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"No - as long as you can prove it's after separation" I Defo can prove that. How sure are you? | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck " I don’t want it to go to court | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court " What does your wife say? | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? " not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage " It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage " Do you have children together ? | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? " define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ?" we do | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property?" If you split in 2014 and you bought the house in 2017 then doesn't the 3 year separation rule mean you're effectively both independent of each other anyway? | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too "And me. you are now sworn in .... you may be seated.... Stop showing your fanny in the forum please it's disrespectful. | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too "I’m seeking guidance based on other previous experiences. When it comes to the act I’ll seek legal advice | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do" If they are under 18, you are royally screwed  | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do" Ah Ha ! | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? If you split in 2014 and you bought the house in 2017 then doesn't the 3 year separation rule mean you're effectively both independent of each other anyway?" no idea! Thus my question! lol | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do If they are under 18, you are royally screwed "yes both under 18. | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
And me. you are now sworn in .... you may be seated....
Stop showing your fanny in the forum please it's disrespectful."You can potentially win a case by showing pussy | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha !" anhhh haaa what lol | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? If you split in 2014 and you bought the house in 2017 then doesn't the 3 year separation rule mean you're effectively both independent of each other anyway?" But still legally married | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha ! anhhh haaa what lol " She gets the house if kids stay with her | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha ! anhhh haaa what lol She gets the house if kids stay with her "she’ll not get house if I sell it lol. | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha ! anhhh haaa what lol She gets the house if kids stay with her she’ll not get house if I sell it lol. "No she'll get the money | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha ! anhhh haaa what lol She gets the house if kids stay with her she’ll not get house if I sell it lol.
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha ! anhhh haaa what lol She gets the house if kids stay with her she’ll not get house if I sell it lol.
No she'll get the money she’ll not if I spend it lol. "Or she might have to pay you if you had a negative equity  | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage Do you have children together ? we do Ah Ha ! anhhh haaa what lol She gets the house if kids stay with her "Is this known from experience? I thought he may be ok, not keep all of the equity but pretty much most of it due to the 3 year separation. If solicitors get involved they will however seek all financial disclosure including savings, investments, pensions, debts etc. Which could potentially be split equally. Again I'm uncertain due to the length of time separated before your investment | |||
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"I thought each partner kept their seperate property and the family home was up for split along with any other property bought jointly during co-habiting period? " not sure on this. I bought the property after we split. | |||
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"I thought you had to be together 20 years and own a dog. " Or show your pussy in court  | |||
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"I thought you had to be together 20 years and own a dog. " Where the fuck have you been ? eh ? It's the cd's that matter ......... the cd's and the napkin rings ! | |||
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"I thought each partner kept their seperate property and the family home was up for split along with any other property bought jointly during co-habiting period? Would Citizens Advice be able to help? not sure on this. I bought the property after we split. " | |||
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"No .... Seek a consultation from a family solicitor to be sure. "No way???!!! I thought everyone on here was a legal expert | |||
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"I thought you had to be together 20 years and own a dog. Or show your pussy in court "pussy ......... | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ?" Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday | |||
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"No .... Seek a consultation from a family solicitor to be sure.
No way???!!! I thought everyone on here was a legal expert "What ? I've had two reds. I'm not only an expert, i'm rewriting law as it unfolds before me...... | |||
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"I thought you had to be together 20 years and own a dog. Where the fuck have you been ? eh ? It's the cd's that matter ......... the cd's and the napkin rings ! " Considering you can’t split a dog 
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"No .... i very much doubt it, if it has never been a ‘matrimonial’ home. Seek a consultation from a family solicitor to be sure. "my solicitor is saying her view is I will have to pay something. But that’s only after a phone call. I’ve to go see my solicitor face to face next week | |||
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"No .... Seek a consultation from a family solicitor to be sure.
No way???!!! I thought everyone on here was a legal expert "Some are | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday" Does she work ? | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ?" yes she works. We both work. She works part time. Me full time. She has one other child whom she had after we split | |||
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"I thought you had to be together 20 years and own a dog. Where the fuck have you been ? eh ? It's the cd's that matter ......... the cd's and the napkin rings ! Considering you can’t split a dog
FYI "When I split from my Vietnamese husband we........ poor fido .....nice bbq tho | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ? yes she works. We both work. She works part time. Me full time. She has one other child whom she had after we split " Hmmmmmmmmm does she co habit with the father of that child ? | |||
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"I thought you had to be together 20 years and own a dog. Where the fuck have you been ? eh ? It's the cd's that matter ......... the cd's and the napkin rings ! Considering you can’t split a dog
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When I split from my Vietnamese husband we........ poor fido .....nice bbq tho "That particular husband was Korean | |||
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"No .... i very much doubt it, if it has never been a ‘matrimonial’ home. Seek a consultation from a family solicitor to be sure. my solicitor is saying her view is I will have to pay something. But that’s only after a phone call. I’ve to go see my solicitor face to face next week "Don't do anything stupid, I have a mate that married his divorce solicitor. Turns out they're no fun when you divorce them. They may however be fun in their heels and skirt on the desk. | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ?" Keep up, Granny. Asked and answered. | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. " My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out" I'm biting my tongue regarding this matter! | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ? yes she works. We both work. She works part time. Me full time. She has one other child whom she had after we split Hmmmmmmmmm does she co habit with the father of that child ?" no they’ve since split. She lives alone | |||
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"People never get married! " Too late! Good advice in the modern world | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out I'm biting my tongue regarding this matter!" Yep, same here, maybe on the other side of the fence | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out" That’s cause your ex lied! I was director of a ltd company earning £60k per year and I paid my ex on my weekly earnings. I could have fiddled it but I never | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world" New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out" This was for 2 children aswell not 1! | |||
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"I wouldn’t go into the ins and out of your situation on a public forum like this OP, get in touch with Citizens Advice or contact a family/property solicitor who will have access to your paperwork etc." True that. I had good advice from people privately that were not involved in my situation, but not publicly like this. Best keep the specifics more private to people you trust | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ? Keep up, Granny. Asked and answered. " Do not underestimate my questioning techniques lickety .......... Is the woman employed ? | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out This was for 2 children aswell not 1!" Did he help out much? This does role me a little | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners "Ha ha fuck buddy it is then. Know of any going? | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too "
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying... | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ? Keep up, Granny. Asked and answered. Do not underestimate my questioning techniques lickety .......... Is the woman employed ?" yes she’s employed | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out That’s cause your ex lied! I was director of a ltd company earning £60k per year and I paid my ex on my weekly earnings. I could have fiddled it but I never " Obviously you have a conciseness, my ex didn’t. It was his business he employed 7 people , yet because it’s a ltd company the CSA can’t do frig all! According to them he earned a wage as a director. | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out I'm biting my tongue regarding this matter! Yep, same here, maybe on the other side of the fence " Probably on the same side when it comes to greed and parental responsibility | |||
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"Okay unicorn this is a serious Q...... There is no reason for you to answer of course but i'm asking with a serious head on ... Do the children live with 'her' and what access do you have ? Hi. Yes kids live with her. I have kids every second weekend Friday to Monday. And every Wednesday. I collect and Leave the kids to school everyday Does she work ? Keep up, Granny. Asked and answered. Do not underestimate my questioning techniques lickety .......... Is the woman employed ?" And why is it always woman getting the money lol spice up the court little bit | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying..."And if my granny had balls she’d be my granda | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out That’s cause your ex lied! I was director of a ltd company earning £60k per year and I paid my ex on my weekly earnings. I could have fiddled it but I never Obviously you have a conciseness, my ex didn’t. It was his business he employed 7 people , yet because it’s a ltd company the CSA can’t do frig all! According to them he earned a wage as a director. " He most likely did earn a wage. The Ltd company is tricky. | |||
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"Legally you were still married when you bought the property so she does have a potential claim but court will look at all other aspects.. it’s not a simple 50/50 Good luck I don’t want it to go to court What does your wife say? not really discussed it. I’m afraid to bring it up as she may then see the £ signs. We get on ok. I just don’t think It’s right she could get 50% as it was my deposit and I’m paying mortgage It won’t be 50% for sure.. is she self sufficient? define self sufficent? Lol she works as do I. Since the day and hour we split I’ve paid her direct via bank account based on CSA calculator. My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out That’s cause your ex lied! I was director of a ltd company earning £60k per year and I paid my ex on my weekly earnings. I could have fiddled it but I never Obviously you have a conciseness, my ex didn’t. It was his business he employed 7 people , yet because it’s a ltd company the CSA can’t do frig all! According to them he earned a wage as a director. He most likely did earn a wage. The Ltd company is tricky. " Oh don’t I know this!! | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying..."But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free "possibly poor advice lol ?? | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free possibly poor advice lol ?? "It’s all good advice as you know more now than you did before | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free possibly poor advice lol ??
It’s all good advice as you know more now than you did before "possibly. I’ll still seek expert legal advice. My gut feeling is she’s entitled to something | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free possibly poor advice lol ??
It’s all good advice as you know more now than you did before possibly. I’ll still seek expert legal advice. My gut feeling is she’s entitled to something "Yes, you need tailored legal advice and my feeling is the same just because you have kids. If you didn’t have kids you would’ve been fine. | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free possibly poor advice lol ??
It’s all good advice as you know more now than you did before possibly. I’ll still seek expert legal advice. My gut feeling is she’s entitled to something
Yes, you need tailored legal advice and my feeling is the same just because you have kids. If you didn’t have kids you would’ve been fine. "My solicitor said all cases different. Issue is there is equity in the property. But that’s a long story why there is! But it’s a false equity | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free possibly poor advice lol ??
It’s all good advice as you know more now than you did before possibly. I’ll still seek expert legal advice. My gut feeling is she’s entitled to something "It’s a mind field and there’s lots of loops and holes. It’s not as straight forward. I was with my ex 15 yrs had 2 children we had 3 property’s together but 2 business properties in HIS business name yet they were bought through one of our houses being re-mortgaged, it’s not straight forward sometimes. X | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too
Everyone is just GUESSING and they all think they're right.
The following is NOT a guess:
A divorce is a contentious issue. It is contentious because the parties rarely agree & force a third party (a judge) to decide for them.
I'm sure some judges do read this forum but I can promise you that their opinion will NOT be enforceable in a Court.
If you can't agree, then you will have to go to an FDR hearing (Financial Dispute Resolution) & if you still can't agree you will have to let a judge decide for you, taking into account ALL the facts of the case.
Broadcasting details in a public domain prior to any hearing is unlikely to do anyone any favours, though-just saying...
But he’s got £500 quid of advise for free possibly poor advice lol ??
It’s all good advice as you know more now than you did before possibly. I’ll still seek expert legal advice. My gut feeling is she’s entitled to something
Yes, you need tailored legal advice and my feeling is the same just because you have kids. If you didn’t have kids you would’ve been fine. My solicitor said all cases different. Issue is there is equity in the property. But that’s a long story why there is! But it’s a false equity "Solicitors always say that and they will probably be the winners of this financial battle | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people "Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you | |||
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"Folks to clarify I will seek expert legal advice. I’m only asking people’s experiences on this matter. " And don’t marry again for fuck sake | |||
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"It’s complicated all I can say is I had a house before I married my ex .we had two children when we split up I had to pay the mortgage and Csa payments .she stayed in the house it went to court a judge decided I had to sell her the house for what I paid for it which was something like £30,000 even though it was solely in my name .was worth over £100,000 at the time and I got to keep the endowment policy and cash that in .oh and eldest son moved in with me when he was 13 and youngest one she kicked out when he was 16 and left school x never really thought it was fair but fuck it now her new husband is as miserable as I was x " madness! | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people "I’ve had a similar first hand experience and he’s asked for opinions, sorry I didn’t know you had to be qualified to respond | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
I’ve had a similar first hand experience and he’s asked for opinions, sorry I didn’t know you had to be qualified to respond "You don’t have to be qualified but it helps | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners "No they don’t! If they did I’d be a millionaire - as it is I just get maintenance! There is no such thing as the legal rights of a ‘common law’ wife - however long you’re together - even if you give up work to look after the kids 24/7 so your partner can work to build up a business! | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
I’ve had a similar first hand experience and he’s asked for opinions, sorry I didn’t know you had to be qualified to respond
You don’t have to be qualified but it helps "Yes obviously it does. But if someone posts a question in here it’s only asking for people’s experiences, there obviously not going to quote in a court of law Julie from Fabs swingers said this or that. Jeeeeez | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
I’ve had a similar first hand experience and he’s asked for opinions, sorry I didn’t know you had to be qualified to respond
You don’t have to be qualified but it helps
Yes obviously it does. But if someone posts a question in here it’s only asking for people’s experiences, there obviously not going to quote in a court of law Julie from Fabs swingers said this or that. Jeeeeez"Yes but with all due respect your advice was shit | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you"You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue. | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners
No they don’t!
If they did I’d be a millionaire - as it is I just get maintenance! There is no such thing as the legal rights of a ‘common law’ wife - however long you’re together - even if you give up work to look after the kids 24/7 so your partner can work to build up a business!
When did you separate? "Six years ago! We were never married but were together 11 years and engaged for about 8 years! | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners
No they don’t!
If they did I’d be a millionaire - as it is I just get maintenance! There is no such thing as the legal rights of a ‘common law’ wife - however long you’re together - even if you give up work to look after the kids 24/7 so your partner can work to build up a business! "Yep | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue. "Why do you care? | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue. "He’s asking opinions or experiences not legal advise | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners
No they don’t!
If they did I’d be a millionaire - as it is I just get maintenance! There is no such thing as the legal rights of a ‘common law’ wife - however long you’re together - even if you give up work to look after the kids 24/7 so your partner can work to build up a business!
When did you separate?
Six years ago! We were never married but were together 11 years and engaged for about 8 years! "I did say, new law | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
I’ve had a similar first hand experience and he’s asked for opinions, sorry I didn’t know you had to be qualified to respond
You don’t have to be qualified but it helps
Yes obviously it does. But if someone posts a question in here it’s only asking for people’s experiences, there obviously not going to quote in a court of law Julie from Fabs swingers said this or that. Jeeeeez
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property?" My brother bought a house, then he paid half again to a girlfriend. Few years later he paid half again to first wife, few years later he paid half again to second wife... Spend a few hundred on real legal advice, or you may be giving the keys to your ex and paying off the mortgage while living in a shoebox in the middle of t' road. | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care? "Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum. I'm also a caring person... | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care?
Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum.
I'm also a caring person..."Everyone who’s commented is a caring person , most of the threads on here are people giving opinions or experiences. Billy bob joe asked about buying a house the other week, in that respect only quantity surveyors can reply? | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care?
Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum.
I'm also a caring person...
Everyone who’s commented is a caring person , most of the threads on here are people giving opinions or experiences. Billy bob joe asked about buying a house the other week, in that respect only quantity surveyors can reply?"What about threads about meets? Does that mean that 99.7% of us men are ineligible to add a comment? ?? | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care?
Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum.
I'm also a caring person...
Everyone who’s commented is a caring person , most of the threads on here are people giving opinions or experiences. Billy bob joe asked about buying a house the other week, in that respect only quantity surveyors can reply?
What about threads about meets? Does that mean that 99.7% of us men are ineligible to add a comment? ??"Don’t ask me I was only quoting that you have to be qualified to reply | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care?
Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum.
I'm also a caring person...
Everyone who’s commented is a caring person , most of the threads on here are people giving opinions or experiences. Billy bob joe asked about buying a house the other week, in that respect only quantity surveyors can reply?"Yes, so caring that they are prepared to risk absolutely nothing whilst giving out opinions which are wrong & could have very detrimental consequences for the OP if he thinks they sound credible. Whether you can bear to hear it or not, that's the bottom line here. Btw its a Conveyancer that deals with the legalities buying & selling of houses. | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care?
Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum.
I'm also a caring person...
Everyone who’s commented is a caring person , most of the threads on here are people giving opinions or experiences. Billy bob joe asked about buying a house the other week, in that respect only quantity surveyors can reply?
Yes, so caring that they are prepared to risk absolutely nothing whilst giving out opinions which are wrong & could have very detrimental consequences for the OP if he thinks they sound credible.
Whether you can bear to hear it or not, that's the bottom line here.
Btw its a Conveyancer that deals with the legalities buying & selling of houses."Yes I’m well aware, I’m just trying to point out that it’s a site for help and support. There’s no need to be putting people down for giving their experiences or advice. I didn’t give advice I only said my experience | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people...." In what way is it a criminal offence? By my understanding it is only an offence to offer advice when stating that you are legally qualified but. In fact are not. Please feel free to direct us to the statute that backs up your assertion though... | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people.... In what way is it a criminal offence? By my understanding it is only an offence to offer advice when stating that you are legally qualified but. In fact are not. Please feel free to direct us to the statute that backs up your assertion though..." S.20 of The Solicitors Act 1974 For information, due to our wonderful constitutional system, our 'Law' is made up of both Statute & Precedent. Precedent established in dealing with S.20 has evolved and is now regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority. If you wish to argue about this, I suggest you contact me at work where I'll be happy to discuss case authorities with you. You'll need to PM me for my details though | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? Can you provide evidence that you were not a couple in 2017? Not living together etc? yes. The fact I make payments to her bank account weekly titled “csa payments” and that we live at 2 separate address Then in my experience she’s not entitled to anything from that property, but I’d go and seek advice. I’ve been there done that. Good luck OMG...this is so wrong Why do people give unqualified opinions & then say 'but go & get advice' ? Its just irresponsible people
Is that directed to me? I’m just saying my experience, sorry if that offends you
You obviously don't need to apologise to me as your experiences won't affect me at all. My comments are aimed at anyone who isn't a Matrimonial Lawyer or Barrister who feels qualified to offer the OP their wonderful opinion on this complex legal issue.
Why do you care?
Because its important to maintain standards within the legal profession & for personal reasons which I don't want to disclose on a public forum.
I'm also a caring person...
Everyone who’s commented is a caring person , most of the threads on here are people giving opinions or experiences. Billy bob joe asked about buying a house the other week, in that respect only quantity surveyors can reply?
Yes, so caring that they are prepared to risk absolutely nothing whilst giving out opinions which are wrong & could have very detrimental consequences for the OP if he thinks they sound credible.
Whether you can bear to hear it or not, that's the bottom line here.
Btw its a Conveyancer that deals with the legalities buying & selling of houses.
Yes I’m well aware, I’m just trying to point out that it’s a site for help and support. There’s no need to be putting people down for giving their experiences or advice. I didn’t give advice I only said my experience "And how do you not know that billy bob wasn’t asking about the legalities of buying a house? Jumping to conclusions. I’ve had lots of great help and advice on here over the years and lots of people with experience, that helps a lot to some people with no circle of friends to reach out to. | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people.... In what way is it a criminal offence? By my understanding it is only an offence to offer advice when stating that you are legally qualified but. In fact are not. Please feel free to direct us to the statute that backs up your assertion though... S.20 of The Solicitors Act 1974 For information, due to our wonderful constitutional system, our 'Law' is made up of both Statute & Precedent. Precedent established in dealing with S.20 has evolved and is now regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority. If you wish to argue about this, I suggest you contact me at work where I'll be happy to discuss case authorities with you. You'll need to PM me for my details though "Have PM’d you | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people.... In what way is it a criminal offence? By my understanding it is only an offence to offer advice when stating that you are legally qualified but. In fact are not. Please feel free to direct us to the statute that backs up your assertion though... S.20 of The Solicitors Act 1974 For information, due to our wonderful constitutional system, our 'Law' is made up of both Statute & Precedent. Precedent established in dealing with S.20 has evolved and is now regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority. If you wish to argue about this, I suggest you contact me at work where I'll be happy to discuss case authorities with you. You'll need to PM me for my details though "A guy was asking advice, nothing more nothing less. People gave opinions. Lots do it everyday everywhere, it’s just informal advice. Chill | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people...." That is just silly talk, OP was not seeking legal advice, just opinions. Police officers often say things like oi, robbing that bank is against the law, don't know of any bank robbers who have countered "But you are not qualified to give that advice, please arrest yourself for your criminal offence" | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people.... In what way is it a criminal offence? By my understanding it is only an offence to offer advice when stating that you are legally qualified but. In fact are not. Please feel free to direct us to the statute that backs up your assertion though... S.20 of The Solicitors Act 1974 For information, due to our wonderful constitutional system, our 'Law' is made up of both Statute & Precedent. Precedent established in dealing with S.20 has evolved and is now regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority. If you wish to argue about this, I suggest you contact me at work where I'll be happy to discuss case authorities with you. You'll need to PM me for my details though
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"If you win the lottery, even several years after your divorce she could still claim part of it. She may not get anything awarded, but the claim would be legal." Look up Finance orders and Consent orders. Info on the gov.uk website. Stops any future claims after divorce. | |||
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"Oh & by the way...it is a criminal offence to offer legal advice when you are unqualified to do so...this is whether it is or is not intended to be relied upon. So, yes, not just irresponsible people.... In what way is it a criminal offence? By my understanding it is only an offence to offer advice when stating that you are legally qualified but. In fact are not." This is my understanding too, because they may longer be regulated by the Solicitors Regulation Authority. However, nobody on this thread has willfully been passing themselves off as a Solicitor, merely giving their opinion, or their own experience. The OP has clearly stated that he is taking independent legal advice, he was just chewing the cud on here. | |||
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"You need proper legal advice cos once solicitors are involved you could be set to lose alot. Could be entitled a claim on your property, half your pension. Hell, she may even have racked up a shed load of debt when you were together that you are liable to pay half of. " I’m Already paying 1/2 the debt | |||
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"My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out That’s cause your ex lied! I was director of a ltd company earning £60k per year and I paid my ex on my weekly earnings. I could have fiddled it but I never " You can ask them to look at unearned income. | |||
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"Yes. The fab forum is where I'd look for legal advice too "Precisely. | |||
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"People never get married! Too late! Good advice in the modern world New law - if you live with your unmarried partner they have the same claim over your assets as married partners "Not true just a myth | |||
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"No - as long as you can prove it's after separation I Defo can prove that. How sure are you?" Yes, but was it a legal separation? I think there's a big difference between that and just living apart, although it pains me to say so you need to talk to a solicitor, money grabbing bastards that they are! | |||
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"In this day and age, only a complete Muppet would marry without a prenuptial agreement!. If you do, you only have yourself to blame for any financial downfall that follows." That’s a generalisation plus wouldn’t having dependant children change it anyway ? I can’t imagine a judge saying, sod the kids the pre nup stands ! | |||
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"Get a GOOD solicitor I bought my house, then met my ex, moved in, married, we later split. His name never on the mortgage. He had debts, I knew nothing about but acquired while we were married. He claimed 50% of the house in the divorce, but his debtors were already filing on the property. I lost everything. I now know I had a bad solicitor. " that’s horroble! Sorry to hear that | |||
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"My ex paid me via csa £40 per week based on their calculations! Yet he was a director of a LTD company and earned in excess of 50k plus!! Go work that out That’s cause your ex lied! I was director of a ltd company earning £60k per year and I paid my ex on my weekly earnings. I could have fiddled it but I never You can ask them to look at unearned income. " I did this and also dividends but his company was exempt to them divulging certain information due to small business act or something similar. He own a ltd accountancy company and is crafty with money. X | |||
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"In this day and age, only a complete Muppet would marry without a prenuptial agreement!. If you do, you only have yourself to blame for any financial downfall that follows. That’s a generalisation plus wouldn’t having dependant children change it anyway ? I can’t imagine a judge saying, sod the kids the pre nup stands ! " If there's one thing life has taught me it's not to merge my finances with someone else's.. Romance? Bah, humbug! | |||
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"No .... i very much doubt it, if it has never been a ‘matrimonial’ home. Seek a consultation from a family solicitor to be sure. my solicitor is saying her view is I will have to pay something. But that’s only after a phone call. I’ve to go see my solicitor face to face next week "Good idea, every case is individual and your solicitor will be able to make things clearer, once they have all the facts, in my experience, I think she will be entitled to something..When I was getting divorced my solicitor told me I could claim some of ex husband's pension, when he claimed it, I didn't think that would be fair on him..it's a minefield! | |||
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"Hi Folks, i split from my wife in 2014. In 2017 I bought a property in my name solely. I’m now looking a divorce. Would she be entitled to any equity from the property? If you split in 2014 and you bought the house in 2017 then doesn't the 3 year separation rule mean you're effectively both independent of each other anyway?" There is no 3 yr separation rule.... Its either 2 yrs or 5yrs | |||
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"I always thought until a financial order is made then everything is up for grabs, ie both have to declare what you have to be divided up. It doesn't mean it will be 50/50...other things get taken into account ie kids under 18 and pensions etc" | |||
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