in a club and it's all going well and you think its going to happen, when she suddenly starts coming out with opinions on politics, religion or whatever that you really disagree with and make you think she's a bit of an idiot.

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

Strange one really. It would depend on what was said really because I’m pretty laid back and can brush things aside. Like said it’s a club it’s not like I’m looking to date them. But at the same time if it was something that offended me a lot I would probably just leave it and move on

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By *hatty479Man
over a year ago

Lewisham

Can I go option D

Use very confusing and intelligent sounding words that mean little to the point that she'll just start kissing you to shut you up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply say

"I prefer not to talk about those topics as they can ruin friendships while also dragging other people in and causing heated debates"

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By *ealmaxMan
over a year ago

South west

"If it’s religion or politics probably A as everyone has different opinions on this which is healthy. But if they were racist views/opinions I would go with B and damn the consequences

Love a good debate but can’t abide ignorance

Actually, I think you're right. Outright racism would stop me even if the person was incredibly hot. If it was something like. "I think brexit will make us all richer", it would probably be A... "

But brexit WILL make us all richer, won’t it?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

If I’m in a club A

If I’m in a relationship A (I like conversation and debate)

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By *ealmaxMan
over a year ago

South west

"Can I go option D

Use very confusing and intelligent sounding words that mean little to the point that she'll just start kissing you to shut you up

I’ve changed my mind, I like option D!!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

B. I like an intelligent discussion and I like a woman with an opinion even if it's different to my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A or B, depending on how desperate i am to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the argument.

If it's something I don't agree with, that's fine, I don't expect everyone to think the same way I do.

If she's not very clever but a nice personality anyway then fine.

If it's an opinion that makes her a down and out racist, then I'll do without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E - aggressively fuck them whilst continuing the discussion. People seem to see my point of view when they’re bent over with my hand inside them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B. Preferably whilst he’s balls deep and desperate to cum

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

My first instinct was C every time BUT on reflection and as others have said I think it would depend how opposed to my views hers (or even his) were and also how "out there" they were - there may be occasions where A or B might factor - however if those views were so contrary to mine then C without a doubt.

It's a thought that's actually occurred to me in the past but from a slightly different angle - given that most of the time those topics don't arise in a club environment: have I actually had sex with someone who if I knew their views on a specific subject I wouldn't have done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

How big are her tits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw her on her back and stick your tongue in her peach (Not to rough of course). See how long it takes for her to lose her train of thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of A and B.

I don't need to know what her character is like in order to have sex with her, but once I know, it will have an impact on attractiveness.

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By *hatty479Man
over a year ago

Lewisham

"E - aggressively fuck them whilst continuing the discussion. People seem to see my point of view when they’re bent over with my hand inside them.

This right here is marriage material

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Probably enter into debate, depending on how that went then move to a more intimate discussion!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

"Communism is a nice theory it just doesn't work in practice" - B.

It's a horrible idea and horrible in practice.

"I really want a socialist government so we can have a fairer system" - A,

Time to use your mouth intelligently and put a cock in it

"Stalin did a lot more good than bad" - C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she’s fit, I’d put up with any bollocks she spouted, maybe later you would say you thought her opinion on Betty’s hot pot were way out of line and Jackson Pollock wasn’t just throwing paint about a bit, but it represents the Guernica landscapes at the time of the revolution.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"If she’s fit, I’d put up with any bollocks she spouted, maybe later you would say you thought her opinion on Betty’s hot pot were way out of line and Jackson Pollock wasn’t just throwing paint about a bit, but it represents the Guernica landscapes at the time of the revolution."

So you'd fuck a feminist then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you'd fuck a feminist then? "

Yes, even if she was a feminist who voted Tory, not very likely but it could happen.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

If she's pretty and sensible A but we will get to option B first before A, however if she's up her own C I would not waste my time.

Those decision will be made in the first 5 mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opinions are like asrholes, we all have one.

Some you may agree with, some you may not.

Unless they were totally offensive views, I don't see what difference it would make as to whether you pay or not

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id be off. Whether i agreed or disagreed with their view. Couldnt think of anything more boring than someone starting to spout off about religion or politics in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id be off. Whether i agreed or disagreed with their view. Couldnt think of anything more boring than someone starting to spout off about religion or politics in a club"

This

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By *elloIntrigueMan
over a year ago

North West UK

B and C for me if I felt strongly about the subject.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I would take the opportunity to fit her with a ball gag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I'd struggle not to be forthright and debate with her (just one on one though... not a mass debate)

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

So you'd fuck a feminist then?

Yes, even if she was a feminist who voted Tory, not very likely but it could happen."

So basically you'd fuck Theresa May then, given the opportunity. To be fair she looks much better than your average feminist.

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By *hatty479Man
over a year ago

Lewisham

So you'd fuck a feminist then?

Yes, even if she was a feminist who voted Tory, not very likely but it could happen.

So basically you'd fuck Theresa May then, given the opportunity. To be fair she looks much better than your average feminist. "

Wow I didn't realise a cock could become an innie but that sentence did it, well done

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

So you'd fuck a feminist then?

Yes, even if she was a feminist who voted Tory, not very likely but it could happen.

So basically you'd fuck Theresa May then, given the opportunity. To be fair she looks much better than your average feminist.

Wow I didn't realise a cock could become an innie but that sentence did it, well done

Come on, she's better than diane abbott. But I'd probably fuck Hillary Clinton over both of them.

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By *hatty479Man
over a year ago

Lewisham

So you'd fuck a feminist then?

Yes, even if she was a feminist who voted Tory, not very likely but it could happen.

So basically you'd fuck Theresa May then, given the opportunity. To be fair she looks much better than your average feminist.

Wow I didn't realise a cock could become an innie but that sentence did it, well done

Come on, she's better than diane abbott. But I'd probably fuck Hillary Clinton over both of them. "

Wait, are we playing 'Fuck, marry, kill' the politian version as that tends to be a lose/lose game

Although, the US UN ambassador isn't bad and does Ivanka count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

This is a swinger's club you're talking about? If so and assuming it was religion or politics or something that polarizes opinion that I was on the opposite side of the fence to her on (not racism or some huge no-no amongst everyone with a brain in which case it's a straight B or C dependant upon the atmosphere at the club) then I'd state my differences briefly whilst charming the pants off her in every other way imaginable...Once it came to playtime though and the demon that was arousal had filled both of us then I'd pin her, whisper in her ear that we were going to settle that silly debate now and in the most enjoyable way imaginable, through mutual orgasm....we were to pleasure the living fuck out of each other and whoever came first would have to admit that they were in the wrong, no ifs or buts...

And I'd enjoy her eating humble pie very much indeed...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Although, the US UN ambassador isn't bad and does Ivanka count?

You filthy boy, go wash yer mouth out with soil

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

If she's chatting that much maybe it isnt going as well as you think it is

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

There always room to agree to disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was switched and a guy i didnt agree with his views. I would walk away. There would clearly be no connection between us and im not out to shag anyone or desperate :/

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There always room to agree to disagree

Monty Python

www.youtube.com/watch?v=wdoGVgj1MtY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Racism no. But differing views on religion, politics or social issues is okay.

A different view point can be an insightful. Better still if the person is intelligent and articulate... I might be swayed... or I might just enjoy the debate.

The key for me is how it comes across. Talking at me? Or speaking with me?

Being condescending/ignorant?

Or persuasive?

Calm? Or getting uptight?

It would be pretty boring if we all thought the same. And very limiting if you only surround yourself with people who hold the same opinions.

And err... is he a tall & buff?

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By *riefcase_WankerMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Probably mostly B; I can't help myself so A is pretty much off the table, because even if I was really desperate for a shag my mouth would start going "Actually..." before my brain or cock had a chance to catch up.

They'd have to be really fucking on one for it to be C though, because I quite like the challenge and even if they were a rabid Daily Mail sort, I'd still want the opportunity to change their mind (despite the unlikeliness of this happening)

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

B/C, I can't have sex with some one just because they look good.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Any single male would sure say A unless as you say the attraction was already sketchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B. But I wouldn't fuck ger anyway

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

Ignore her views and get her bucked. Being from Northern Ireland it is something that has to be done.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A: I’m a bit shallow sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if her fannys tight and to the left or right..she has my interest to shag it with spite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B or C. Never A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell her she's had to much wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I always carry a ball gag for such situations.

Apply gag and bonk away with no fear of her talking about politics during doggy style

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By *bonynivoryCouple
over a year ago

market harborough

If I'm in a club and the conversation turned to politics or anything similar then I already know I'm wasting my time. We're there to have fun, if the conversation gets serious I'm moving on already whether I agree or now.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"A: I’m a bit shallow sometimes. "

Have you tried taking a long walk off a short pier

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To us if we cannot comect at a fun level, we walk.

Spending time working isn’t being offset

by closed minded opinions, where is the fun in that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I always carry a ball gag for such situations.

Apply gag and bonk away with no fear of her talking about politics during doggy style

I'd be genuinely interested in your flat earth theories/hollow earth theories..

no need to be gagged...ridiculed maybe..then fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

C. If she came across to me as an idiot, then I wouldn't have enough respect for her to sleep with her, or would I compromise my own self-respect or disrespect her in that kind of situation.

Nothing wrong with different views though, especially if the person you differ with puts forward a cohesive argument that's not based on bigotry or ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would definitely be A, afterwards we would be having the B conversation though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I always carry a ball gag for such situations.

Apply gag and bonk away with no fear of her talking about politics during doggy style

I'd be genuinely interested in your flat earth theories/hollow earth theories..

no need to be gagged...ridiculed maybe..then fucked

What happens when you put water on a plate?

What happens when you put water on a ball?

*mind blown*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

For me its a ‘ B’ every single time . They could be DDG and a lot more . However, if their thinking and politics were not on my lines it would be a ‘walk away ‘ from the situation possibly after explaining to them the error of their ways and realigning their outlook a bit . Can’t be a hypocrite or sycophant ever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why I always carry a ball gag for such situations.

Apply gag and bonk away with no fear of her talking about politics during doggy style

I'd be genuinely interested in your flat earth theories/hollow earth theories..

no need to be gagged...ridiculed maybe..then fucked

What happens when you put water on a plate?

What happens when you put water on a ball?

*mind blown*

hahahahha the old theres "no Currrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrvatuuuure"

You know , most know it..every flattard fuckwit regurgitates a model that cant describe...I've just watched a hollow earth video..22k liked the video. FUCKTARDS!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was making a valid argument then B. If she is just regurgitating some bollocks that it's trendy to spout, then C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you do?

A. Be diplomatic and non committal, keep the conversation going and hope you can still get a shag.

B. Engage her in heated argument and sod the consequences.

C. It would put you right off and you would disengage as quickly as possible.

If I am honest with myself, if I really fancied her physically, it would be A. It's just sex, and I never have to see her again.

If the attraction wasn't that strong, probably C. "

Don't worry about it, she'll think you're the idiot and either just use you for sex or fuck off

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I am also not a man but have been in this situation. It depends on how much their opinion affects me or those close to me and how much of a deal-breaker it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly left leaning, if the girl was banging on about Brexit and Tommy Robinson(Stephen Yaxley-Lennon, convicted mortgage fraudster and all round violent prick) then yea, I dont think I could put up with that...

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